Others can question me, but I can't question myself.

A girl who practiced ballet since childhood decided to take dancing as her lifelong career. One day, she went to see the head of the ballet company and said, I want to be an excellent ballet dancer. I wonder if I have this talent? ? The colonel watched her jump for a while, shook his head and said, no, you don't have this condition. ? The girl threw her dancing shoes under the box and never wore them again. Later, I got married and had children, and became a supermarket waiter. A few years later, I met the head of the ballet company again. Recalling the conversation in those years, she asked: I still don't understand one thing. How did you know that I didn't have the talent to be a dancer so quickly? ? The colonel said:? Oh, I've hardly seen you dance. I just said to you what I would say to others. ? She shouted angrily:? Your words ruined my life! ? The colonel said:? No. If you really want to be a dancer, you won't care what I say to you. ? This story gives us a serious question: what should we do in the face of doubt? Lu Chuan, who was born in a scholarly family, liked movies since he was a child. Influenced by director Zhang Yimou, he planted a dream of being a director in his mind, and wanted to apply for the Film Academy. But I was questioned by my father: I am young, I only know a little about movies, and I have no life experience and feelings. Not only can't you make a good movie, but you will also be stuck with arrogance. ? After the college entrance examination, his father stepped in and forced him to fill in the PLA Institute of International Relations. After graduation, he was assigned to the commission of science, technology and industry for national defense as an interpreter. However, Lu Chuan refused to give up his dream. Two years later, he left his excellent job, and without telling his father, he applied for a postgraduate degree in the director department of the Film Academy. After finishing my studies diligently, I worked hard in the film industry and successively filmed Looking for a Gun, Hoh Xil and Nanjing! Nanjing! Influential films such as "The Feast of the King", whose films have been captured? Golden statue? Golden horse? Rooster? He also won many awards? Excellent director award? , become one of the representatives of the seventh generation of famous directors in China. How to face doubts is the touchstone of a person's success or failure. Both Lu Chuan and that girl are dreaming and being questioned. Why are there different endings? A dream has come true and a dream has been shattered, because they have different attitudes towards questioning. Lu Chuan is confident, persistent and never gives up. Girls lack self-confidence, do not insist, and give up before questioning. Questioning is very easy to meet in our life. Some people question that you are too young and inexperienced, others question that you are too junior and incompetent, and so on. But you should have a clear head and a long-term vision. Young, I am growing; With little experience, I can accumulate; I have little experience, so I can understand; My ability is very weak, I can strengthen it through exercise! Everything can be changed, but your ideals cannot be changed, and persistence cannot be changed. Basketball star Jeremy Lin is a hero who has been questioned many times. On July 20 10, Jeremy Lin was selected by the NBA Golden State Warriors, and soon transferred to the Development League because his ability was questioned. He was quickly recalled and transferred, and this was repeated six times, and finally he was laid off by the Warriors. Just half a month after joining the rocket, I was once again questioned and abandoned. In the face of constant doubts, he is not discouraged, does not give up, perseveres, practices hard, improves his skills and enhances his ability. 2011/On February 27th, Jeremy Lin signed a contract with the Knicks and was ordered to lead the team to a seven-game winning streak. Became the NBA player with the highest total score in the first four starts since 1977, surpassing Iverson, O 'Neill and Jordan. 201February 15, at the last moment of the Knicks' game against the Raptors, he hit the buzzer with a three-pointer and even President Obama praised him. This is a great story! ? This is indeed a great story that has overcome many doubts! How to face doubts, we can't rely on emotions or impulses. We must think calmly and even reflect. After Li Ning retired, he accepted the invitation of Li Jingwei, the general manager of Jianlibao Group, as the special assistant to the general manager. After taking office, I heard some employees talking behind their backs:? Who is he in gymnastics? Prince? But I know nothing about shopping malls. Why should I be an assistant? ? Li Ning has no impulse, but calmly reflects, feeling that he is really far behind his post in management experience and business ability. Therefore, he lowered himself, approached employees, humbly asked for advice, worked overtime, and studied management and business operations. At the same time, I used my own resources in the sports circle to run around, open up markets for the company, win customers, and made impressive achievements for the company that year. Let the voice of doubt disappear. In the face of doubt, fools regard it as resistance and turn around to avoid it; The wise see it as motivation and use it for profit. China's first artificial earth satellite? Dongfanghong No.1? At the time of R&D, Qian Xuesen was ready to recommend Qi Faren to take charge of R&D, but was questioned by other experts, thinking that he was too young to be competent for such a world-famous task. At that time, Qi Faren also felt pressure and was ready to suggest that Qian Xuesen find another candidate. But when he heard everyone's doubts, he thought that the aerospace industry of the motherland needed several generations to write brilliantly, and immediately volunteered. I must accept this task and prove myself with practical actions. ? In order to do a good job in project development and demonstration, he not only studied domestic and foreign literature and classics, but also went to Shanghai, Guangzhou and other places to ask for advice humbly. When the perfect scheme was presented to the experts, the experts who were waiting to see the joke could not help but sit up and take notice, praised Qian Xuesen's insight and said that they would do their best to support and cooperate with the young Qi Faren's work. Qi Faren's success allowed him to advance in questioning, grow in practice and finally achieve him? Father of China? The reputation of. In the face of doubt, we should have a calm mind and a tolerant attitude. From 65438 to 0988, 28-year-old Lv Liping got an audition to play Quan Wang's daughter-in-law in the movie Old Well. She cherished this role very much and spent a lot of time studying the script and wondering how to shape the image of this rural woman. However, at the first audition, the director was not satisfied. Back home, Lv Liping didn't give up, but studied the script wholeheartedly and went to the countryside to experience life. Soon, the second audition was rejected by the director. Later, someone else played this role. Even so, Lv Liping didn't dislike it and didn't give up this role. She is very concerned about the cast of Old Well and presents her experience of auditioning Quan Wang's daughter-in-law to the director for reference? Just as the crew was about to start shooting, something happened to the actor who played Quan Wang's daughter-in-law. Time waits for no one, so the director naturally wants Lv Liping to save the scene. In the end, Lv Liping not only got the chance to play, but also won the Golden Rooster Award and the Hundred Flowers Award Award for Best Supporting Actress. Many examples have proved that in the face of doubt, the weak regard it as an obstacle and suppression, flinch at the touch and give up at the pressure; A strong man is a jack, and the more he touches it, the harder it is, and the more it is pressed, the higher it is, and he is not afraid of coping. Others can question me, but I can't question myself, self-confidence and persistence. Because this is the basis for overcoming doubts and realizing dreams.