50 years ago, because of a joke, the female educated youth who angrily married a farmer has become what?

Choice can be said to be one of the most important topics in life. Often many people have the same experience, but they go to completely different extremes because of different choices. As once said, "Choice is more important than hard work", because you don't know where your own choice will lead your destiny. Although many people know that every decision they make is of vital importance to their future, there are always many people who make very impulsive decisions for various reasons. What I want to say now is that a female educated youth finally married a farmer angrily because of a joke. It's been 50 years now. What kind of life has she gained from her impulsive behavior?

A little caution is better than many, and emotional impulse is difficult.

In the 1960s, countless intellectuals entered the countryside and became a member of the countryside. Bai Qixian, a college student at that time, was one of them. 1968 After graduation, she went to a brigade in Cangzhou as an educated youth. At that time, Bai Qixian had just graduated, not only had the aura of an intellectual, but also was beautiful and talented, not only in his studies. And there are many personal talents, such as singing and playing the harmonica. When she joined the team, she was welcomed by the local people. After all, it looks decent that such a talented college student is willing to come here to the countryside.

Moreover, after Bai Qixian is familiar with this place, she often performs some programs for them, which not only brings joy to everyone, enriches people's amateur life, but also makes her famous in the local area. Almost no one didn't know her, but at that time she advocated the combination of urban and rural areas. However, excellent Bai Qixian gives people a different feeling. It seems that she is still just a city resident. Even if she is here, she can blend in with everyone, but they still have the essence.

That is, at the beginning, someone asked her if she would marry a farmer and really integrate into the countryside and become one of them. At this time, Bai Qixian felt that her original intention of going to the countryside was questioned, and she was still young. She felt that she could not "admit defeat" like this, so she said it was acceptable. Then someone asked Bi Zhenyuan, the clerk of the brigade who was still single at that time, if she would agree with them.

Bai Qixian did not expect that such a topic was slowly involved in her life, and there was even a feeling that she would look down on farmers if she did not agree. It can be said that it is difficult to ride a tiger slowly. She was only in her early twenties. At that time, she didn't know what they were talking about, so in order to show her sincerity in going to the countryside, she agreed, and she never thought about the reason for a 24-year-old rural unmarried bachelor, plus she had been living in it before.

It is such a joke that Bai Qixian completed her marriage in an angry way. Her parents tried their best to dissuade her, but she thought she could live a good life. She wants to use her life to prove that cities and rural areas can be combined. Plus, she has read a book, and her thoughts are different. She can rely on her own thoughts and wisdom to get happiness. Then at 1979, the two entered the married life. Although she married Bi Zhenyuan in a fit of pique, for 20-year-old Bai Qixian, marriage and love are also worth looking forward to.

And all expectations are slowly broken in their marriage life. They have completely different ideas and lifestyles. Even if they think they have enough ability to cope with the gap between urban and rural areas, Bai Qixian can't cope. It can be said that they often quarrel, especially in rural areas, because women don't know much about many things and have a low position in the family. It can be said that it is difficult to have the right to decide, and Bai Qixian, who has been educated in the new trend of thought, has clear ideas and plans for his life, and has a fierce conflict with her husband's male chauvinism, which is completely irreconcilable.

Then the relationship between them slowly reached freezing point. Even after the child was born, Bai Qixian directly took the child to live in the teacher's apartment. However, where there are people in the countryside, there are gossips. After all, the place where they live is the same land every day. Watching them get along that day has almost become a pastime for every family, especially the separation of Bai Qixian and her husband. In the countryside at that time, it can be said that it was a news explosion.

And with the passage of time, all kinds of gossip about Bai Qixian began to spread. Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "there are many things in front of the widow's door". Single women are very easy to get into trouble, because even a word with strangers may be embellished and become an unimaginable event, which happened to Bai Qixian. Because she lives alone with her children, people gradually remember that she used to be an intellectual and now she has moved out.

Rumors are always told by others and gradually become ten points. In this way, Bai Qixian moved out alone to be with others. One news after another made Bi Zhenyuan, who was very manly, unable to sit still. He also began to suspect that these rumors might be true. After all, he knew that he really didn't deserve Bai Qixian. It was a great coincidence to be together at the beginning, but in any case, Bai Qixian is already his wife. How come?

It is said that "three men hit a tiger", and her husband slowly turned the rumor into a fact in his heart, so Bai Qixian's husband began to commit domestic violence against Bai Qixian, which can be said to make her unfortunate marriage life worse again. Faced with the heavy burden of life and her husband's domestic violence, Bai Qixian's life almost fell into despair, especially in that era, domestic violence was still very common in rural areas, almost completely absent.

In such a miserable and desperate life, Bai Qixian suffered from chronic nephritis in his thirties. In the face of physical and mental torture, Bai Qixian decided to give up this painful marriage, which has become her last retreat, but such a retreat is completely unbearable for her husband. After all, divorce in rural areas is a shameful thing, so Bi Zhenyuan totally disagrees with divorce. As a last resort, Bai Qixian took legal channels and applied for divorce through the court.

This forbearing and strong woman watched her children grow up slowly and finally gave up the idea of divorce, but one's bad habits could not be changed. She still lives in domestic violence. Finally, at the age of 38, she ended her life in an accident and put an end to her impulsive decision.