Taste, what's the best word?

Mature and exquisite

Noble atmosphere

Simple and capable

Female advantages ① Attractive charm: image, temperament and personality; 2 Elegant taste: fashion, elegance and etiquette; ③ Mature mentality: self-confidence, optimism and contentment; (4) Rich emotions: rational, brave and romantic; ⑤ Good popularity: mellow, decent and harmonious; ⑥ Extraordinary wisdom: Fiona Fang, choose and give up; ⑦ Real health: sunshine, vitality and enthusiasm.

Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, the flower of youth is no longer in full bloom and has entered middle age. The past is no longer coming, they are no longer ecstatic about every flower, and they are no longer sad for every flower. No longer world-weary, no longer haggard for affairs; The vicissitudes of time, rolling the world of mortals, have been polished into unique softness and delicacy. But as long as we seriously taste life and enjoy the taste of life, then whether it is faint fragrance or bitterness, it will be our priceless harvest.

How to be a woman with taste is very important, but how to be a mature woman with taste, wisdom and elegance is more important. People often say that the smell of women. A woman with true feelings is full of flavor, bitter like lilac, delicate fragrance like white rose and noble like red peony.

At work, several of our best women often discuss this issue together because they are similar in age. Where does the smell of mature women come from? No elegance! Where does wisdom come from! Yesterday, I read a story about a woman in a book: a woman sat in the autumn sun in September, her eyes were endless, her face was beautiful and serene, and her elegance dimmed the autumn colors a lot ... her heart suddenly jumped. The feelings of women's taste, elegance and wisdom are scattered all over the place.

Women's Day is coming, and I want to return to this topic. Looking back on my experiences with women, I have a lot of thoughts ... I always feel that a woman's life can be divided into several stages: poetry stage, prose stage, essay stage, and finally a heavy novel and ending. In my opinion, a mature woman should have the taste, elegance and wisdom:

Kindness, wit, maturity and self-esteem; Deep and rich in thought, elegant in speech and well dressed. She is equal to others, neither supercilious nor supercilious. She always has a kind expression on her face. When you talk to her, she won't compliment, criticize, brag or be aggressive. Only listen to her heart, the greatest love.

Her attitude is positive and optimistic, not decadent and indulgent, not complaining about others, kind and gentle, with an inclusive heart, independent thoughts and personality, and her own views and opinions on things. I love my job, and I can be independent and free in the unit, but she doesn't fight for power and profit, and she doesn't ask for anything in return. As her colleague, you can often feel a refreshing fragrance.

Have a leisurely life, rich cultural background, and have a calm attitude towards everything in life. It is by no means that you are too tired to run around, and you will go on the rampage or say an endless impatience when something happens. She shouldn't neglect her maintenance because of tedious housework and hard work. Should she know how to take care of herself? How to delay aging? Let your beauty continue.

Being able to play a good role in life is the pride of parents. Childish in front of children, careful and gentle in front of husband. Knowing that I am in love with someone, countless worries are entrusted to treat him gently and tolerably. Time is separate. "Life and death are rich, but you can bear it with your son. Hold your hand and grow old with your son. "

She must keep learning, constantly enrich herself and cultivate herself. Cultivate knowledge, personality, culture, enhance inner cultivation, enrich connotation, and shine from the inside out!

She is calm, quiet and open-minded. Quiet as clear water, moving like a cheerful stream. Never arrogant feelings, but rich in connotation. Yingying comes and goes leisurely. No matter how busy you are, you should take some time to devote yourself to the world of books, read some books, read a passage of prose, repair your rough soul, and make yourself gentle and lovely. I often surf the Internet and read newspapers, so I know more about family affairs, state affairs and the world. Maybe, she will practice yoga. A wide range of interests and hobbies have accumulated her introverted mind.

I don't remember reading such a sentence there: I look down on fame; Emotionally, I can see that; Officially, I can see it clearly; Money, see through, this should be the best description of mature women, so mature women are the most charming.

I envy and like a mature woman with taste, intelligence and elegance, who can make people fall in love with her inner temperament. I also want to be such a woman, but a person's knowledge level and innate character are relatively stable. Change is not so easy, you can only change gradually, restrain your behavior and make yourself the image you like in your mind. I don't even like some of my actions. How can we make others like them? So what's wrong with people constantly changing themselves to make the world more wonderful and beautiful?

A mature woman is like a book, a touching and fascinating book, which you will remember after reading. To be a woman with taste and wisdom, I tell myself and all women that if we keep a calm mind in quiet days, we are all beautiful.

Mature men taste men.

Most women like mature men, and men seem to like mature men. Some people say that young people are a small ditch and mature men are the sea. I've been thinking, is maturity really that good? Mature men are personable, humorous and talkative, mature men can cope with it freely, and mature men are stable and atmospheric. ...................................................................................................................................................

Although there is a certain relationship between men's maturity and age, it is not absolute. Some children in their twenties are quite mature in dealing with people. On the contrary, some older people have no head or tail to deal with problems. But maturity is definitely related to students' knowledge, experience and environment. I'd like to have a leaf duck. From birth, she experienced the hardships of life, tasted the warmth of human feelings, walked into the university classroom, and wasted decades. It's time to grow up, but I don't know if I'm a mature man yet, but one thing I know for sure is that I'm maturing day by day. As for whether I'm overcooked or even rotten at present, I'm not sure.

Men's maturity is as painful as their growth. I once said when chatting with a friend that the so-called maturity means getting used to things that I didn't like before. Mature men have a good temper, Zhang Chi casually said. When you meet something that doesn't suit your mind, you should be angry when you are angry, and you should not be angry when you are angry. Who can learn to tolerate without pain? Ye Ziya was not so mature eight years ago. At a meeting, she was angry because she disagreed with a factory director, so she became famous in the whole factory. A few years later, a colleague mentioned this matter and said, I said, you were immature at that time. Made a few fires, and finally there was no fire. I understand what it means to steal peacefully and what it means to swallow. People say that Lao Ye is much more mature than before, but who knows what kind of pain it is?

Mature men sometimes mean depravity. A mature man is a stone swimming in the social gravel. After years of hard work, although it may still be hard inside, the surface is extremely smooth. He has adapted to getting, accepting and learning to feel at ease. Ye Ziya always avoided being treated by some customers in the early years. At that time, he felt that eating others' mouths was short, and there was no way to refuse after a long time, because if he didn't go, others would have a problem, so he left the group. You invited him, not me. Perhaps in the eyes of my colleagues, I have matured, but I inadvertently found myself degraded.

The process of men's maturity is also the process of dreams disappearing. When a person is young, he looks forward to the future, points out the world and scolds Fang Qiu. Just like in a martial arts novel, a young man who has just made a debut, carrying a sword, is bent on challenging a martial arts master. Mature men know how to recognize reality, have no dreams and are not whimsical. There is a beautiful saying called "down-to-earth", which seems to praise mature men, but it is actually a kind of helplessness of mature men.

Mature men can only play romantic, not really romantic. As the joke says, immature men will make girls red, while mature men will make girls red. When a man is mature, he will be more lewd, but he will be more concealed. It is often heard that a girl is taken care of by a mature and steady man somewhere, and then slowly falls in love with him and so on. For a girl, this is like a moth to a fire. For a mature man, it is just a romantic trap designed intentionally or unintentionally. When you play with it, romance will cease to exist, but you will only say "this is a beautiful thing" as tightly as Miss Zhao, and God knows whether it is beautiful or not.

To survive in this society, men have to mature sooner or later. Zhou is just a fictional character. I also like to live in a childlike world when I dream, but the reality is catching up with my words and deeds day by day. On the day of surfing the Internet, I fell in love with the Internet. Because the network can bring me unrestrained happiness, I will not pretend to be mature on the network, nor will I do things tactfully on the network. I'd rather be an old playboy who is not too old online, and let mature men go to hell.

Pinwei nanren

Many years ago, when I was young, I saw the romantic appearance of the hero in novels and movies, and I wanted to be a tasteful person. I also want to have a thin belt, wear a decent suit, light cigarettes with a bang, and shout "waiter ~" for a cocktail in the bar. However, I have achieved nothing in my career, and I can't make ends meet financially. Of course, I didn't have a chance to taste men.

Taste can't be measured by a balance or a ruler. Generally, it's just an evaluation and a feeling. When writing this article, I wanted to find a straightforward expression, so I asked some friends and searched it with Baidu. Unfortunately, I got nothing.

A friend said that a man's taste is inadvertently revealed. After listening to some female friends, I probably described the characteristics of a tasteful man: a tasteful man is reserved, a tasteful man is humorous, a tasteful man is tolerant, a tasteful man has personality, a tasteful man pays attention to dressing and packaging, and a tasteful man is full of elegance and versatile. This list is enough. Anyway, I won't and can't accidentally "flow out" anything listed above. I'm tired enough just to list boxes.

If this feature is not obvious enough, then I will further talk about my research results. After thinking about it, there is a joke that coincides with my idea. It is said that a girl with a special type of work is doing well and starting a business in a place with a long history. Next to her stood a sign, the price of which read: ten lawns, twenty benches and fifty beds. A big brother, wearing a miscellaneous brand of clothes and talking backwards, unloaded fifty dollars from his waist and said to the young lady, "Exactly.". The girl smiled and replied, Mr. Wang has good taste. He wants a bed. Big Brother replied: Taste a ball, on the grass, five times.

Thinking of this joke, I immediately realized that men have no taste, qualitatively speaking, it is the difference between bed and grass; In terms of quantity, it is the difference between fifty and five tens. What people say about fashion, culture, quality and accomplishment is nonsense. Speaking of the core, it's just one way.

Some people may say that it is precisely because a person's cultivation and quality of life have improved that the way will naturally change and men will have taste. I don't think so. Before writing this article, I looked around the Internet. On September 18, I saw the news that a director threw a fan child off the stand during a performance in Tian Zhen. Fortunately, the child didn't fall. Supposedly, the director's accomplishment, quality and culture will not be lost to a man with an alternative brand like me. He will be very graceful and tasteful in his daily communication with his colleagues. I guess he will find a little girl to play with, and when he gets off the bus, he will definitely go around and open the car door, and he will also generously tip the waiter when he stays in the hotel. God, such an elegant and decent man should do such an inhuman thing in public. The point of saying this is to show that taste has nothing to do with status. Just with status, money and environment, some men will pretend to pursue taste, and Ye Gong is a dragon.

Not many people really emphasize taste, but it is not absolute. There are still some people who do this. A friend of mine doesn't have my money, but he always makes it full of flavor. Listening to the short messages he showed his wife and wrote, foul language and abuse of grammar made me goose bumps; Before every trip, everyone waited for him to comb in front of the mirror. Finally, when he finished combing, he took off his shoes and polished them endlessly. It was not until everyone was fed up that he came out with the steps of Peking Opera. Alas, he is so vivid. When everyone arrived at the hotel, Big Brother told the waiter majestically that we were going to "eat". God, one in ten thousand people in Northeast China can call "eating and drinking" a meal. When I heard this, I was already lying under the table.

I can't remember who said that it takes more than three generations to become a nobleman. I am not an aristocrat, and my grandparents were never an aristocrat. Most people in China are not aristocrats. Men still don't pursue good taste. The poor understand this truth: five times is much more real than once.

Four signs of a man's maturity

Maturity seems to be a cruel thing, representing the passing of youth and the fading of dreams. However, maturity is the direction of life, and a lasting, peaceful and happy life cannot be separated from maturity.

A sign of a man's maturity

1, despise the opposite sex

Being able to "despise" the opposite sex and not take it seriously is a sign of maturity, so put it in the first place, because this is the first step towards maturity in life. It is difficult for people, especially teenagers, and it is the only difficulty, so it becomes a symbol of maturity. When I say "contempt for the opposite sex" here, I don't mean gender discrimination. It means that men don't take women seriously and women don't take men seriously. Shallow people may have shallow questions: don't take the opposite sex seriously, so, is this okay? Isn't this too heartless? In fact, the "contempt for the opposite sex" here mainly refers to being able to understand and communicate with the opposite sex with a peaceful, healthy and calm mind. Despise is not to refuse to be fond of the opposite sex, but to refuse to see the opposite sex, which is an unhealthy psychology and performance. Both boys and girls are naive and full of curiosity and mystery about the opposite sex, which are immature performances. One day you will understand that there are so many men and so many women. We can have a good impression on the opposite sex without being curious or mysterious. This mystery and curiosity will lead to ups and downs of people's emotions, make them happy, make them miserable, make them happy and make them miserable. Maybe people in love can't stay awake as they should, but in daily life, they can often see people gaffes in front of the opposite sex. Not taking the opposite sex seriously is not to make you lose your enthusiasm for life, but to be less disappointed and hurt, and naturally calm.

2. deny yourself. Deny himself

Constantly denying yourself is a necessary condition and an important symbol of maturity. Denying oneself is a profound ideological activity, based on the understanding of truth and self, rather than belittling oneself. Denying yourself is the result of thinking, not "touching the scene." As long as you keep reflecting and facing yourself, you will always deny yourself. It is not easy to know yourself, nor is it easy to deny yourself. People are most likely to be self-righteous and opinionated. In the face of truth, no one is qualified to be conceited. There is a good saying that what we need to change most may be what we insist on most. But people often think that they are always right, regard arrogance as maturity, regard stubbornness as personality, and finally can only "regret". In fact, people's understanding is shallow, and everything is constantly changing. How can you not change? Things are changing, the situation is changing, and the truth is changing, which requires you to constantly change your original understanding and deny what you once insisted on. I showed people the trick of making fewer or even no mistakes on major issues. I said that when you encounter a problem, you should do it in the opposite way, and the result will be correct. In other words, when you think something can be done, you shouldn't do it, and when you think it can't be done, you should do it; If you think it is right, you should be sober, because you think it is right, so it is wrong. If you think it is wrong, you should also know that it is right. After listening to it, everyone didn't believe it at first, but then they tried it in practice every time and thanked them. Try it if you don't believe me.

Step 3 learn to be tolerant

Tolerance is not only a symbol of maturity, but also a realm. A naive heart will never be tolerant. They are extreme, furious and blind, and they are "as evil as enemies", but they have repeatedly made intolerable mistakes. They pursue perfection, but they don't understand their own shortcomings. In addition, Bao Jun and Qiang Q have never been tolerant. They are narrow-minded and greedy, killing countless people. In the end, stupidity can only lead to their demise. The blind pursuit of abstract justice strengthens the concept of "enemy" in people's minds. In fact, no one is a natural enemy. I remember a writer saying that a leaf can't fall without the permission of the whole tree. Similarly, it is not only a personal fault that a person becomes a criminal, but also the whole society has the responsibility. Moreover, in most cases, enemies and criminals are just artificial definitions imposed by power, not according to the standards of justice. Tolerance is not tolerance, because tolerance is still a negative resistance, and this unwise emotion is actually secretly embarrassing itself. Life experience and understanding of life constitute the premise and foundation of tolerance. Tolerance of others is also tolerance of oneself, which embodies tolerance and understanding of human defects. Therefore, tolerance is not only a kind of maturity, but also a kind of wisdom. In fact, this kind of "intolerance" is also worthy of tolerance because they are naive. Voltaire said, "All of us have shortcomings and mistakes. Let's forgive each other's stupidity. This is the first law of nature. "

Step 4 pay attention to simplicity

From the perspective of thinking ability, the sign of maturity is to have a new understanding and understanding of simplicity, and no longer regard simplicity as simplicity, or to say, no longer despise simplicity. The reason is very simple, and this simple reason lies in ordinary and simple daily life. If you can find and discover the truth from a simple place, you will get the deepest truth. Ignorant people always think they know everything and can't see anything. Ignorant people and teenagers often say: I know, I know, it's too simple, and so on. Nothing is easy for a thoughtful and exploratory person, although they can lift weights easily. When an apple falls, scientists can think about the laws of celestial bodies, a simple grain of sand through which philosophers can discover a new world. The establishment of theoretical scholarship is based on simple and primitive concepts; The emergence and deepening of ideas also comes from people's in-depth thinking about the simple world and simple problems. Engels has a point that I think is very good. He said that the root of philosophy "lies in the concept of ignorance in the age of ignorance." We can understand that philosophy (deep thinking) comes from thinking about simple things and simple world. If you really understand simplicity, then the world is not complicated.

Therefore, if you want to find the truth, you should not despise the simple things you despise, but be good at understanding and obtaining unusual truth from ordinary life and ordinary events.