How to be a bitch?

Beat about the bush and humiliate him. We should analyze his starting point. If you do this on purpose, you can save him some face first, such as beating around the bush from a certain angle. ...

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Will tell some cold jokes. If other people's mouths are mean, we should not be too sensitive and treat them calmly. We can deal with others in time, if we don't want to be too formal. ...

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Face it with a smile and take it easy. For those who are cheap-mouthed, because their words are ugly, since we know, we should not let them succeed, and we can choose not to answer them. ...

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The attitude of fighting back should be firm. If there is such a stubborn person around us, we must resolutely fight back, otherwise, he will increase the pressure on us, continue his ugly face, and add a beginning when he comes back.

It's impossible to ignore it, like what kind of dog barks at the lion and the lion will go back to take care of the dog? Listening to this kind of chicken soup is a bit boring. Even if most people haven't reached that transcendental state of cultivation, even if they have, I don't trust saints and have no temper. So don't ignore it. I don't believe that some comments are pointed at and detached. After all, elegance and anger are true.

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I saw a lecture by a foreign university professor in Weibo. Of course, I'm not talking nonsense. When I say a person cares about you, you follow his wishes. For example, when he said you were really ugly, you smiled and said with a slight smile in your eyes. Yes, I am ugly. You are so beautiful. Everything suits him anyway. In the end, he was either embarrassed or angry. I really laughed when I watched the video. That's how I played. Really, it was nothing at first. It's always been like this. Finally, the other person got angry slowly, and I didn't know how to respond. We won't know until we try. If I get this response, I don't know how to wait! No matter what he says, you should report "Just as God sent another Sabie to test me", and learn more ironic techniques of PAPI sauce, such as "I love you", "You are great" and "You are very happy" in MMP. Shut her up and let her answer! Put him on the phone.

Or the way of speaking follows his thinking, as Mix summed up in Chess Manual, "The highest state of Sibi is not to confront him but to go with him", so you found it! Guo Qian, the lower berth of Yan Yan, a college student, pretends to be a city resident. She always feels good about herself and looks down on Yan Yan who came to study in a big city from a small fourth-tier city. Always commenting on Yan Yan, in her eyes, Yan Yan is a village girl. People eat whatever they wear, and as long as she wants to be picky, she can always associate it with "country people have no taste." And every time I say it, I say it in a joking tone, and then I add, "I'm joking, don't be angry!" " "

Yan Yan always thinks that she is a dormitory, and it is a bunk bed. There is no need to be serious with her. Every time Guo Qian says something, she laughs it off. Later, after a long time, Yan Yan was also very upset. Even if you have a good temper, you can hold back your anger. However, what Guo Qian said was really depressing for a long time. Yan Yan also calmly communicated with her and asked her to talk and consider other people's feelings. However, it is of no use at all. She still goes her own way and hasn't changed at all.

Yan Yan talked about a boyfriend in her junior year. When the sisters in the dormitory found out, they all booed and asked her boyfriend to invite everyone to dinner. Everyone asked her what school her boyfriend was in and what his major was. We had a good chat. Guo Qian asked Yan Yan, "Where is your boyfriend's hometown? Are you from the country, too? But this is a better match. Haha! " Yan Yan won't tolerate her this time, so she pulled her face down and said, "Where did he come from? What do you care? Even in the country, what does it have to do with you? " Guo Qian didn't expect Yan Yan, who never speaks hard, to make fun of her. She paused and said unhappily, "I'm kidding. I can't even afford to joke!" " Yan Yan said: "You are not joking, you just have a cheap mouth!" " "Guo Qian is also very annoyed and speaks even more recklessly:" After all, I am a village girl, and I have no taste in finding a boyfriend. I still don't want to talk about it. "

Yan Yan did not give in and said, "My country girl, I am in your way. I am a village girl, and I was admitted to the same university as you. As a city dweller, you have the ability to enter a better university. Besides, I grew up in the countryside. What is there to discriminate against? I never laughed at you for eating yourself into a fat pig. If you can't speak normally in the future, please shut your mouth! Thank you! "

It turns out that Guo Qian, who talks to others every day, is just a bully. After the war, she said that Yan Yan and Yan Yan both went back. On the contrary, she doesn't have so much to do. Yan Yan also joked with other people in the dormitory: "I put up with her for three years in vain. For those who are embarrassed, there is really no need to torture their ears. "

Never always think about tolerance, because your tolerance will only make those who speak ill think that you are good at bullying, and he will never correct his attitude. Unless you go back and show your bottom line and let him know that it is polite to talk to you, he will eat a rebuff and promise not to be shy to talk to you next time.