What was it like to attend an old classmate's wedding in college?

? To tell the truth, I have mixed feelings about going to the wedding of my old classmates, but I have to say that I have probably two feelings. One is feeling stressed, and the other is probably feeling sorry.

Now let's talk about why I am under pressure. As long as you go to college, it is estimated that it is not small. In our hometown, too many friends choose to get married. Hearing this, many people may feel surprised, but there is no need to be surprised at all. This is a very realistic problem in the countryside below. You have stopped going to school and have to work. Getting married in the countryside is a fact before you. In fact, in the past few years, many friends invited me to their wedding, but because of academic reasons, they didn't make it in the end. But it happened to be the summer vacation, and it was really irreversible, so I went. But when others enter the marriage hall, the pressure in my heart is really a little raw, because many friends who have not gone to school have their own careers and are already at home independently. Therefore, my former friends invited me to their wedding, but I mostly declined because I really couldn't bear to go.

Besides, I might feel a little pity. Why do I feel sorry for you? This is not because marriage is the grave of love. But because after marriage, people can't be as unscrupulous as before, people's worries will increase and it is impossible to try more new things. Before marriage, we can try to do business and even start a business outside, but after marriage, when we get married and have children, we really can't get out. We can only be nailed to one place and can't move any more, so I said I would feel sorry.

? Marriage is beautiful. Too many people look forward to the perfect marriage, but when marriage comes, too many people feel a sense of panic, because when others get married, it is just a kind of pressure, but when they get married, they find that the situation is completely different. Although marriage is not the grave of love, it is easy to bury a person's spirit and ideals. After marriage, you need to take care of your family and your wife and children.

It was this little friend who invited me to her wedding. Later, he came to my city and asked me to lie down. At that time, I was surprised. Why did he suddenly come to me? I asked his sister-in-law He asked me to look after the children at home, and I asked her how you came out by yourself. How are your uncles and aunts? He told my parents that their health was still good, but he came out hoping to find a job. There is no way out in his hometown. I bought him a drink that night and he left the next day. He came to me only because he was passing by. That night, we talked a lot about the past, crying and laughing, and our tears were hidden in the wine. We both know that we can never go back.

We often say that time is long, but is a person's life really long? How many decades does life last? Go out for a walk while you are young. Being young probably means that you don't have to hide your brilliance in order to make ends meet.