Is it shameful for a man to be adopted by his wife and go to her house?

In the deep-rooted concept of marriage leave in China society, it is generally believed that the mode of marriage between a man and a woman should be that the daughter marries and the son marries the daughter-in-law. Therefore, in the past, when a girl's family only had an only child or had the right to let the man adopt by wife, people called it "adoption".

In the 2 1 century, when it comes to gender equality, women still have the same mentality when they get married, but some men are still unwilling when they adopt.

In fact, the word "adopted" itself embodies the idea that men are superior to women. Marriage between a man and a woman is only the result of two people's voluntary love. They formed a family, and should not involve the problem of the man's parents or the woman's parents living together. It's just that there are no conditions for separation in a specific era. But we don't have to accept this practice in modern society. In fact, young people nowadays are increasingly marrying and leaving their parents, regardless of gender. The post-80s and post-90s are all only children, so after marriage, two young people follow four old people. Your son and my daughter, they got married and went to live independently. If no girl marries the man's house, naturally no man will adopt her. Girls have no obligation to support their parents because they are married to the man's family. Men will not be more filial to their parents in the future, because they have married their wives through adoption.

What's wrong with the man who gave up his favorite because his future husband wanted him to be adopted by his wife? Secular point, there are several husbands who can help you develop your career. Isn't this life sweet? As long as you know what you are thinking, don't let others manipulate your thoughts because of money, don't give in to the present world, and maintain respect and self-esteem. Whose daughter do you care about? As long as you are sure that you really love her, everything else is secondary.

So, man, you're not afraid of adoption, you're afraid of your own nasty ideas.