stop kidding

Making fun of things that others care about is the worst joke.

Everyone has something he cares about, and in the adult world, these things are nothing more than feelings, wealth or children. When communicating with others, try not to joke about these things.

For a person who has just been lovelorn, it is a mockery to make fun of his feelings. He may be in a bad mood himself. He just wanted to let go of this topic, but you directly opened other people's scars and sprinkled some cumin on them.

For a man who has just gone bankrupt, joking about wealth is the second blow to his failure. He may want to tell you the truth, but it will be hard to hear such a joke and he doesn't want to say anything.

For a person who loves children very much, children are always the people they care about most. Making fun of children is like putting each other's baby in the sun in the dog days, and no one will be happy.

Silence is the most embarrassing thing in this situation. If you meet a grumpy person, you may just turn against you and leave. His impression of you is that you can't be a man, which is the result of a joke.

In the world of adults, it is forbidden to speak briefly and deeply. You don't know each other well enough You don't know what the other person cares about, and you don't know where the other person's pain points are.

At this time, every joke is a temptation and every joke is an adventure. For people who are not familiar enough, it is better to chat in the middle of the rules. Even if it's a joke, try to open it by your side.

Maybe the world of adults is not so complicated, and people's minds can never be understood. It is always right to pay more attention.