It's all the angels' fault. Why doesn't Shao Jianbo love Cai Meiyun? Cai Meiyun's family, education and appearance are much better than Lin Xiaoru's.

Why not? Three simple words: inappropriate-inappropriate, so don't love. Therefore, even if Shao has a good impression on Cai many times in the play and is even about to get engaged, there is no way to really fall in love with Cai Meiyun like Ailin Xiaoru.

The incompatibility between them is reflected in many aspects. First of all, Shao and Cai Meiyun have different personalities. When I was a child, I thought Shao was a true character who dared to love and hate, but when I grew up, I found that Cai Meiyun was actually more mature as a whole. She doesn't see things so extreme, and she is more stable than Shao. Compared with her, Shao obviously lacks the level and discretion of interacting with people. For example, the feelings of disdainful things are written on the face, and things are easy to go to extremes, and they are not good at communicating effectively with colleagues and leaders. In the TV series, the audience will think that he is just and upright and hates evil, but in society, this is the basic injury and the embodiment of immaturity. Unfortunately, at this point, Shao and Cai Meiyun can't be integrated, because Cai's education benefits from her childhood vision and cultivation as the daughter of the dean. Their family background has long been different, and naturally they have different ways of thinking and values on many issues. Shao's family background and growing environment subtly determine his extreme, self-esteem and slightly inferior personality. In fact, many details in the play reflect this point. So even if Meiyun really loves him and has made a lot of efforts for him, it seems to him to be pressure.

Of course, this is definitely not to say who is right or wrong, but that they are two different people. To be exact, the difference between Cai Meiyun and Shao Jianbo is more essential. When I was young, I couldn't see through the essence of their problems in love, and I felt that I just loved her and didn't love her. Looking back when I grow up, I realize that being a suitable partner may not be so absolute, but it is indeed a necessary and sufficient condition for a successful and happy love marriage.