The 3-year-old child died after being rescued. What kind of teasing methods must parents stop?

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For children, interesting children are a way for many parents to express their feelings, especially two or three-year-old babies, who are the cutest and always the focus of the party.

It is understandable to make fun of the normal behavior of babies, but some behaviors are questionable, which may bring many negative effects to children, and even lead to their death.

1) Teasing children to smoke or drink

This happens to many parents, especially at parties. It doesn't matter if you immerse your child in alcohol? ，? Come on, smoke and show it to my uncle? Many people use this excuse to coax their children.

unfamiliar young parents may not stop it because of their face, and unsuspecting parents may even respond positively.

As we all know, children's exposure to tobacco and alcohol is very dangerous.

▼ A child died of? Alcoholism Rescue failed

There are many similar situations. Some time ago, a child was brought back to his hometown by his parents to attend a family gathering.

during the banquet, the elders of the family gave him a lot of wine out of love for the child, and the child fell into a coma on the spot.

but no one thought that children would notice when they were drunk. When the parents responded and sent them to the doctor, it was already too late, and the child completely lost his vitality because of alcoholism.

▼ Harm of children's drinking:

The main component of wine is ethanol, which can be transformed by the mature liver of an adult with detoxification function and then excreted from the body.

But for children, ethanol is no different from poison.

the detoxification function of the liver is not yet mature. A small amount of ethanol is enough to poison a child. Large doses can lead to coma, shock, even dementia and even death.

2) Let children attack someone

Another common situation that many parents encounter, but it is often overlooked.

For example, at a party, many relatives will say:? Boy, let's go and hit your uncle! ? And? Baby, kick your brother, brother is bad. ?

In this case, some parents even make a fuss. In fact, the negative impact of this behavior on children may exceed your expectations.

Children's pure rising stars will be implied and cognitive errors will occur. In the long run, Fighting is love? The idea appeared.

once this concept is formed, when a child grows up, he may become someone else? Xiong Haizi? .

3) disturbing children's activities

This behavior is even more annoying and interferes with children's attention.

For example, children are playing with toys, and some adults are teasing them, but they just grab the children's toys and are still reluctant. He has to make the children do something to pay back the money.

if a child cries because of this, he may be complained? Don't know how to make fun of? .

In the following situations, there are similar behaviors, such as children's concentration on writing/painting/watching TV, and relatives and friends will choose to interrupt at this time, which will not only affect children's temperament, but also interrupt their concentration.

4) fudge children

Many relatives and friends still make fun of their children like this. For example,? Mom doesn't want you anymore? ，? After mom disliked your brother? Wait.

whenever children are laughed at and crying, it is also the moment when they feel the greatest sense of accomplishment.

Children are always teased in this way. They may believe that their mothers really don't love themselves, and they become withdrawn and insecure.

If parents don't pay attention to the correct guidance, personality is likely to have defects when they grow up, and it may even take a lifetime to cure.

5) Joking about a child's private parts

Another one? Chinese style? A joke. Adults like to make fun of boys' private parts, either by putting their hands on them directly or bravely risking all kinds of indecent words.

Not to mention whether children will have psychological shadow when they grow up. At present, the psychological impact should not be underestimated.

Today, the above-mentioned bad habits still exist in many areas. Even though many parents are aware of this problem, they still fail to stop it in time for fear that they may give others their children too much? Hypocrisy The impression. And affect the relationship between relatives.

But in any case, I hope parents can understand that children's physical and mental health is obviously more important than so-called intimacy and alienation, and if this happens, it must be prevented.

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