Father and son are not at the same table, and uncles don't drink. What's the taboo of this proverb?

China has been a country of etiquette since ancient times. There are many etiquette above banquets, among which? Father and son don't sit together, but uncle doesn't drink? In other words, the younger generation is generally not qualified to sit on a wine table with the elders, so as to safeguard the dignity of the elders and avoid losing grace after drinking too much. At the same time, everyone can let go of themselves and enjoy the party better.

You know, eating out is not as simple as eating together at home. Banquet is more important for connecting feelings, and it is a warming agent for feelings between relatives and friends. Judging from the seating and seat allocation of the banquet, we can know the general status and seniority of everyone.

The first kind is the table of peers, so that everyone can get familiar with each other. Even if they are strangers, people of the same age can have many common topics, and the banquet will not be awkward. Secondly, it is the seat allocation of people at the same table. The new generation of young people may not pay much attention to this, but the older generation has made special arrangements. The guest of honor with the highest status and status sits in the upper position, accompanied by the host and deputy, and the person with the lowest status sits in the position facing the door, responsible for serving and taking food.

If a father and son are arranged to sit at the same table, this seat will not be easily allocated, and they may lose their manners after drinking. Whether the father is drunk and rude or the son is drunk and offends his father, it will have a great influence on the relationship between father and son in the future, and others will also see jokes.

The same is true between uncles and nephews. Even if they are similar in age and have many topics, they will not be frozen together and will not be arranged together. If you drink too much, you will be commensurate with your brothers or buddies and accidentally lose your seniority, which is impolite. Both sides will be embarrassed when they wake up.

So in order to avoid these troubles, let the people at the party enjoy a relaxed atmosphere and drink as much as they like, this set of rules has been formulated. However, it is better to drink in moderation. Excessive drinking will do harm to your health.