Ask yourself, have you really tried?

-Yeah, you're confused

( 1)

A sister sent me a private letter, a long, long paragraph, saying that she was stupid, a sophomore, didn't like her current major, couldn't study, had no talent for anything, couldn't find an interest point, and didn't know where to start. However, she is also ambitious, and she doesn't want to grow old in this life. She wants to earn a lot of money and live a better life, and she doesn't want to disappoint her parents who are full of confidence in herself. She wants to know what she can do to change herself and become a better person.

My sister used a long paragraph to describe her parents' expectations and their hard work to support that family.

Her mother works as a tallyman in the supermarket. She gets up at six o'clock every morning, walks a long way to work in the supermarket, takes some leftovers to eat in the microwave at noon, and sometimes moves boxes of goods from the warehouse to the store.

But her father teaches in a remote country, only comes back once on weekends, and stays at school the rest of the time.

Her parents scrimp and save, but the living expenses they call her every month are never less.

Seeing those sentences, my nose suddenly turned sour and I couldn't help thinking of my parents.

Emotionally, I went in to see my sister's Weibo. Two hours ago, she sent a discussion about a star, and three hours ago, it was about a Korean drama, with various jokes and selfies ... The number of Weibo was 6,000.

I have no objection to sending Weibo. It's just that I've been playing Weibo for three years, and it only took one * * * to send 600, but she actually sent 6000.

She is not confused, she knows her situation, has people to protect and dreams to defend. She is uneasy about her dullness, but she is unwilling to work hard.

I was a little sad for a moment. Isn't it worthwhile for her parents to give her a quiet time to study and not be bothered by the trivial and bitter things for half her life?

I don't object to everyone watching Korean dramas, but I hate it when you shout loudly that your dream is still far away, while voicing that the plot setting of Descendants of the Sun is unreasonable.

I don't object to people using social software, but I hate you. While chatting on the screen and taking selfies in a circle of friends, I said that I couldn't find a way to make myself better.

I don't object to idolization, but I can't stand you spending your parents' money on sky-high concert tickets and crying that you are not good enough to live up to your parents' expectations.

Everything God gives you is clearly marked. Now you've wasted a moment's comfort gained by your youth, and you'll have to work hard for the rest of your life to pay it back.

(2)

Many people know what they want and how to achieve their goals, but if they can't get there, they will find many excuses for themselves. They have no talent, no perseverance and no interest. .....

One episode of Korean drama takes an hour, and generally there are almost 20 episodes. After watching ten Korean dramas, it will take 200 hours.

Not to mention Weibo WeChat, which spits out plots, discusses characters and occasionally gossips about celebrities' private lives.

It usually takes 45 minutes to play a game, of course, not just one game.

Watch an episode of entertainment variety for an hour or two, and then you will continue to brush Weibo and friends circle.

It takes forty or fifty hours to read a million-word online novel. Of course, you have to thank the author for giving you the ending.

Speaking of this, many people are definitely opposed to it, saying that it is to enjoy life, and it is a form of entertainment. It is necessary to have a quality of life and not live too rigidly, otherwise life will be boring.

It's just that I think you should work hard when you are young.

Of course, it is understandable to like a comfortable life, but if you are really content with being plain, you won't complain that this life is too boring, getting farther and farther away from your dreams, and the people who want to protect are getting older and older.

Since you have chosen to live a comfortable and plain life in this bustling downtown, don't ask me where to go to get to the real road of killing dragons and how to leave an unreachable shadow for the world.

I can recite at least 30 words in an hour, and ten Korean dramas can recite 6000 words in 200 hours. Only about 4500 words are needed for CET-4. You've been crying that you failed CET-4 and IELTS. Life is really hard. But have you ever asked yourself, are you really trying, or are you just moved by yourself?

Many people lie in bed and sleep late in the morning. As soon as they got together, they began to reflect on themselves and wasted so much time. They told themselves that they must get up early tomorrow. As a result, at eleven o'clock in the evening, they forgot all about what they said to themselves in the morning and played with their mobile phones to brush Weibo until midnight.

A reader saw an article I wrote last year, saying that he made up his mind to take the postgraduate entrance examination and punched in my Weibo at five o'clock every morning to say good morning. It's been four months now.

Living a self-disciplined life, studying, reading, getting up early and memorizing words will not be as difficult as you think, but now that you have a way out, life has not pushed you to that point, and there are still people who can resist all hardships for you.