"Instrument Etiquette" in Children's Personal Etiquette

Instrument etiquette refers to our appearance (appearance), which should be consistent with our role, age, body shape and occasion, show a kind of harmony, bring people beauty, enhance each other's feelings and make more children like you.

The definition of instrument etiquette is divided into broad sense and narrow sense.

Broadly speaking: our external appearance, expression, behavior and clothing.

Chivalry refers to our dynamic facial expressions and static clothing accessories.

Give you four suggestions about instrument etiquette:

There is a saying in Disciples Rules: "Clothes are expensive and clean, but not expensive; Call home from top to bottom ",explained as: No matter what kind of clothes you wear, you should first keep clean, wash and change frequently, and pay attention to the cleanliness of your clothes when you go out, as recorded in Zhu's motto" Instructions for Children ". When we are wearing clothes, we should take good care of drinking water and eating, and try not to get stained. Take care of it when walking, and don't let it get wet with mud and water. The most important thing about clothes is neatness and propriety.

Let's take a look at the video below. In the video, the same little girl, wearing different clothes, was treated differently. When the little girl is clean and tidy, many people are willing to take the initiative to say hello to her, but when she gets dirty and comes to everyone, some people will take care of their bags unconsciously, and some people will even let the service staff drive her away. It can be seen that the difference in a person's appearance will really bring different impressions to everyone. It can be seen that everyone likes clean and tidy children.

When we realize that image is so important, we should not pursue its beauty too much. We don't have to pursue gorgeous brands or fashions, let alone imitate others and wear especially expensive clothes in order to keep up with the competition. This will not only lose their unique personality, but also increase the burden on the family. We are only students now, and all we spend is our parents' hard-earned money, so we should save more. Parents and elders must not be choosy when buying clothes for us.

In the Analects of Confucius, there is a saying that "going out to see distinguished guests", which means that as long as we go out to see people, we should show our respect as if we were visiting distinguished guests. Therefore, clothes should not only be clean and tidy, but also suitable for occasions. Wear different clothes on different occasions.

Children's wear is divided into four categories according to the occasion of wearing:

1, life clothes: We wear the most clothes every day. We can put on life jackets when our friends come home, go shopping with our parents and go to amusement parks. Life clothes are divided into home clothes and coats. Children should learn to distinguish between home clothes and coats. When our clothes are worn outside, they will be contaminated with many bacteria. If we don't replace them at home immediately, bacteria will enter our bodies. Life clothes at home are also our pajamas, so we can't wear them outside.

2. Sportswear: clothes we wear when we run/jump rope/play ball for sports.

3. Dress: When we attend performances and concerts and attend banquets with our elders, we need to wear dresses.

4. School uniform: As a student, you should wear school uniform correctly according to the teacher's requirements at school. Every student has a school uniform. Most schools will require them to wear school uniforms during school, and some schools will require them to wear school uniforms only when they are in group activities. But in either case, you must abide by the regulations of the school. Clean and tidy school uniforms and sunny smiling faces will show the vitality of our student status.

If we don't choose clothes according to the occasion, it will not only make a lot of jokes, but also bring us a lot of inconvenience. Teacher Yang Ming shared a story with you:

Amy is a first-year student. On Halloween, her mother bought her a particularly beautiful princess Elsa skirt with many shiny little gems and a long gauze tail. Amy likes it very much. When she wore it to school on Halloween, all the children were amazed and praised her as beautiful as Princess Aisha. The next morning, Amy wants to wear that beautiful Princess Aisha dress to school. She really likes it, but the thought that she would be afraid to play happily with the children because she was afraid of those shiny little gems falling from her body, that the children might trip over her long pendulum, and that her class teacher informed her to wear school uniforms today, Amy's children were reluctant to put Princess Aisha's clothes back in the closet and put on clean and tidy school uniforms, so they went to school happily. Class, Amy, do you mean praise?

Clothes, like people's cultivation and taste, can't be chosen at will. If you can't master the clothes you need to wear in various occasions, you should ask your parents.

Clothing is like our mirror, showing our aesthetic ability and our own characteristics. However, some students play a lot of jokes in pursuit of personality exaggeration. What elementary school questions do we usually wear?

First of all, we must do "the crown must be right, the knot must be tied, and the socks and shoes must be tight." Just put on your hat, clothes, buttons, zippers for socks and shoes and shoelaces. Before we leave, we should check whether our hats are crooked or whether our trousers are fastened. Otherwise, you will be in trouble if you fall. You should tie your shoelaces. Don't make noise when we walk. If not, it would be rude.

Secondly, the choice of clothes style should not be too complicated, and there should not be too much decoration on the clothes. Simplicity can better reflect a person's taste.

Let me share a story with you first. Wang Dan was a famous minister in the early years of Northern Song Dynasty. One day, Wang Dan's junior saw someone selling jade belts and thought it was very nice. He wants to buy it for Wang Dan. Wang Dan told him to tie the jade belt around his waist and asked him: Can the jade belt still be seen? The younger generation replied, tie him up. What do I think? Wang Dan said: isn't it cumbersome to wear it with a load and let the viewer say yes? Return the jade belt as soon as possible. This story brought by Wang Dan deserves our reflection. What is the significance of our clothes and accessories? Are we trying to hide our shame, keep warm and respect others, or are we trying to show off?

So students, be careful not to wear too many ornaments, otherwise it will give people a dazzling feeling. Moreover, it is a student period, and we spend some time outdoors and wear too many accessories every day, which brings inconvenience to our sports.

Finally, it is our dress code at school: no vest, no miniskirt, no slippers to school, bare toes and sandals.

Schoolbag:

1, backpacks and shopping bags are not allowed in fashion bag.

2. The schoolbag is neatly pulled on the road.

Take off clothes, hats, shoes and socks and put them in a fixed position. Don't throw it around casually, so as not to get dirty and wrinkled, and there is nowhere to find it when you use it. Teacher Yang Ming learned that the biggest difficulty children encounter in kindergarten is not learning knowledge, but that children are not adapted to leaving their parents. When they arrive at kindergarten, they need to start their own life of doing things independently. Many children are affected by poor self-care ability and poor problem-solving ability, so we should develop good living habits and improve self-care ability from an early age.

Older children, what we should pay attention to is that clothes are not only beautiful, but also the way we treat clothes shows our attitude towards life. Students should know the meaning of "those who love others will always love others, and those who love things will always love themselves": those who love others will always love themselves, and so will things. We cherish things and treat them well, even if they have no life, they will last long. The same is true of clothes. If we leave our hats, gloves and coats in school, we may get dirty or lose them, both of which will make us unhappy.

We can try to think about it, if everything has a fixed position, what impact will it have on our lives? Do we also have the experience of not finding things? For example, if you can't find a red scarf in the morning, you don't worry about being criticized by the teacher. The whole family tossed and turned, and it was almost time for school. I was so anxious that I flew into a rage. Who are we mad at? Angry at myself, angry at why I left it everywhere, made the atmosphere of the whole family very bad.

So with a little carelessness, the time we may spend is not proportional to the spirit.

The ancients said, "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?" . A room of his own can be well organized, and he can run the country well. In other words, if we want to make a difference when we grow up, we must cultivate ourselves in self-management and housekeeping. We now see many students taking off their socks and throwing them away when they live on campus, which is very untidy. Other roommates saw it, but they couldn't keep reminding them because of their feelings. After a long time, the contradiction between classmates and friends arises. This will make us an unwelcome person. At the same time, when we throw clothes and personal belongings out casually, throwing them out is also a respect and warning to us.

Therefore, from now on, we should develop the good habit of wearing a crown suit, having a position and not being confused.

We can train from the following points in life:

First: tidy up your wardrobe, put clothes, shoes and socks in a fixed position and put them in order. Learn to manage your property from an early age, and find it quickly when you use it.

Second: get ready the clothes you need the next day every night.

Third: Go home every day, put dirty clothes in a fixed place, and wash small clothes as much as possible.

I believe everyone likes to be clean and tidy, and no one likes to be messy. As long as we put everything in order, it is not difficult to be clean and tidy.