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What do you think of parents beating their children?
China has believed in the education of children since ancient times, "If you don't knock out the tools, you won't knock out the tools". There are similar old sayings, such as "It's idle to beat children in rainy days", "It's not illegal for me to beat my son", "A dutiful son is born under a stick", "A young tree can't be a useful tool if it's not repaired" and "It's dad's fault if it's not taught", which are called "stick education". Although the phenomenon that modern parents beat their children is far less frequent and serious than before, it's still very common to get angry or think that children will be beaten if they make mistakes. When I was in college, I once saw such a "joke": someone asked a bald old man if he had the most wanted wish when he was a child, and now it has finally come true. The old man said seriously, yes, when I was a child, my father always pulled my hair when he hit me. I thought at that time, I wish I had no hair, and now this wish has finally come true. When I saw this story, I laughed happily. I laughed, thinking that the old man's father was going to pull his hair, which was ridiculous. But now that I have my own children, I can't laugh at this joke anymore. I suddenly feel sorry for the old man, really sorry. China has a long history, and China people have a long history of beating children. There is an old saying in China that "it's idle to hit children in rainy days". This sentence is ironic, and it will make some people feel incredible, but it is not difficult to understand China's "tradition and culture of beating children". In China, it is natural for parents to beat their children, and there is no doubt that the children are their own, and they can beat them if they want to. Children have many problems, so you can't fight! If you don't fight, you won't remember! In Qian Qian, isn't this the general mentality of parents who absolutely beat their children? But I don't think so. My idea may be strange in some people's eyes, but it is not unusual. I prefer to look at this problem from the perspective of children. I think all parents who beat their children should put themselves in their shoes: if you are your child's child, do you want them to teach you a lesson and make you obey? If you can't remember, let alone when you were a child, even when you are an adult, you will inevitably have many problems that are difficult to get rid of. Next time you make the same mistake again, should your lover or parents "correct" you with violence? Parents may be afraid to move, but if your lover did, it is estimated that you would have quit. The phrase "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" should not only apply to adults. Adults can be funny sometimes. When they punish themselves, they often don't really do it. At most, they just say "I really want to slap myself" in annoyance. Besides, don't you dare hit your own child. If you dare, try hitting others and see if you are still so arrogant after hitting them. What is the skill of bullying your own children? Especially those who shout "Hum! I don't believe that I can't cure others and I can't cure you! "Adults, if they really have the ability, educate their children in other ways. After you hit the child, the child didn't care, still holding your leg with tears in his eyes and calling you mom and dad. At this time, all parents who beat their children should be ashamed. Compared with children, what kind of mind do you have as a parent? Children can't choose their parents. If he can choose, if he knows that he will always be beaten, I believe he will definitely not choose those who beat and scold him as his parents. Although the child is born by himself, he is equal to us in spirit, and we should respect him. Once I told my theory to two mothers who often beat their children. As soon as my voice fell, the two mothers burst into laughter. One mother wiped the tears in her eyes while laughing, as if she had never heard such a funny joke for a long time. Let others who don't know the truth see it, and they will think that I should have a sense of accomplishment at this moment. Today, when people's laughter muscles are generally shrinking, I can actually make others so happy. Many parents will say this when hitting their children: Son, we hit you because we love you, and it hurts to hit you. " I hit you because I love you! "What a grandiose reason! The person who invented this sentence should win at least two awards: the strangest creativity award and the lifetime achievement award. Love can actually be the reason for hitting people, or hitting people can actually be based on love, and I don't know how this person came up with such a sentence to comfort his mood after hitting people. Since this man invented this sentence, thousands of parents in Qian Qian began to follow suit and began to "love" their children with peace of mind. This man deserves a lifetime achievement award. I don't doubt the love of parents for their children. What I doubt is: do you have to use force to express your love for your children? All parents who beat their children, please don't slap their children in the face in the name of love, and don't defile love in the name of love. Sometimes it's better not to be too hypocritical. The child is very weak. He needed your support to survive when he was young, so no matter how much you beat him and scold him, he didn't dare to leave you. Then when you get old, you will become weak, and you may need him to support you longer than you need to support him. You didn't listen to him at that time. Can he repay you in kind? I don't think most children will, because adults are adults after all When children are very young, adults let an idea take root in children's hearts, that is, no matter how parents treat you, you should honor the elderly when parents are old, otherwise it will be spurned and unacceptable by the social moral standards established by adults in advance. It is puzzling that many children who are often beaten as children will feel that their parents beat themselves well and accurately when they grow up. Liu Xiang is one of them. Liu Xiang once said in an interview that his mother loved him very much when he was a child, and his father always beat him. Looking back now, he feels that if his father didn't hit himself, he must have been spoiled by his mother. Words are full of gratitude. Others are prepared to maintain and carry forward their parents' "fine traditions" after having children. A netizen wrote in his blog that his father always beat him when he was a child, and he suffered for decades until he had a child. One night, he suddenly had a dream about his father and suddenly realized that his father beat himself out of love for himself. After waking up, he burst into tears and said to his son who was still sleeping, "I will hit you when you grow up." "I really don't understand what these people think. Do they really think that the best way to educate themselves after they have made a mistake is to be beaten? Haven't they been beaten enough? Especially the netizen above, who has been worried about his father's violence for decades, why is it difficult for his children to let go of themselves? Some studies have said that 50% of children who are often beaten when they are young will beat their own children when they grow up. Judging from the above two examples, this research result still has certain credibility. I believe many children in China have been beaten by their parents. Many people still remember the feeling of injustice and humiliation at that time. Some people even hate their parents for it, and some people can't let it go all their lives. In this case, why do we forget the pain we had when we were parents, insist on posing as a "centenarian son (daughter) has become a father (mother)", and then extend our fists to the children as soon as we stare? Some time ago, I read an article "Five Injuries Caused by Parents Beating Children" on the Internet: hurting children's self-esteem, forcing children to lie, and hating and retaliating against parents are easy to form children's grumpy personality and make parents lose prestige in their children's hearts. Many people leave messages at the bottom of the article, and many people are often beaten when they are young. Their messages confirm the five hazards mentioned above one by one. Some children are actually looking forward to their parents leaving this world early. Look at their messages and think about our own experiences. Can we not be moved? I just want to tell all parents who beat their children, please don't abuse the identity given to us by God, please don't let our descendants live in the shadow of the 50% chance of being beaten forever, please let us try our best to show our sincere smiles and become the real angels of our children.
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