When the mother-in-law says, I won't take care of your children, let your own mother take care of them if you have the ability. How to answer?

If she really says that, then don't spoil her at all, just tell her, I'm sorry I don't need you, my mother doesn't need me, I don't want children, and I want to divorce your son!

Look at what she said. Such people are narrow-minded. I'm getting a divorce. How much property will you take out? She didn't take the child away at last, so she had to make a career. She's scared!

0 1 The multiple-choice questions of mother-in-law and mother are quite difficult! In fact, it is very difficult for a mother-in-law to take care of her children, or for her mother-in-law to help you take care of your children. You say you can't talk or touch, or people will be angry. If you choose to take care of your children for free, they won't. What can you do?

This is not the case with your mother. You said that the money you earned and the money your parents gave you were all in this house. My mother serves this family, and my mother-in-law goes out to travel, which makes me feel distressed!

I can't go to work with my children. The family has a mortgage, the car needs gas money, and the children are all money. I can't just rely on my husband. I remember the most difficult time, I was reluctant to take a one-yuan bus. This is really not easy!

I brought my own children! After the son was born, the mother was in poor health and the mother-in-law hid. She said that she earned more and I earned less. She doesn't want to take care of the children, so can you give me some money? That's what I said. What can you do if she has no money?

Those years were not easy. My husband just left the army and bought a house (where my mother-in-law lives). We settled in another city, rented the ninth floor and later bought the seventh floor. The loan and down payment are paid together, and we have to raise children!

I know it will be easy for me if someone helps me, but I don't need to bite the bullet. I didn't survive? Now my mother-in-law thinks I'm good and is willing to help me pay. I am also a filial daughter-in-law. I provide food, drink and use, but I have a knot in my heart that I haven't solved yet.

Since there is no way, let it be! My aunt also takes care of her own children. She is a school teacher and went back to work after half a year's rest. She found a nanny at home. When the child was sent to kindergarten at the age of three, she found an aunt to help her pick her up. After she went to primary school, she found a chef. Now that the child is in junior high school, her sister-in-law asks her to live on campus directly and go home once a week. I think children are excellent when they are older, more sensible than their peers, have very strong self-care ability and study well. She never lets her do this.

My grandmother raised my neighbor's children. How can I put it? At the age of seven, I still cry and don't wash my face. I also break dishes when I eat. Anyway, this thing has advantages and disadvantages. Your mother-in-law may feel that her quality and culture can't bear the responsibility of educating her children. Let her go.

Summary: this person has consequences. It doesn't matter if she's old and nobody takes care of her, does it? We don't owe that much. We don't have to pay too much. After being in the hospital, tell her I can't take care of you. Go to your son, and don't let her son quit his job to take care of her full time. Grandson has nothing to do with her, and neither do you!