I said to the girl, you have the final say in small matters, and I have the final say in big matters. What did she say about small things and big things? What should I say?

I said to the girl, you have the final say in small matters, and I have the final say in big matters. What did she say about small things and big things? What should I say?

In fact, after you said this, you put yourself in. Look at your conversation. It should be that you are not married, and you have not involved in the trivial events in your life. You just communicate and discuss in advance. If you get married and live together, you will face all kinds of problems. Take the well-known problem of house and car as an example, it is a family event. It seems that no family is decided by the man, and it all needs communication between husband and wife. They need to make decisions together according to their own situations, including sweeping the floor, washing dishes and cooking in their lives. In fact, it is necessary to communicate, not who has the final say. If they want to live in harmony, they should communicate more, so that they can get along well.

Don't promise and divide responsibilities at will, otherwise you will be in a dilemma.