Is eloquence a good eloquence?

The standard of good eloquence is difficult to grasp. Not only should you be articulate, fluent and infectious, but more importantly, you should have keen insight and act flexibly at the right time!

Perhaps Confucius said when he met everyone: "timing" means seizing the opportunity and saying when it is time to say it. "If you talk about it, you will lose people;

Don't talk to it in words, it's rude. If you don't say it when you should, you will lose the trust of others;

It's a slip of the tongue when you shouldn't say it, so it's crucial to determine the timing and object of your speech!

We sometimes praise a person for his eloquence and eloquence.

Does a good population mean that he is eloquent?

In my humble opinion, this is not necessarily a good eloquence.

Talking is to communicate with others and let others understand what they mean.

Although many times, we have to talk a lot of irrelevant nonsense, but it is also to create an atmosphere, not to let everyone ice.

If one thing can be made clear in a few sentences, and I am determined to shoot a novella, I am happy to say it myself, which is really a headache.

In addition, a large group of people chatted and were stopped by others when they couldn't say a few words, and then listened to him talk endlessly. Such eloquence will only make people bored.

Speaking needs to be divided into occasions. Sometimes it's okay to say a few more words, and sometimes it's simple and clear, just make it clear.

A good talker is a person who knows what to say to whom on what occasion, not a chatterbox.

Speaking is not in a hurry, but thinking about it. This is a sentence that an old man said to me. This sentence has also benefited my life growth. I remember when I was 13 years old, I once robbed others of my words in order to express myself, and I was eager to show it, but I made a joke. Later, when no one was around, the old man came up to me. Speak softly. Remember, children, don't talk in a hurry in the future, just think it over. Think about it, too. You keep talking like a barrage. As a result, the point was lost. Blurred what I really wanted to convey to others. From then on, I lost the meaning of what you said! Just like writing a composition or a poem. When you whitewash too much, you whitewash the central idea of your article. Readers are at a loss after reading it. When you have too many rhetorical results, the artistic conception of your poem loses to rhetoric. Since then, I have always been brewing before speaking, thinking about what to say, grasping the opportunity and hitting the point. And the old man said to me when no one was around; If people want to make progress, they must remember this sentence; Sit still and always think about yourself. Don't gossip about others. This sentence has also become my motto. In fact, this old man is the only person in our village who has attended a private school. He is also the most educated, knowledgeable and respected person in our village. He is also the only person I respect and admire. But I don't know if I am an individual in his eyes. Did he ever say this to another child when no one was around? At that time, in our village, most people would walk to his house with a bowl full of rice when eating. Many people are sitting around the wall, eating and chatting. When they are happy, some people will laugh and spit rice. We prefer to listen to him talk about the past and the present. I remember when I was nine years old, it was in a cool summer. He suddenly pointed at me and said; Hey! Hey! You all see if this child is interesting. Then I pointed my finger at them. You see that yours is not shirtless. You are looking at this child. Not only is he wearing a long-sleeved shirt. And the wind collar button is still buckled? I remember that time clearly and firmly. I think I am an individual in his eyes!

In the final analysis, eloquence is the same as literary creation and musical literature (lyrics) creation.

When I was a child, I especially envied those students who wrote compositions or used flowery words and long speeches. When I grow up, there are still many lyrics that are moaning or empty. Now it seems that the key to literature or music literature is to have ideas.

The same is true of eloquence, eloquence and rhetoric, but it is useless to keep talking. That's not eloquence. Eloquence is connotation, logic, temperature and strength.

Good eloquence lies in saying the right words at the right time and place.

Eloquence can only show that eloquence is good, which is different from eloquence.

What is good eloquence? First of all, you have to read widely, have a wide range of knowledge, quote classics and have a strategic vision, that is, you can understand the world and discuss ancient and modern times. For example, Liang Hongda, a commentator on current affairs, has a good eloquence. Whether it is poetry and songs, Chinese and foreign historical stories, short essays on life and comments on competitive games, it is a composite trend of the times and close to people's lives. The audience applauded.

A flow of words is not necessarily a good eloquence. Good eloquence is that it can arouse the enthusiasm and emotion of the listener, be infectious and inflammatory, and be convincing, which is only once; When listening, it is very quiet; After listening, the thunder was loud. Let you fight, your enthusiasm erupts and you are ready to go; Let you support, your blood is boiling; Let you object, you are furious; Let you sympathize, you burst into tears. Good eloquence is a strong team and a war of words. Good eloquence does not lie in being clear and logical, but in moving people's hearts and working hard with you. Crowds of soldiers are not listening to your organization and logic, but how to be a general with wealth.

In addition to expressing desire, we need to have extensive and concentrated content, and read more books to increase our knowledge, so as to attract the audience. If you don't go on for a long time, others will think that this person has no focus at all, or is bragging, and it is the kind of bragging that can't stand scrutiny at once, and you will lose interest in this person in an instant, let alone listen to him. Without content as a substantial support, it can only be regarded as a voice, and others can only laugh at it: this product is not reliable! I don't think this kind of communication is what you want. Therefore, there must be substantial dry goods in the content, where the dry goods come from, and learn more and summarize more.

It is very important to express yourself properly. What to say, what not to say and how to say it when facing different people and different occasions. If you make a mistake, communication will fail, and if you make a mistake, you may bring yourself unnecessary trouble. There are many examples of saying the wrong thing without eyesight and bringing trouble to yourself. In the end, it's all the fault of the other party, and you are quite wronged.

Good at listening to each other's content. Some people talk for a long time as soon as they come up, but what is the other person trying to express? I'm sorry, I'm so excited. What do you mean? I have met many such people. If it's a phone call, I want to hang up. If it is face to face, it may be like this. You don't even listen to me. You may be idle, but it doesn't mean that my time is worthless. Why waste and take up my time? This is also the minimum respect for communication.

Spread less negative energy, say something nice if you want to talk, and the audience is not trash cans and recycling bins. For example, a relative of mine often comes to my house to pour out his grievances, and when he is angry outside, he speaks ill of others. It lasted a long time, and the same content was said over and over again. As a result, after she left, my mood became bad, and I could accept it once or twice. After a long time, no one could stand it, and then I made an excuse not to see her.

Put yourself in others' shoes. If you don't put yourself in others' shoes too much, others will feel differently. At least you feel the same way as the other person, and everyone is sympathetic, but only if you can't play with it on purpose and everyone is not stupid.

Eloquence communication is an art as well as a knowledge. Words can be memorized, but it is more important to go into the audience's heart and let the audience have different emotional reactions with different words, so as to really impress and attract each other. It takes a long time to accumulate, and it can't be completed overnight.

I admit it, at least it has an advantage over clumsy people who are not good at words. But this advantage also has many disadvantages:

(1) Most of these people talk nonsense, thinking about that and saying that, without a fixed purpose, and often forget the previous sentence after saying it, and finally don't know what they said.

(2) When others want to talk, they often have no room to interrupt, so they can only be listeners. Talking for a long time will often cause people's boredom.

(3) speeches are often unorganized and targeted, and it is easy to digress and it is difficult to impress people. If you are a lobbyist, you may not mean this.

People often say that words go in one ear and out the other. People who have this eloquence have the same effect as speaking in one ear and out the other.

Is this a good standard of eloquence?

One of the manifestations of good eloquence is good eloquence, but if this form itself is used to verify whether it is good eloquence, I think it is incomplete and inappropriate.

What is the scene of endless and eloquent?

As a form of expression, if it is gushing and flowing, it is very good if it is in the right scene, and it is very bad if it is not. The more suitable scenes are debate, free conversation and relatively free speech.

Absolute questions can't be absolutely correct.

As far as the problem itself is concerned, eloquence and eloquence certainly cannot represent the whole eloquence, let alone that he is a good eloquence. A timid or nervous person can open his mouth to relax, which is the step of his progress and growth, but it is by no means his goal and destination.

I'm Jing Yu Menjorie.