What have men and women done together, and they are no longer ordinary friends?

Everyone will have their own friends of the opposite sex more or less, and which ones are very good with themselves. The president of a female friend will call her a heterosexual friend "Lan Yan" or "a male best friend", while a male friend will call her "Hong Yan". But these opposite sex who are very close to themselves can't get together, and they will always keep their relationship on the status quo of "friendship, lover not full". Everyone knows it, and no one will take another step and keep their so-called "pure" relationship forever. But when they do these four things, will their relationship be "pure"?

1, ambiguous words when chatting

In the face of friends, we can joke and tease, but we will never be ambiguous, because that is not what friends should do. If we are just good friends of each other, we will never take the initiative to tease each other with ambiguous words to make them misunderstand. Friends are pure and good, and they can talk about their daily lives and troubles, because these are normal contents, but ambiguous words will make their relationship ambiguous. If they fall in love later, it will be particularly embarrassing to introduce each other.

2. Being in the same room is very intimate.

A lonely man and several women are in the same room, and many things can happen. As friends, it is impossible to communicate completely in the same room, and it is impossible to be too far apart. If there is intimate physical contact at this time, it will form a shock in the other person's heart. No matter how long it has passed, I will think of these contacts in my mind, and the goodwill of my friends will rise to the goodwill of love little by little. Once friends have a little different emotions, they will have a butterfly effect, and the relationship between them will never return to the original appearance.

3. Always share secrets with each other.

Everyone will have their own privacy and secrets, and everyone will hide these secrets in the depths of their hearts and will not be discovered. Because this is my secret, if others find out, I will feel ashamed and angry.

But when you share secrets together, you won't feel ashamed of each other, and if the other party knows, you won't be angry with each other. Instead, they want him to know.

4. They accompany each other in times of difficulty.

It is said that a friend in need is a friend indeed, and it is easy for men and women to turn this goodwill into love. Friends used to help each other, but they helped a lot. Even when something happens, the other party will accompany them and help them solve it. The feelings of both sides will be deeper and deeper, and they will trust each other more and more. This trust can even be equated with the trust of their loved ones. When they are together, they will feel very safe. This kind of feeling can make people crazy and lead to a life without each other. Once there is no life for each other, or watching each other have their own lovers, they will feel very safe.

5. Let's get something to eat or have a glass of juice.

When we were young, we may all have heard or said this sentence, "Eat my saliva and listen to me". This sentence is of course a joke, but from this joke, we can also know that eating what others have eaten casually is unhealthy, and the relationship is not intimate enough, which will be embarrassing, especially between the opposite sex. This also proves that the relationship should be close enough to enjoy one thing, such as husband and wife or lovers, because when eating a thing or drinking a glass of juice together, it is inevitable to eat each other's saliva. If ordinary friends of the opposite sex do this, then this relationship can't be described only by ordinary people, because the relationship between you who can do this is already very close, not just the feelings of ordinary friends.

When men and women get along, they need to pay attention to the appropriate limits, because once they cross the line, their feelings are no longer simple. Even if we don't talk about each other, we will get along in the future. Over time, either one of us goes further, or two people reduce contact, making it difficult for ordinary friends. So when the opposite sex achieves the above four points, the relationship is no longer pure.