Don't be too serious when chatting with girls.

Don't be too serious when chatting with girls.

Chatting with girls, many boys are too concerned about whether they have said something wrong or not, and about the number of words and the status of the other party's reply. In fact, if you chat like this, the other person will definitely feel nervous and stressed.

First, pay attention to sharing.

1, learn to continue the topic according to the other party's response.

For example, a girl said that she just woke up.

Girl: I just woke up.

Boy: lazy pig, the sun is shining on her ass.

Boy: I have finished cleaning.

Girl: Yo, are you so diligent?

Boy: That's right. I am an expert in affordable housing. I have to praise me.

2, learn to tease each other, instead of blindly holding her and praising her.

For example, a girl said that she had just bought a skirt.

Girl: I just bought a new skirt when I went shopping with my best friend today.

Boy: Put it on for me to help you appreciate it.

Girl: No! ! I've gained weight recently.

Boy: Are you still fat?

Boy: Why don't I invite you to see the "swimming ring"?

Girl: Haha, that's nothing compared.

Boy: That's all right. You still want to be as thin as lightning.

Second, the key analysis

1. In the process of chatting with girls, you should learn to continue the topic through the signals given by the other party, so that she can have something to say. After all, the topic is coherent, and the other party has no reason to end the topic. And the relaxed and happy atmosphere. Who doesn't like it?

Girls don't like boys who praise her all the time. Just like two people get along in unequal positions, their identities are unbalanced, and chatting will be boring. Learning to ridicule will make the other person angry, annoyed and funny, and chatting is full of unknowns and fun. Of course, she will be more willing to find you.