What should I prepare for my first visit to my husband's house?

Of course, the first time I went to the restaurant, his parents liked it very much. They gave me a meeting and a banquet. The magnificent and luxurious restaurant left a deep impression on me. However, as a girl who goes to the man's house for the first time, she needs to prepare some small gifts, so don't go to her house empty-handed. Although many parents don't care much about these details, you need to pay attention to these etiquette. It's not surprising to be polite to many people. As for the details of preparing gifts, we might as well consider them from two points.

1, let your boyfriend know the preferences of the other parents. When you are ready to buy a gift, you might as well ask your boyfriend's opinion and his parents' preferences. Buy some "to your liking" gifts, which can not only make the other party feel that you are attentive, but also make everyone happy without losing etiquette.

For example, my boyfriend's mother likes to eat some snacks, so you might as well buy some. Boyfriend's father likes drinking. Do you need to ask your boyfriend's mother if she objects? If he is against drinking, don't buy it, change to a milder drink.

2, combined with the season, send some small warm-hearted gifts. If you visit in winter, you might as well send some warm scarves to the elderly, which are not only practical, but also very warm. If it is summer, you might as well buy some fruit. In short, we need to give some small gifts that are more suitable for this season.

3, pay attention to thrift, express your mind and etiquette. When preparing gifts, you must combine your own actual situation, and don't buy some expensive gifts, because this is your first visit to express your mind and etiquette. The gift is not expensive, but it is suitable, which shows that you are more sensible and polite.

In short, we need to know these details, and then prepare some small gifts according to the actual situation, which will show your knowledge and understanding in the first visit.

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Try to adjust your mood.

Whether boys or girls meet their parents for the first time, they will feel very nervous and afraid of leaving a bad impression on their elders. However, sometimes, the more nervous you are, the more likely you are to have problems, or even put your foot in your mouth and make jokes.

In order to pass the exam smoothly, we need to adjust our emotions and make our manners natural and generous. To this end, we can take three ways to deal with it.