What will you do if your mother-in-law is sick and doesn't take care of you?

I think this matter should be viewed from two aspects.

From a personal emotional point of view, if you give birth to a child, but as a mother-in-law, you don't take care of you at all and don't give you any help when you are most vulnerable and in need, then such a mother-in-law is really unkind, and her behavior will be strongly condemned by everyone in society. From our own point of view, since you chose to stand by when I was weakest, I won't help to take care of you when my mother-in-law is sick in the future and needs care most. Surely you should have nothing to say!

But from the perspective of moral theory, it's her fault that your mother-in-law didn't give you the care you deserved when you gave birth and confinement, and she should be condemned and condemned. However, if your mother-in-law is ill, as a daughter-in-law, you actually have an obligation to help take care of her. If you choose to look on coldly at this time, even if you have been wronged and treated unfairly before, it is still your fault. Because this kind of thing cannot be confused, you will also be condemned and criticized by the public.

There are too many resentments in society now, and everyone will be deeply affected unconsciously. Perhaps in the eyes of many modern people, I should treat others as reasonably as others treat me, but I don't know that hatred is often passed from one person to another.

In fact, I suggest that you can sit down calmly with your family and talk about why your mother-in-law didn't give you the help you deserved when you needed it most. After all, no matter what, they are also family. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not two naturally antagonistic species, and there is no deep hatred that cannot be resolved. Maybe your mother-in-law didn't take care of you in time, because she did something wrong; But if you can educate your mother-in-law with your practical actions, give full play to the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and let her realize her mistakes with conviction, I believe that this result is definitely much better than your family calculating each other and making a mess of a good family.

Of course, you may say that it's easy for me to stand and talk, but if I have the misfortune to meet such a mother-in-law, I will still stick to my own ideas and practices. As the saying goes: everything is prosperous at home. How others treat me depends on luck; But how I treat others depends entirely on myself.