My friends always ignore my feelings and tell others that I am embarrassed. What should I do?

I think if he really treats you as a friend, he can't always ignore your feelings and treat your anecdote as a conversation with others. I don't think it's a friend relationship, even an acquaintance should not say such anecdotes about others.

Because even primary school students now know to respect others, not to mention that he is an adult and doesn't even understand this basic common sense of etiquette, so I said that if he did, he wouldn't treat you as a friend at all. Why do you care so much about him?

Actually, I don't think there is a question of what you should do. In fact, the method is very simple. Just let him taste the taste of going his own way and let him personally feel what it is like to be laughed at by others. Only in this way can such people remember the lesson.

If he says something to you, you can also tell him. Since we are friends, I will treat you as you treat me! You tell me anecdotes everywhere. I thought you liked it. Only in this way can you become your friend, and then I will learn from you!

If you feel embarrassed and unhappy when I tell you something embarrassing, do you regard me as a friend? If you treat me as a friend, then why did you tell others about my embarrassment? Did you take my feelings into consideration when you said these words?

Actually, it doesn't mean that we can't be friends. If it is really his unintentional mistake, I think through such communication, he will understand that he did something wrong. If he turns against you because of this, then this so-called friend is not worth mentioning!