What do children think when their parents tease them? Have you ever experienced it?

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Children’s innocence should not become a “tool” for adults to have fun.

We always like to make fun of others, in the name of "I'm just joking, don't care", hurt others, carry out moral kidnapping, and the people who are being joked about.

Even if it really touches your heart, you can only greet it with a smile. After all, it is just a "joke".

But the power of these jokes is probably only known to those who are joked about. For young children, it is easy to leave a shadow on their fragile hearts.

I have seen a piece of news on the Internet before. A parent abandoned his child while teasing him.

When the parent picked up the baby, he accidentally grabbed the child's reproductive organs. As a result, the child's reproductive organs were damaged and he was sent to the hospital for emergency treatment. Fortunately, the child was rescued and his life was not in danger.

Doctors also warn parents that children should not engage in strenuous exercise for a long time.

This unexpected situation frightened the whole family, and the parents also deeply blamed themselves. When interviewed, the parents said: "I just want to amuse the children. We often play like this... ”

Netizens commented one after another after reading it. Many criticized the parent’s irresponsibility: “Why do we often play like this? Our children are already in the hospital” and “Parents should still do it.” Attract attention, because if you tease your children like this, something will happen sooner or later"...

Children's bodies are relatively fragile. Many times, what parents think is a trivial joke may cause a fatal blow to the child.

To tease children, lift them up, throw them up and catch them again. I believe many parents have done this. When parents tease their children in this way, the children will also find it exciting and fun, so Parents are even less concerned.

Some of the behaviors that tease children make them cry. Parents will also laugh at their children: "cowardly".

Parents should reflect on this way of loving their children. Especially when others tease their children, parents should appropriately stop and protect their children. This is how they love their children. 1. Teasing children: What you think is a joke is the greatest harm to children

For those "chubby" children, most of them had such an experience when they were young. Relatives and friends would tease them in front of the children. The child says: "You are so fat, so eat less!" Whether it is a joke or the truth, such words are extremely harmful to the child.

Parents often use words such as "stupid kid, fool, idiot..." when teasing their children. Parents may not mean it and just want to amuse their children, but in their children's hearts they It is easy to think that this is the parents' evaluation of themselves, which affects the child's self-evaluation and hurts the child's self-esteem. 2. Teasing children can easily cause children to have self-doubt

When parents tease their children, their children often take their jokes seriously. "Mom and dad don't want you if you don't obey", "You were picked up from the garbage dump"... These jokes are enough to make children have self-doubt, make them mistakenly think that their parents don't love them, make children feel insecure, and affect Child's character development. 3. How do parents teach their children to protect themselves when faced with teasing behavior?

1. If you are unhappy, you can tell your parents.

As the target of being teased and "played with", children are prone to develop some negative emotions or self-doubt, which requires timely guidance.

Parents should guide their children to tell their parents promptly if anything happens. Parents should also comfort and enlighten their children in a timely manner.

At the same time, when children talk, parents must also play the role of listeners. Only by listening carefully can children feel respected.

Children’s self-esteem will be stronger and they will be better “immune” to those jokes.

2. Guide children to correctly understand these "jokes".

Being joked about is inevitable for all of us. Many times, being joked about is actually a sign of popularity.

Most of those who like to tease children do not have any bad intentions. Many times they just want to play with their children, so parents should also guide their children to correctly understand other people's jokes and adopt a more positive attitude. To face other people's "jokes".

3. Teach children how to laugh at themselves.

Parents can also teach their children to laugh at themselves and make jokes about themselves before others do. Self-deprecating not only prevents others from laughing at them, but also makes children more cheerful and confident, which is beneficial to their development. Character building.