Chat with girls

First, pay attention to eye contact. Many people always look around or blink when chatting. Women are disgusted with this behavior because they think you are insincere. The eyes are the windows to the soul. While you know her, the opposite sex also wants to make further contact with you through eyes. Second, when chatting, don't always discuss your own affairs, but ask more about each other. Many people use this routine. They will not take the initiative to talk about their past glorious deeds, but will take the initiative to be caring and attentive to others. This routine can not only make your popularity rise, but also make people like chatting with you more. Because everyone wants an audience to listen to them, which is in line with most people's psychological routine. Third, learn to communicate frankly. Otaku lives in a virtual world, almost derailed from reality. It is impossible to talk about the girl you just met. Expressing clearly and successfully completing communication is the basic goal. Some people can't say it, but pretend to be deep and talk big. There is no turning arrow before opening the bow. After lying, if you can't turn back, your image will be damaged. Honesty will make people think you are reliable. Male compatriots must pay attention, just contact with the opposite sex, some topics are out of the question. First, personal privacy. Asking others about their salary and family background at first contact will make people feel that your motives are impure. Chat, you can talk about hobbies, diet. Fourth, you always brag. You brag. Although everyone doesn't like such people at ordinary times, they think they are particularly incompetent. On the contrary, they are actually very smart. Because they are particularly humorous, everyone is willing to listen to them chat. And it's not easy to brag in front of many people. Because first of all, you have to have ink in your stomach, otherwise you may not be able to make up a story. 5. Don't talk about the opposite sex. In order to attract the opposite sex, some men often reveal the privacy of the former opposite sex. In this way, men have achieved the purpose of attraction and also put themselves in an embarrassing situation. Why? In case you two don't make it, she's afraid she'll be next. Moreover, people who make fun of her will also be considered as male shortcomings. Chatting with girls 2 1. Take the initiative when chatting, don't ask her a question and you will answer it. It seems that you are very boring, very boring. You should take the initiative in your own hands and let her participate. 2. When chatting, we should start with caring for each other. Let him feel that you are mature and gentle, and thus have a good impression on you. If the other person is suddenly silent, he may not know what to say, or he is not interested in what he says. Don't ask questions, try to change the subject and break the embarrassing situation. 4, say more compliments, girls like to listen to this. But praise should not be exaggerated and measured, otherwise it will make girls feel rhetoric and unreliable. 5, chat, be good at using humor. If you can successfully control humor, it is easy to win the favor of the other party. 6. It's easy to chat with a girl, so that she can feel that you have a common topic, so as to talk more and get to know each other better. 7. When chatting, the atmosphere is very important. Pay attention to your words and tone, and you'd better not swear. 8. When talking about emotional problems, especially don't ask. It can be said that nothing has passed, comfort her. Change the subject, because you want to improve your relationship with her rather than deepen her emotional memory with others. 9. Chat. Try not to use words like "uh-huh" or "oh", which will make the woman feel that you are perfunctory. Try to make each sentence as long as possible, so that she will think you are very attentive. 10, when chatting, fully show your attractive side, such as personality, responsibility, humor and thoughtfulness, so that she has a good impression on you.