Very annoying. My family felt uneasy because I was not married, and made my neighbors laugh. My mother complained to me today. She wants to base her weakness on my pressure.

Old people think differently from us. Most parents will rush their children when they reach marriageable age, not just you. This has nothing to do with vanity. They want to see you get married early, maybe when we are old. Don't exclude them, have a good talk with them, just say that you are now focused on your career and how can you get a good wife without material foundation.