How to make children do things in the spirit of contract

Respect for the importance of agreement to children, parents give their children an agreement, and at the appointed time, it is the process for children to learn what an agreement is. If parents can keep the agreement every time, then the definition of "agreement" that children learn is an unbreakable and inviolable promise. On the contrary, if parents violate the agreement from time to time and violate it at will, then the definition of "agreement" that children learn is the behavior that will not bring bad consequences to the future. In the long run, parents' failure to abide by the agreement will not only make children no longer trust their parents, but also make them grow into a trustworthy person.

Usually, we should make three chapters with our children and treat their problems, especially their bad behavior. Parents must work with their children to make rules and make three chapters of the law for their children to abide by. Never make your own rules for your children to follow. Such a rule has no binding significance for children.

For example, if you are old and sick in bed, your children will talk to the doctor about your illness at your bedside. In the face of the doctor's question about whether to continue treatment, at the bedside, the child will swear to save and continue treatment. How much does it cost? Looking at the children's worried faces, the flame of hope began to sprout. You take medicine regularly every day according to the doctor's advice, have a check-up, and endure pain in the hospital bed countless times. You try to make yourself better, and your body seems to be getting healthier and healthier. The doctor said the same thing again. When you left the ward and just closed it, you heard the children and doctors whispering their heartless words. Don't save and waste money, promise him and let him have it. You can feel that your efforts are like a joke. You endure pain day and night, eat pills that are hard to swallow regularly every day, and your skin is scarred by acupuncture. All your promises are like the faint candlelight on a cold night. You snuggle up by candlelight to keep warm, but your child's other face is like the devil's whisper, cruel extinction, candlelight to keep warm, and even tells you that candlelight is the illusion of a prosperous city, and commitment is like a blank sheet of paper. Will be torn to pieces and burned. It's late at night, and you're lying in a hospital bed, and your illness is starting to torture you again. Your heart is getting cold, and your old body is getting cold. You think of the happy appearance of your child when he was a child!