"Life"-Hey, you should take off your underwear.

Personally, I have a hobby that is not a hobby, that is, hoarding underwear.

Actually, I didn't mean to. I just thought I should get rid of the old underwear every once in a while and bought a new box.

But after buying new underwear, throw it into the drawer and ignore it. In the long run, there will be more and more new underwear, but those who are used to wearing it will be changed every day.

Why? Because the old underwear is comfortable to wear, and it is not broken, and it is cleaned every day. It's a shame to throw it away.

This reminds me of when I was a child, every time I passed downstairs, I looked up and saw clothes all over the balcony. One of the most embarrassing things for me is the underwear of housewives, which is fat and big, without a trace of beauty, but swaggering in the wind. This situation always makes me feel ashamed and angry, thinking that I will never wear such ugly things again.

At that time, my girlish heart was just beginning, full of fantasy and reserve. But now I look at my balcony and find that my underwear has started to develop in a direction I hate, which makes me feel uneasy.

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Everyone will have a pair of underwear like this. I bought it and wore it for a long time, even it was deformed, but it was not broken; Pure cotton texture, light color, simple pattern, is still a reassuring high waist; We change and wash, wash and change every day, but we are always reluctant to throw it away.

It is neither cute nor sexy, but it is the most comfortable dress we are used to.

Because there is such a pair of underwear at home, even if we meet something nice and like again, we will shake our heads and say that we can still wear it at home. Even if I buy it home, it will be thrown in the corner like me.

We always think, it doesn't matter, we will lose this old one after a while. When necessary, I will definitely put on my best underwear.

However, this opportunity will never come, so beautiful clothes are always hung in the window and worn on others.

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You see, this is very similar to the life we are used to.

I have a stable job, a meager salary, a boyfriend who is neither rich nor poor, and a life that is neither salty nor light. Even with all kinds of dissatisfaction, I dare not leave. Because this kind of life, like wearing underwear, makes us feel most at ease.

However, deep down, we are always eager for change.

In Tokyo Women's Picture Book, the heroine Ling's childhood dream is to be a respected person. After graduating from college, she came to Tokyo from her hometown town, rented a house in a quiet street far from the city, had a stable job and a warm first boyfriend, and lived a dull and happy life.

And one morning, when she looked at her pilled underwear, she suddenly felt that this life was not what she wanted.

So she left, changed to a higher-paying job and moved into a more lively street. Maybe she lost her inner peace and comfort, but she has more opportunities to accept new opportunities and challenges.

There is a scene in the play where the heroine buys a lot of exquisite and beautiful underwear after moving to a new house. Underwear may not be as comfortable as old underwear, but it gives her confidence and courage to start a new life.

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I know a senior who usually wears clothes that are not very ostentatious or even simple. Once we went shopping together, she went into an underwear store to choose underwear. To my surprise, the style she chose is not simple, but very exquisite and design-oriented. This makes me feel a little embarrassed.

Later, after she bought it, we walked on the road together. She said to me, "In fact, our attitude towards underwear is our attitude towards ourselves and life."

Senior said that she used to be a part-time etiquette model, and she could spend a lot of money on clothes, but she was reluctant to buy herself a better underwear. I always feel that these things are only known to myself, so just make do with them. It's better to wear clothes outside, it's a face in front of people.

But later, my senior found that even in the most beautiful clothes, standing there still felt uncomfortable and had no confidence. It's even more embarrassing when changing clothes. Because she knows that her underwear is so ugly that no one can see it. And those girls who are natural and graceful and admired by their senior sisters, even their underwear is impeccable, and the confidence brought by underwear from the inside out is irreplaceable.

"What others can see is vanity, and you can only hide your true self where others can't see it," said Senior Sister.

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We can put on beautiful clothes and delicate makeup, and face outsiders with vigor and vitality every day, but when we get home, we take off all kinds of disguises, and the rest is our true self.

The real self, like underwear, is invisible and intangible to outsiders.

Expensive or cheap, high-quality or inferior, beautiful and sexy or low-key and simple, changing or dirty every day, you don't tell, no one knows which one you are.

However, we know in our hearts. We may fool others, but we can't fool ourselves.

Every aunt has had a girlhood, which is an age when she has to wash her underwear. But later, life has worn away those fantasies and reserve. So underwear is getting bigger and bigger, beautiful styles can no longer be worn in, and old underwear is reluctant to throw away. They will still buy fashionable clothes in the street, but they won't buy a beautiful underwear.

People's compromise on life always starts from these invisible small places.

The connivance of old underwear is the connivance of one's figure and life. If you don't even have the courage to throw away an old pair of underwear, how can you have the courage to get out of your comfort zone and strive for a better life?

And those who live exquisitely in their bones will still have a pair of youthful underwear even when they are old.