You're divorced, and your parents always say you deserve it. What is the mentality of these people?

First of all, I want to express my sympathy to those who have experienced this incident. Losing love and family is a kind of sorrow. No one is perfect. Affection brings us not only warmth and tolerance, but also a thorn that sometimes stings your heart. Your family regards you as spilled water, which can't be recovered, even as thin as cold water.

I know this feeling very well, and I want to take this opportunity to complain about those indifferent relatives and friends. When I was in love, I chose a boyfriend who was not very rich and the conditions were not very good, but I resolutely chose him. I think I married love, but my family didn't agree. No one said this man was a pedestrian, but I didn't listen to them and went my own way and married a poor boy. My family and I turned against each other. My mother said that if you marry her, you should not recognize me as a mother, but I have no choice but to give up. I can guess the mentality of my family. My family seems to be expecting that one day I will be unhappy and then complain to them. This is also a fact. People's mentality is so strange. Although you are related by blood, it is difficult to eradicate the bad habits of such people. They look forward to the day when I am unwilling to verify their original choice.

Sure enough, it didn't take long for me and this poor-looking boy to find out that he was not only poor, but also selfish, not only selfish, but also unable to support his family. Finally, I went back to my mother's house with fatigue and scars, and my family didn't give me a good look. My mom told me, I knew this guy couldn't do it. You don't believe me. What do you think now? Are you telling me that I'm right? At that time, I was proud to see my mother's eyes.

People always hope that what they say is right. When you go against your family's choice with a rebellious attitude, they will expect you to have a bad time in their hearts and then prove that their choice is right.