The following guests often come at home, so let the children "hide away", otherwise the relationship will be easy to break up.

Wen | Wen Er

A friend said that guests came to her house more frequently recently, because her in-laws are old and are the only elders of relatives and friends. My father-in-law is 97 years old and my mother-in-law is 92 years old. Both of them live a long life. Therefore, whenever the New Year is approaching, as long as relatives and friends come back from outside, they have to visit her home first. Recently, her children are going to have a final exam, and she is really a little overwhelmed.

Two days ago, my son was doing his homework, and a large group of relatives came. Perhaps his voice was so loud that his son couldn't study quietly, so he rushed out of the room and yelled at everyone, making a room full of people feel embarrassed. Some elders with a big temper also deliberately used words to stimulate her husband, meaning that they would beat their son. Fortunately, she was tactfully turned back. From then on, whenever any relatives and friends came, she took her son to the neighbor's house next door to do his homework.

In fact, the following guests often come at home, so let the children "stay away", otherwise the relationship will be easy to break up.

As my friend said, this time, the guests at home kept quiet and put on airs, and insisted that her husband beat the children. Such a guest annoys the child, and so does she. Therefore, parents must let their children "stay away" if they often come to such ostentatious guests at home. Because children don't care what they say, in case such relatives are offended, the family may have to yell or beat the children because of their face. In this way, the child was wronged and let relatives see jokes.

the point is that some relatives push their luck, and if you don't give them enough face, they will lose face. Moreover, we may reprimand our children directly, or speak ill of our family among relatives and friends, saying that we have no tutor. In this way, the relationship is easy to get stiff. Therefore, like my friend, it is wise to take the children to the neighbor's house at once every time such relatives come.

There are some guests who are not as annoying as these ostentatious guests, but they are too "enthusiastic"-nosy! Every time such guests come home, they have to get involved in something, for example, asking about things at home, giving advice to the elderly to punish the younger generation and children, "selling well" for young people, and talking about the faults of the elderly at home. Moreover, they may also urge marriage and give birth, and they are more concerned than the elders at home.

Parents should also pay attention to let their children "stay away" when they meet such nosy guests, because such guests will also find fault with their children.

Tell me a case. My son's academic performance is not good. A cousin came to my house and said that her grandson studied well, and he was the first in the class in every exam, and he still studied very hard. He also said that my son didn't study well, because he was too playful. We had to strictly control him and enroll his children in remedial classes. Then my in-laws felt that their grandchildren were hopeless, so they took out their two-month pension and enrolled in the remedial classes of this cousin's grandson. As a result, nothing was learned, and the relationship between the two sides was still stiff.

As parents, we actually reject those guests who are crazy about teasing their children, because they tease their children lightly and make people uncomfortable. For example, forcing children to "call dad", forcing children to drink, and doing some dangerous actions to throw children high and catch them ... Children don't like it, and we are also uncomfortable. However, because of face, it is not good to make things too stiff.

Therefore, when we meet such guests, we must look after our children, and it is best to let them "stay away". One thousand, such guests tease the baby too much and hurt the child, and we adults will turn against each other and have a conflict, which is not worth the candle.

topic discussion: parents, do you have these kinds of guests in your family?