An argumentative person.

People who like to argue, in life, we will always meet such people, that is, people who like to argue. It is really a headache to meet such people. No matter what you say, they will give you a few words, which makes people feel uncomfortable. Read this article and get to know people who like to argue.

People who like to wrangle 1 1, the mentality of "larger foe": their own lives are hard, and others are hard.

The afternoon before yesterday, my colleague Xiao Zhao signed a contract with a client. According to the reward system of the unit, he can get more than 1000 bonus.

Everyone is happy for Xiao Zhao, but the new classmate Xiao Liu is unhappy. Xiao Liu said: "Don't forget, Xiao Zhao didn't finish the task last month, and the punishment he deserves has not been fulfilled."

Because of Xiao Liu's words, everyone was unhappy, and Xiao Zhao lost the chance to get the bonus.

I thought about it afterwards. What Xiao Liu has done is actually a very bad mentality. He doesn't work hard himself, but he doesn't want to see others work hard. He can't get the bonus himself, and he doesn't want others to get the bonus. He'd rather never get anywhere than "hold" others' back.

People who like to wrangle are often incompetent, but he doesn't think so. He feels that all outstanding people should be hurt once, so that they will all become poor and have no such ambition.

Bargaining often hurts people and hurts themselves, but some people hurt themselves at the same time, which is a sign of broken pots and broken falls.

2. "Self-righteous" mentality: I always think I am great.

Some people, who think they are swift horses and have never seen Bole, are indignant. Once he saw that others were better than himself, he immediately remembered his "bitter experience" and flew into a rage.

The afternoon before yesterday, one of my junior high school classmates spoke: "I opened a clothing store. Welcome students to come and sit down. "

Someone immediately replied: "You open a clothing store and shout among your classmates. I opened a furniture factory and didn't shout. You are so embarrassed. "

When a person thinks he is great, he will look down on anyone. Even if he gets along well, he will not "admit defeat". In front of everyone, he is cocky and arrogant.

People who like to wrangle, in fact, every sentence is belittling others and deliberately raising their own worth. In his eyes, if he wins the second place, no one dares to win the first place.

3. The mentality of "being unconventional": It is very special to show yourself through arguments.

In the street, we often see such a person: wearing strange clothes, with thick rouge powder on his face and a special voice. His appearance can stop everyone, and the rate of turning around is very high.

Generally speaking, we are disgusted with people who dress strangely, and think such people are too uneducated and rude.

However, some people show they are "unusual" by wearing strange clothes. He wants to be a red man and be better than others in this way.

If a person has an "unusual" mode of thinking, he will also say "unusual" words when talking with others. His writing is "unusual" and his thinking logic is abnormal. His purpose is to show off.

For example, when a group of people travel, they decide to climb the mountain first and then go by boat. Everyone thinks that climbing mountains will be very tiring. When you are very tired, you can take a boat to see the scenery, that is, have a rest while watching the scenery. People who like to wrangle will immediately jump out and object, trying to convince everyone forcibly.

Different opinions are allowed in the communication between people, but every time a person raises different opinions, he is just arguing, not sincerely proposing opinions.

When dealing with people, don't take those who like to be "unconventional" and those who like to raise objections seriously. Their words and deeds are unreliable and pretentious.

4, "secretly teasing" mentality: I hope others will make a fool of themselves and be a good "spectator".

When a person who likes to wrangle and disturb others' words and deeds through his own words and deeds, he will not feel guilty, and he has no sense of shame at all. Instead, I feel very happy and feel that I have "succeeded".

At the end of last month, our unit held a trade union activity. Several colleagues and I went to an expansion base and haven't exercised for a long time. Everyone wants to show their skills.

Yes Some colleagues are climbing mountains, some are exploring activities, some are climbing rocks, and some are barbecuing.

Suddenly, my colleague Amy said, "Did you see that swing? The one on the cliff. "

The swing on the cliff looks dangerous, but everyone is willing to try and feel it.

Colleague Xiao Min is a very timid person. She is not interested in swings, but Amy has been urging her to sit on them. Amid the boos of everyone, Xiao Min sat trembling on the swing. When the swing swung a few times, Xiao Min screamed with fear.

When Xiao Min got off the swing, everyone praised Xiao Min for his bravery. However, Xiaomi is secretly laughing. Obviously, he thinks his "trick" has succeeded.

People with different attitudes will see different sides of the same thing. People who like to wrangle always see the dark side and deliberately enlarge and pick it out.

In fact, I like to wrangle, which means that my cultivation and wisdom are not enough, and it also shows that I am very jealous.

People who like bickering 2 How to get along with people who like bickering?

1, don't try to be reasonable.

When we meet a person who likes to wrangle, that is, the so-called wrangler, we should not try to argue with them, even if it is reasonable, because the more we argue, the more vigorously he will tell you. In his mind, he is always right, there is no need to spend time arguing with herdsman.

2. Don't cause topics that are easy to cause differences.

It is inevitable that you will meet gangsters in your life, or there are people among your friends who like to wrangle. With them, try not to talk about topics that are easy to cause differences, so gangsters will argue endlessly.

Just listen to them.

If you meet people who like to wrangle, obey them. Even if what he said is wrong, even if what he said is unreasonable, we should not try to interrupt him. Let him talk. We were just listening. The premise is that we are not interested in this topic.

If you can't afford it, then hide.

Some swindlers will argue with us no matter what they do, so as to show their erudition and think that he is right in everything and others are wrong in everything. There are many such people. Don't argue with them when you meet them. Just leave in time and ignore them. So as not to affect the mood.

5. disaster comes from the mouth

Try not to talk when dealing with gangsters, and don't say those irrelevant words. If you want to arouse the interest of gangsters, wait for endless arguments. Many times, we will deal with gangsters at work, only talk about work, and try not to involve other topics, which is easy to cause disputes.

6. Have fun

In fact, it's good to be with people who like to wrangle, especially when they are bored. It is also a pleasure to listen to them preach, teach and solve doubts. However, don't take it seriously, just like listening to a joke. If you take it seriously, it's easy for you to get involved, wrangle with them and affect your mood. So, just ignore it in front of the lever.