These four diaosi behaviors will keep girls away from you.

In addition to ugliness, it can keep girls away from you at the speed of light, as well as diaosi temperament.

My best friend said that she was going to sing K, and a sister brought a cayenne man (the boy who drives a Porsche cayenne).

As soon as I entered the door, I had heavy eyebrows, a big back and a small Gucci suit, and a LV bag in my arms. At first glance, it is quite pleasing to the eye.

Unexpectedly, the prologue came, "damn it! It is really TM difficult to find a parking space nearby, and the parking fee is still expensive! "

Unexpectedly, he lit a cigarette and walked around the field to shake hands with the girls present. The smell of smoke filled the room instantly.

Unexpectedly, he also called a group of men around a table, smoking and drinking, full of reproductive organs.

After a while, she and other sisters quit.

It is conceivable that money and face value are no match for a diaosi temperament.

According to media analysis, most diaosi's "diao" is not in appearance, but in the brain.

Diaosi thinking can be described in four words: simple and rude. I always thought that as long as I had Wang Sicong's money and Daniel Wu's face, I could breathe once every second.

In fact, in the eyes of girls, she judges whether you are a diaosi or not, not only by looking at your appearance, but also by paying attention to your words and deeds. And she won't tell you if she labels you diaosi.

That's why some boys flirt with each other and it's over. "Born sister paper killer", she still looks puzzled and doesn't know where the problem lies.

What are the fatal behaviors that betray your "penis"?

Now, I will share the little secret that girls won't tell you with my male compatriots.

As the saying goes, "It's terrible to be uneducated."

Is it certain that diaosi has no culture? Why put double quotation marks on "uneducated"?

It is because the so-called "uneducated" is not really uneducated (you will read my article, which shows that you are a literate person [confident face]).

A person who wants to fall in love, no matter how awesome, has been to school, high or low, deep or shallow. They are all cultures, and everyone knows more than one culture.

However, if you meet a bully, sometimes even boys will feel ashamed, feeling that they have no culture and know less than others.

Is it really a lack of culture? Not exactly.

As far as chasing girls is concerned, there is a mistake that even educated men are prone to make.

This is the-value display error.

Jokes always come from life, such as the circle of friends I brush.

There is a buddy who has a wonderful life. His circle of friends is like a guidebook. He went to Maldives for a holiday in winter, enjoyed cherry blossoms in Japan last month, and just went to new york a few days ago.

But on the day he arrived in new york, we met at the convenience store downstairs.

My girlfriend went to meet a male netizen and came back to vomit that men don't play mobile phones and often look at their watches. Later, he said it was a little hot, but he took off his watch and put it on the table.

That watch is an Omega.

These "forces" are well installed. However, it may be okay to hook up with a gold digger. If you want to meet a woman who goes out with her brain, it is estimated that low will explode.

Of course, we are not here to force, but to find a way to cure the problem.

In fact, the psychological motivation of pretending to be forced is not malicious from the inside out.

The apparent motive of pretending to be forced is vanity; Its deep motivation is to gain recognition and praise by expressing oneself.

In this era, who has no vanity? Who else doesn't brush the sense of existence? Just in the wrong way.

According to my observation, the most common way people pretend to be forced is to have money, status, education and taste.

These "compulsions" are actually just a herd mentality. They want to decorate themselves with things recognized by the public, thus increasing their attraction.

A careful examination of this behavior tendency from the perspective of chasing girls can reflect two potential reasons:

1. Lack of understanding of their outlook on life and professional knowledge.

2. I don't know what kind of girl I am suitable for.

Generally speaking, the fundamental reason for pretending to be forced is that you don't use your brain and want to directly move things recognized by the public to cover up your laziness and unrealistic.

From a scientific point of view, the corresponding method of expressing yourself without pretending is:

1. Make clear your outlook on life and expertise first.

2. Determine the type of girl you can handle (do what you can and put an end to the unrealistic)

3. Find out the real needs of this type of girls again (except that 80% of them are short of money and face value).

4. Know yourself and yourself, and express yourself in a targeted way.

Some people say that personality is also very important, and lively and cheerful people are more popular (you are right). In fact, personality should be run-in, extroversion and introversion have their own strengths.

When a girl says, "I don't want you to spend money for me, I want you to spend money for me!" " "

Can you believe it? ..... Why not just send her a 5.20 red envelope every Valentine's Day?

Being stingy can become TOP2' s diaosi behavior, not by blowing, but by girls bullying and spitting.

Although they are very gentle when dating, there is probably a "saliva machine gun" behind them. Every little red envelope, every place to eat, every speed of paying the bill, every little bargain ... they all remember it clearly and recite it backwards.

Sometimes girls are really melodramatic, but there's nothing they can do. Who made you like her? Since you are interested in chasing others, you have to behave well.

The reason why stingy people have the word "small" is to fully prove one sentence: details determine success or failure.

The existence of the word stingy is aimed at the "weakness" of our men's "informality"

What exactly is not stingy?

Many people think that as long as they have money and are willing to spend generously on girls, they can solve the problem.

That's all wet. Girls want you to be generous and meticulous. In other words, there must be a house and a car, but there must also be a small red envelope!

Actually, many boys are not stingy, but frugal.

But if they do some common thrifty behaviors at inappropriate times (especially on the first date), they will be misunderstood.

The virgin complex ("CN complex" for short) is about to become an eternal tearing topic.

For male compatriots, having a CN complex is not terrible.

The most terrible thing is that people with CN complex proudly tell others that "nine times out of ten men now have virgin complex". No, on Zhihu.

First of all, it is worth emphasizing that there is nothing wrong with the CN complex, as long as you are a virgin.

If there is no virgin complex, it is a double-marked dead rogue and a black sheep in the men's circle.

Why do you say that?

Imagine a man with a CN complex and not a virgin. He has spoiled a virgin of his predecessor. What about the girl he dumped after "spoiling"? Do you deserve to be single until you are old? Or is it ironic that her next man is wearing my "whore" anyway?

Every day, people fall in love, and some people fall in love. Most of the feelings on earth are fruitless. Whose new love is not someone else's old love?

Those boys who have the concept of CN complex will make people feel very low and arrogant, which is also scientifically based.

From the perspective of neurobiology, CN complex is the most primitive possessive desire of male animals.

In nature, if male animals (such as lions) want to get the chance to mate with female animals, they need to fight to the death with other competitors, and those who can survive will have the chance.

In other words, if everyone returns to the most primitive desire equally, then a man with CN complex can only change his life.

But the reason why people are people, not animals, is that people can get rid of and suppress animality through civilization consciousness.

CN complex is essentially a manifestation of the degradation of human civilization.

Of course, there is nothing wrong with always emphasizing the CN complex, as long as you are a virgin.

As long as you can be honest and do not engage in double standards, no one on earth is qualified to discriminate against you, give you a moral lesson and kidnap you.

If you can't find a virgin to marry in the end, but you can still stay in Do not forget your initiative mind, stick to it, I will still respect you as a hero, really.