Pregnant women are teased by neighbors.

It is said that people should be kind, but what is the definition of kindness? Andy Lau has a classic line in Infernal Affairs, "Now I want to be a good person". This shot is made into an expression pack and circulated in various groups. When you have no choice or encounter embarrassing things, you will take the initiative to propose this expression to express your inner contradictions. The definition of a good person is very broad, and so is kindness.

Can you tell whether your mother-in-law is kind or your daughter-in-law is kind? We talked a lot about the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, either because of money or because of ideas. Many times, two people are just emotional opposites, and finally they can't tell the outcome, so that the result is either divorce or separation, and the young couple live alone. It's not who wins or loses, it's just a slap in the face.

Why is the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law so resentful and sensitive? Seeing this word will make you sick. For the mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law should be the one who gives birth to children and continues the offspring. For the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law is the mother of the husband and the grandmother of the child. Although there is no direct blood relationship with her, her close relatives will always be close relatives of the same strain.

In ancient times, four generations lived under one roof, which was always lively, harmonious and beautiful. Their mother-in-law is kind and loving, and their daughter-in-law is virtuous and filial. Why is this model family little known now that the population is small? I think, probably because each has selfishness, desire and more things to possess, the contradiction between family members will be highlighted.

"Why should women be difficult for women?" In the eyes of many mother-in-law, letting mother-in-law take care of children will feel powerless and affect the lives of the elderly. If a daughter-in-law doesn't have children, she will feel that her daughter-in-law ignores family and tradition. When a daughter-in-law goes out to earn money, she will feel that she has no time to do housework. If a daughter-in-law doesn't go out to earn money, she will feel that her son is under too much pressure to support his family. It seems that nothing is right and everything is flawed.

Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, all are women. Mother-in-law, as an experienced person, should understand how much pressure and responsibility women have to bear when they get married and have children. You can't let your daughter-in-law make the same mistake just because she has been wronged. Daughter-in-law, as someone else's wife, although married couples should put their small family first, you can't be angry when you see your husband filial to her mother-in-law. After all, that's her husband's mother.

All women should support each other instead of hurting each other. We must be kind, tolerant and generous to each other, and our relationship can last long. The protagonist of our story today is a kind girl, but she has embarked on the road of divorce because of kindness.

When Xia Xia fell in love with her husband, he always praised his mother as such a kind person. After marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will definitely be harmonious, not like other people's homes.

Xia Xia's mother instilled in her the idea that a woman should behave like a woman after marriage, manage the family and honor her in-laws, and she did. After marriage, her husband offered to live with her in-laws, but Xia Xia agreed without thinking. After living together, she never blushed with her in-laws or complained about them in front of her husband.

Thanks to Xia Xia's generosity and kindness, the family lived a pretty good life. Shortly after she moved here, her mother-in-law often had a headache, and most of the meals at home were cooked by Xia Xia when she came back from work. Other housework, as long as Xia Xia is at home, is basically done by her.

The family remained in this state until Xia Xia got pregnant. However, after pregnancy, Xia Xia has been protecting the fetus for several months because of abnormal indicators, so there is no way to participate in housework too much, so this burden falls on her mother-in-law. Although her mother-in-law didn't show displeasure on the surface, she always heard her tell Xia Xia's husband that her headache was getting worse.

One day after work, Xia Xia saw her mother-in-law sitting on the balcony sighing, and hurriedly went up to ask. Mother-in-law said that she had a headache and couldn't take the quilt out of the cupboard to bask in the sun. She thought it was a waste of rare good weather. Xia Xia was embarrassed to see her mother-in-law, so she took a stool and stood up to reach the things on the cupboard. "Xia Xia, you are pregnant. Don't do this. I can't afford it in case of an accident. " "Mom, it's okay. I'm much better now. It's been over four months. What can I do? " But at some point, Xia Xia fell off the stool because he didn't stand firm.

After losing her child, Xia Xia woke up and had to face the reality. Looking at the disappointed expression of her husband and mother-in-law, Xia Xia felt that it was all her own fault. If she had been careful, she wouldn't have fallen off the stool. The operation went well, and I went home after a day's rest in the hospital. Along the way, my husband held his sad mother-in-law and followed silently. Although Xia Xia's tears are always in her eyes, she can't cry. She was afraid of crying, which made her husband and mother-in-law feel even worse.

"Xia Xia, my mother is not feeling well. Please take care of her these days. You should have a good rest yourself and don't be too tired. " With these words, my husband went back to his study to do his own work, leaving Xia Xia alone to face the "bereavement" he had just experienced. But before she could have a hard time, her mother-in-law cried for water in the room, so Xia Xia had to endure the pain and pour water for her mother-in-law.

My mother-in-law's headache doesn't seem to show any signs of improvement this time. She used to go out for a walk two or three days ago, but she was still listless after lying down for a week. Fortunately, Xia Xia has almost recovered, otherwise she would have to do housework and cook to take care of her mother-in-law, and she would have been exhausted.

Xia Xia should have worked overtime in the company that day, but she came home from work early, thinking that she could cook some fresh meals for her mother-in-law to make her eat more comfortably. But just entering the community gate, she saw her mother-in-law chatting with several aunts next door in the garden corridor, and laughter came from time to time.

"You don't know, my daughter-in-law, silly, said I had a headache, and she willingly took on all the housework." Other aunts gave their mother-in-law a thumbs-up when they heard this. "You can still manage your daughter-in-law." "Abortion didn't have children, so I deliberately didn't wait on her! I don't have any skills. I can't even raise a child. If I don't punish her, I can't stand this tone. If my son didn't like her, he would have divorced this wife. "

Xia Xia never dreamed that she was this image in her mother-in-law's heart, and she had a miscarriage some time ago. Her mother-in-law had no pity on herself, and she deliberately pretended to wait on her.

"Mom, let's go home." "Hey, Xia Xia is back. Let's go. It's time to go home and cook." They all avoid it, but when they walk, they look back from time to time. They must be waiting for a drama of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. "Mom, why do you pretend to be sick when you are not sick?" When her mother-in-law saw Xia Xia asking herself this question, she suddenly panicked. "What is sick? My grandson is missing. How can I pretend to have a headache? " After that, I walked home without looking back, and the pace was fast. Xia Xia can hardly catch up. It seems that the mother-in-law is really pretending. Xia Xia only felt cold, and waited on her day and night, just sending the rice to her mouth, but her mother-in-law didn't remember her own good.

At dinner in the evening, Xia Xia told her husband that her mother-in-law had been pretending to be ill all this time and would not buy food and cook from tomorrow. But my mother-in-law suddenly lost her job. "Who said I was sick? I can't sleep all night at the thought of my lovely grandson leaving, and my headache is like a bomb. What's bothering you? If you don't want to take care of me, just say so. Why do you say I'm pretending to be sick? Is that necessary? "

When her husband saw her mother-in-law crying, he began to blame Xia Xia. "My mother has a headache not only because of you. Be careful when you are pregnant, will you have a miscarriage? " ! My mother will have a headache if you don't have an abortion! You also said that my mother was ill. "Xia Xia looked at her husband and didn't mean to defend herself at all, so she told her husband what she saw in the afternoon, but her husband said it was her mother-in-law chatting and bragging together, and the gossip between her parents was not true. Her mother must have said it to save face.

Xia Xia really didn't expect her husband to be so filial. Seeing her son facing herself, the mother-in-law wiped her tears and continued: "It's not that you are useless. It is a woman's instinct to have children. You can't even have a child. What's your use! " And her husband, this time, while listening to her mother-in-law, nodded from time to time, as if all the faults were Xia Xia's.

Xia Xia went up to him and threw a bowl of soup in her mother-in-law's face. "My good mother-in-law, I advise you to be kind and accumulate virtue under your mouth, otherwise there will be retribution. This is the last time I cook for you. Take your time! " After that, I packed my things and left home. This family, such a husband, such a mother-in-law, nothing is worth my nostalgia.

Fortunately, later, when Xia Xia remarried, she found an equally gentle and honest family. And her ex-husband, thanks to her mother-in-law preaching how to "punish" her daughter-in-law, is still single. I don't know if this result is what her mother-in-law expected. Without her daughter-in-law, I don't know what she uses as bragging capital when chatting with others now. Le Monde came too fast.

Be kind, whether you are someone else's mother-in-law or daughter-in-law. Xia Xia has miscarried. No mother is not sad without children, but her mother-in-law tortures her daughter-in-law at this time. But if you have a little kindness and can see a little pity for your daughter-in-law, you won't end up like that.

A mother-in-law quarreling with her daughter-in-law at home will make life difficult for her son's family. How can she live well when her son is not well? Everything pays attention to cause and effect. Only by being kind to your daughter-in-law and planting good reasons in her daughter-in-law can you make your son's family harmonious, while your son's small family is harmonious, you can honor the elderly, your big family can be harmonious, and your mother-in-law can reap good results.

No one is born evil. You can fall in love with your husband, which proves that he has the characteristics that attract you, and this characteristic was taught by your mother-in-law since childhood. Why did she start to change because she entered the role of "mother-in-law"? My mother-in-law is no longer like my mother, and my daughter-in-law is no longer like my wife.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should have helped each other, supported each other and worked together for the family. Just because you become someone else's daughter-in-law or mother-in-law, you can't forget your original kindness and become tit-for-tat because of your identity. In the end, you will hurt the enemy by 1000 and hurt the enemy by 800.