Do you believe that those people who are calm on the outside have actually collapsed inside?

After all these years, have you found a truth? It is that some people are more powerful in appearance and more fragile in heart. The weaker the heart, the stronger the appearance.

On the surface, those people seem to be positive and optimistic, laughing more happily than anyone else, exaggerating, but in fact they are all faked.

His heart has already collapsed, but he is still pretending in front of people. You think there are very few such people, but in fact he is with us. If he hadn't lost control and collapsed, you might never have realized it

It seems that many people are like this. You can bear it, you can hide how broken your heart is, but you can fool others, but you can't fool yourself.

Just like when I was studying science, the teacher said that quantitative change would cause qualitative change, even the last straw that crushed people was as light as if it had no weight.

The same is true of people, disappointment and pain gradually accumulate, and finally they can't help but collapse. And before that, he can pretend as if nothing has happened, maybe he doesn't want people to worry, maybe he doesn't want people to see jokes, maybe he does. ...

Anyway, for various reasons, he ran forward with a load of 10 thousand Jin, and we just watched it hang high.

When I was young, I always wondered why a person could be so sensible, so forbearing and so strong. Later, after some social abuse, I realized that I was not sensible, forbearing and strong, and I could not live to such a big age.

And many times, when you are embarrassed by being hit, your ability to resist depression will gradually become stronger.

I used to cry because of a little thing, but later I couldn't hold back a big thing. But this is only the surface, and the heart is on the verge of collapse. If you light a fire, a straw will suddenly collapse.

Often such people are a little uncomfortable in their hearts, but they just can't talk to people.

Can you understand such a person? The boy in his twenties has a confused future. He works hard for his life every day, but he gets little.

Poor family, boss who likes to find fault, colleagues who are always gossiping and difficult to get along with, just barely face past friends, and many classmates who look down on him and laugh at him.

There are too many bad things in life, from the rising rent to the illness of relatives, who need a lot of money urgently. Obviously so young, but it seems that there is no hope at all. He doesn't seem to want anything in particular, but he seems to want everything.

He always likes to laugh at ordinary times, and his smile is particularly sunny. Everyone who has met him thinks that he should be an optimistic and happy person.

But in fact, he felt that he would collapse at any moment.

To make his parents feel better, he worked overtime day and night for two months. He walked home late at night, laughing and crying.

However, during the day, he still pretends to be very good. When his parents called to ask him, he also reported good news instead of bad news. When asked by his colleagues, he only said that he was fine.

The surface is as calm as water, but the heart has collapsed. What he said was nothing, but he lied to others. Others look at him as if he is fine, but in fact his heart has already collapsed.

In such a tense, nervous, wronged and sad life, if he is hit again, he may break out.

Funnily enough, people who are so honest, so calm and so fond of laughing on the outside are so terrible to collapse. If you are really wronged, really miserable, really devastated, then we won't continue. Deal with the source first, don't take it to heart.

Obviously introverted and withdrawn, but pretending to be gregarious looks very distressed. Obviously embarrassed and sad, you look too reluctant to pretend to laugh.

How broken your heart is, you can fool others, but you can't fool yourself.