Don't brothers and sisters hang out much?

I met my second sister on the bus one day. We walked on the same road without saying hello to each other. I don't want to do this, but whenever my 95-year-old mother suffers from Alzheimer's disease, I am alone for 24 hours, exhausted and helpless. As we all know, the pain of accompanying Alzheimer's disease, on the one hand, is to see that my mother is so unbearable, on the other hand, I dare not slack off, for fear of something happening, falling or running around. When I was really exhausted, I called my sister for help, asked her to take my place and let me have a good rest and recover my strength, but her answer was that I had to take care of my grandson and couldn't leave. This makes me very angry. Finally, she didn't even have a greeting phone. Do you think it is cruel or too much to meet without saying hello on the bus? Is such a girl worth dating?

Every family has a difficult experience, and every pot is black when it is opened. I don't associate with my eldest brother. I haven't seen you for four or five years, and I don't usually call much.

I have two older brothers. My brother is short-tempered, selfish and extreme. He has a mean tongue and loves to call names. His eyes stared and no one dared to provoke him. I have been afraid of him since I was a child, afraid that he would hit me. After getting married and having a son, the couple became even more awesome. They think everyone should help them. They are responsible for borrowing money, borrowing it, not paying it back, and borrowing it again. If you don't borrow it, you will get angry and scold you.

On the contrary, the second brother is filial to his parents, attaches great importance to feelings and righteousness, works well, has many friends, cleans his ass regularly, handles some troubles, and takes care of his sister. But good people don't live long. At the age of 38, he died of a sudden illness in 2007. Alas! A bolt from the blue, although it has been 10 years, it still hurts to think of my second brother.

After the death of my second brother, my eldest brother and I shared the responsibility of supporting our parents. For the convenience of care, I took two old people to the nursing home in the city. My mother has no pension, and my father's retirement salary is not enough to pay for two people's pension. I'll share the shortfall with my eldest brother. Usually take care of seeing a doctor, taking medicine, buying fruit and some daily necessities. Eldest brother shared the pension expenses equally for half a year, regardless, saying that eldest sister-in-law was laid off and didn't go to work, and the children needed money to make up lessons in high school, saying that they had heart disease and were dying! All kinds of crying and pretending to be poor have only one purpose, that is, to let me take care of my parents alone.

All right! Then I'll be in charge alone. At that time, I worked in a factory and only opened more than 2,000 points a month. My husband doesn't earn much. Raising children and various living expenses have made my life difficult, which has also aggravated my idea of quitting my sales job in the future and rushing to make money.

When my living conditions are better, he will feel more at ease regardless of his parents. My mother's diaper was gone, and he called me, too. He is reluctant to spend money on several bags. Once, I actually discussed with me how to pay the funeral expenses if my mother died that day without labor insurance and work-related injuries. Now it costs 20 thousand to send a dead person. I was so angry that I couldn't speak. I looked at him contemptuously and said, don't worry, if my mother comes one day, I'll collect the funeral expenses, so you don't have to worry. I don't care about these things with him, but there are three reasons that eventually prompted me not to associate with him, which is chilling.

1. My father died in 2009 and his ashes were buried in the mountains of his hometown. The old man is buried here and his daughter is not allowed to stand in front of him. She can only hide at the foot of the mountain. I must be invisible to the underworld, and the underworld can't see me. In the second year, Qingming couldn't find his father's grave and wanted to go to the grave with his eldest brother. He didn't take me. He didn't take me for another year. There's always a reason to escape. After that, I didn't ask him. Qingming and July 15th burned some paper money for my father.

Second, 20 15, he secretly sold his parents' old house in the countryside. I wonder how much it cost. Neighbors in my hometown told us secretly. He didn't give my mother a penny, nor did he give me half a cent to pay for my old-age pension to lighten my burden.

Third, the second brother died for many years and the second sister-in-law never remarried. It's not easy to work hard to raise your daughter. Eldest brother ignored the two girls, saying that they were Assange's male stars. If he meets her on the road, he will turn his head and pretend not to see her. His niece got married last year, and he knew that Xin didn't attend the wedding.

What if I have such a brother? It's better not to have it. I hate it when I think about it I let him do whatever he wants, shameless and heartless. Often advised by relatives, this is the only brother, don't argue with him, get along well. How are you getting along? I stay away from him, which is the best way to get along.

What did his brother do to his sister? What did you do to your parents? I don't visit my mother several times a year. I fought with my mother when I went there, and my words were vicious. I scolded my relatives all over. He looks down on the poor, either a fool or a tiger. He is jealous of the rich and says that others are awesome and don't work for him.

As Degang Guo said, if you don't understand my pain, don't persuade me to be generous. I'll call my mother when she dies, no matter whether such a brother comes or goes with me.

Family? They are all good brothers and sisters without great difficulties, and family ties are worthless in front of money. When my mother died in 2002, my father lived in my house at my request. Actually, I am selfish. When neighbors ask about my father, I will be happy to say that in my family, the way neighbors look at me is enough. I'm relieved. My wife, sister and brother all disagree. At that time, my father (70) (no conditions, that is, I planted an acre of six grain fields of my parents, and in 2006 I used two acres of private plots). I got cancer a year or two later. For a year or five years, I told my brother to give my dad some living expenses. My brother said that my father would give me everything he wanted, but I couldn't. But my father never spent a penny in his life. I said that I can't even take care of myself now, let alone make money, so I'll take two brothers' wheels, or I'll give them money if I don't go to my brother's house, but my dad said that they have lived in my house for 16 years, which makes people laugh and makes them die if they go out. You are still messing with me. What can you do? I don't know how to make money all my life. To be careful is to brush money. I don't care about the loss, because I'm going to kill my mother for 100 yuan. What can we do? My sisters are all against me for my father. They don't deserve to be my brothers and sisters. My brother works in Shenyang. He has a big house and a car. I really want to let its unit know about it. My father is eighty-seven years old this year, and he also said that his father is a capable man. 87? Can a person live by himself? Because of poor heart and lung, I was hospitalized twice a year. I told my brother and sister that they didn't have time, and my second son's wife took care of my father. Coco's father thinks it's right to wait on my family.

In fact, this problem is directly related to family style. Myself. There are five brothers in the family. How many years have your parents died? Our brothers are also very United. In fact, among brothers and sisters, the role of the boss is very important. If the boss is a very reasonable person. There is little discord between brothers. My brothers have never blushed in our family. The brother and sister are also very harmonious. Although everyone's family conditions are different. But no one has ever had friction over money. This is also related to everyone's personal quality. As long as you don't take money too seriously, everything can be solved. Another point is that we must have a grateful heart. Don't take it for granted that others help you. Look what others have done. Don't look at how others treat you. First of all, you should look at how you treat others. If you can do it, how can others argue with you? In fact, people are really a love word. Without love, I think life is meaningless.

I don't associate with my sister There are three sisters in my family. The second sister died of a heart attack at the age of 45. When the second sister died, neither the elder sister nor my mother came to see her. We hadn't seen each other for more than ten years before that. Thirty years ago, my father died, my second sister got married, and I went to high school. A month after my father died, my sister found a wife for my mother and went to live in my house. Every time I stay in high school, my mother curses. My mother-in-law walked away gloomily and told her sister that she wanted to borrow some money. As a result, she said, if you don't go to bed, find a man to marry. I had to drop out of school because I couldn't afford the tuition. It's a pity that I didn't take the college entrance examination that year. The head teacher found me a substitute teacher in a remote primary school and gave me 120 yuan for one month. My mother wants 50 yuan, and the remaining 70 yuan is my living accommodation, which is very difficult. Later, when I came home on holiday, I saw my mother and sister selling all the review materials of my high school textbooks and throwing away all my things. There is no trace of me in that house. I walked out of the village with tears in my eyes. At the entrance of the village, I met a primary school classmate whose father is a village accountant. He told me that my mother and my sister changed my household registration book to my sister's name. I became a real loner. Second sister is disabled. She married her husband's family and ate first. Her parents-in-law and sister-in-law play cards every day, and her brother-in-law is greedy and lazy. My second sister is weak, and my mother never cares if she is beaten at her husband's house. Such a bad man has long since left. I haven't seen my sister for more than ten years. During the Chinese New Year, my mother only called and talked to see if she had put down her things and come back.

The problems between my mother and my great-uncle were not solved until my death. I haven't seen you for decades, and even if I did, I just passed by like a stranger.

When my grandfather died that year, my mother went back to her family to pay her respects. At that time, life was particularly hard, and small families had no food. I didn't give anything or money to pay my respects when I went back to my mother's house, and I didn't like it very much. The relationship between mother and uncle was tense.

When eating, my uncle stood on a high place, scolded my parents in front of all relatives and friends who came to mourn, said that my parents were useless, said that my parents had no food at home, and relied on my father-in-law's death to eat. He also pointed to where my parents were and asked those people who knew such useless people! My parents considered going out to attend a public sacrifice, but they didn't talk back, holding back their tears.

My mother seems to have gone home as if nothing had happened, but every night I dream about that day. I wake up from my dream every night and cry with my dad in my arms. I haven't forgotten it for more than ten years. I often dream of previous scenes and wake up crying.

I haven't seen him since, and I didn't go to see him until my uncle was ill. When I die, I will see my uncle off for the last time. Mom, please don't say that mom is not serious. Because you have never experienced my mother's despair of being hurt by her own flesh and blood. ...

There are four children in our family, and the only brother has been spoiled by his mother. His parents died one after another this year. Before that, his two houses were given to your brother. After all these years, my mother gave it to my brother as soon as she had money. Our three daughters said nothing. My mother had a cerebral hemorrhage and stayed in bed for nearly nine years. Our three daughters devote themselves to taking care of their parents. As a man in the family, he really didn't show any filial piety to his parents. His parents left, and now he is forced to separate them. We also said that the four sisters shared equally. He doesn't believe that his parents only have so much money. Both parents got pensions. My mother's retirement salary is not enough to take medicine, and she has to ask a nanny to take care of her. Our three daughters help take care of it almost every day. I asked him: As a man, ask yourself, what have you done for your parents? He was speechless, but he was ready to share the money left by his parents. He doesn't want to share equally, he just wants him to share more. I told him in front of him that if I hit you, I really wanted to slap you hard. Now that my parents are gone, I will never associate with him again, just pretend that there is no such person!

I have a brother and a sister, whom I haven't seen for over a year. There is a simple reason. My parents have been helping them since they retired, either taking care of the baby or helping them open a shop. My parents are farmers who have worked hard all their lives, and they always have a wish to travel to the mainland. They always say that they are busy and have no time. I specially asked for leave to take my parents to Beijing and Yunnan. My sister said she would go, too, and brought the children. In order to take care of the whole family, I left my children at my sister-in-law's house, and I had to worry about eating, drinking and buying tickets all the way to Lhasa scenic spot. Not only did my sister not give me any, but she also asked her parents to make room for her.

I want to fight when I eat with a group tour. There is basically nothing to go at night. One morning, I just brought porridge to my parents. My sister sat down with the child and took the bowl from her parents. I don't want to say it's not for you. As a result, she was very excited and called me selfish. In front of so many people, I can't wait to find a place to get in. Two years later, my mother got cancer, and I accompanied her to the provincial capital for surgery. At the end of the year, she will die. What I never expected was that the hospital had issued a critically ill notice. When I arrived, they left their old mother on her deathbed, hoping that I would come from other places to discuss the funeral. I stayed up day and night for a week. My mother was very sad when she died, cursing my brother and never closing her eyes.

Six months after mom left, dad got cancer again. I was lying alone in the hospital. I can't do the operation because no one signed it. I called them and said I was busy and had no time. I'm the one who served my dad out of the hospital after surgery. I don't know the meaning of such a brother and sister. My parents have worked hard for them all their lives and hardly care about me. Growing up, what I heard the most was that my mother often told me that I didn't expect you when I was old, but the last thing she wanted was the end result. Of course, my mother apologized to me before she died, except for regretting her son's unfilial behavior. Unexpectedly, I waited on her during the operation, and I waited on her when she was critically ill. Such a brother and sister makes me completely chilling, and I don't want to go back and forth!

There is a skeleton in the cupboard. There are five brothers and sisters, the only elder sister is the boss, one elder brother above me and two younger brothers below. Because of parents' preference, brothers and younger brothers have been spoiled since childhood, especially younger brothers. His parents gave him all the property, and the old house also asked us to sign it for him. When my parents were still alive, it was basically my (third) and my younger brother (fourth) who took them out to live. My father's illness (cerebral hemorrhage) kept me from moving, and it was also my recovery from the big city. After my father died, my mother has been raised by me. I went back to my hometown twice and hurt my hand. Now my mother is too old to come out, so she goes back to her hometown and is taken care of by my brother, provided that she inherits the property herself, and her mother gives him nearly 4000 pension bank cards every month. For the sake of my mother's future life, we all recognize it, but my brother seems to think that we all owe him. Every time I bought a gift and went back happily, I didn't get any requirements and didn't feel at home at all. After a long time, we no longer have the desire to go home. Big brother is too selfish. My mother is over eighty years old and has never even been to his door. She doesn't call us at ordinary times and has hardly contacted us for nearly ten years. Therefore, the communication between brothers and sisters depends on personal personality and how much depends on their own relationship.

I haven't contacted my own brother for three years. He is three years older than me. I was just one year old when my father died. My mother remarried us to support us. My mother is a very patriarchal person. Growing up, no matter who is right or wrong, I will always be beaten. To send him to school, I studied for a year and told me not to go to school. 1985, 1997 went out to work. What does my mother care about? 14 years, my mother had an operation on her stomach, but my brother didn't come, but my family said he just came to see, gave me 300 yuan and left. 16 years, my mother fell and stayed in the intensive care unit for more than 20 days. The doctor said she might not wake up. Let my brother come and see, I'm afraid she can't. I told him he wouldn't come if you came to see him, and said don't tell me this. It has nothing to do with me. Am I angry because you forgot how much your mother loves you and gave you the best things? When I was a child, I was always beaten by your mistakes. I was told not to go to school, and I kept the money for you to go to school. You have no conscience at all, so you haven't talked or contacted for three years. Now you know so many words by yourself. What's the use of knowing more words? Most people can't write.