Shanghai's newly married son-in-law had a dispute with her father-in-law and went to court. How can they live in peace?

In many families, some problems in the family are very acute, and conflicts often occur because of trivial matters, especially between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, and between son-in-law and father-in-law. Because two different families live together and work differently, it is very easy to have conflicts. So how should we deal with the contradiction between son-in-law and father-in-law? Let's take a look together.

First, respect the elders. First of all, his father-in-law is his wife's father and can be regarded as his own elder. Therefore, he should treat his elders with the attitude of the younger generation, respect them and try not to quarrel with them on some trivial matters. After all, the other person is his own elder, which will also make his wife very embarrassed. I really can't be as close as ordinary elders, just keep a good relationship.

Second, discuss with your wife. Secondly, if you really have great differences with your father-in-law, and this matter involves a wide range, you can discuss it with your wife first. After all, your wife is still your family and the other person's daughter. The other person may listen to her daughter more and let her mediate. This contradiction can effectively reduce unnecessary quarrels and troubles.

Third, don't make it too ugly. Finally, if things really get out of hand, don't make it too ugly. After all, we should meet often in the future. As a junior, we should give our elders a little face and a step to make each other feel better, so that meeting will not be particularly embarrassing. At the same time, if it is too ugly with the other party, the most sad thing is definitely your wife, so for the sake of your wife's happiness and family harmony, it is best not to have conflicts with your elders.

I want to know how you deal with these family problems in your daily life.