Parents quarrel and divorce because of trivial matters. What should they do as children?

Many people in my parents' generation have been quarreling all their lives, which sometimes makes us feel embarrassed as children. Some parents quarreled so much that they even got divorced.

As children, we should do this:

1. First of all, it is necessary to find out whether the reason for their quarrel is a criterion; Whether it is the reason of good health or whether parents are approaching menopause is beyond their control; There are also work reasons, too much pressure, no one knows and so on. Just find out why.

Every family has many trivial things. You can't divorce if you have problems. You should tell them that their families should know more, understand more and be more tolerant. If there is a problem, try to deal with it. Divorce if you can't quarrel.

Let parents start from their own problems and don't condemn others for doing wrong. Only in this way can they realize their mistakes and the family can be saved. Tell your mother well. Women can't be too strong, they must be docile, they can't lose their temper, and they can't talk all day, which makes people unbearable. Don't be better than other men. Others say that their men are incompetent.

4. Two people have been together for twenty or thirty years, and life is like boiled water, without paying attention to adding condiments to it. If we can add some seasoning so that both sides have something to do and no time to quarrel, can we still quarrel? For example, throw them a child and let them wait on the child every day.

As parents' children, we should resolutely safeguard the family and persuade them to make peace no matter how noisy their parents are! To this end, you should understand the grievances of both sides, communicate with each other in two worlds, think from each other's standpoint and think for each other! Both sides have the same children, so this is the biggest advantage!

Some couples have quarreled all their lives, said several times during the period of divorce, and finally never left. What is the clear score? Children are also mediators for two people. We should persuade each other and listen to their voices. If couples of this age really want to get to this point, things may be stricter, but they just need to have children and settle in the middle.