Xiangling was abducted from childhood and never had a chance to study. What was Xue Baochai's attitude when she revealed her idea of learning poetry? forest

"Xiangling studies poetry" should be said to be a very common plot in the whole Dream of Red Mansions, not to mention twists and turns, and there is no stir. The story itself is not so vivid, it looks dull and scattered. However, when we read all the plots carefully, think carefully and savor them carefully, we will find that these plots are dull and peculiar, light and tasteful, small and medium, rich in connotation, endless in interest and far-reaching in measurement. Especially in this plot, the different attitudes of Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai towards Xiangling's poems are worth pondering.

Because of her special identity and experience, Lin Daiyu certainly has a "aloof and arrogant" side, and it seems difficult for others to get close to her. In fact, this is a superficial phenomenon given by Lin Daiyu, even if it is not a superficial phenomenon, she is not always like this. Lin Daiyu seems indifferent, but in fact she is enthusiastic. If you don't look down on her and really respect her, a Suzhou girl like Lin Daiyu who respects herself and others will definitely treat you as a bosom friend, meet you with heart, get along warmly and have no bad feelings.

Xiangling was lonely since she was a child and didn't even know her real name. She was a precious daughter, but she was abducted by traffickers, changed by Feng Yuan, and later became the concubine of Xue Pan, an idiot. No matter in the Xue family or Jia Fu, Xiangling can't have any position. But Lin Daiyu did not abandon Xiangling, but extended a warm helping hand to her. So when Xiangling asked Lin Daiyu to teach her to write poetry, Lin Daiyu accepted it without delay and said, "If you want to write poetry, you must worship me as a teacher. Although I don't understand, I can probably teach you. " It broke Xiangling's worries, made her dare to learn poetry from herself seriously, and finally let Xiangling learn to write poetry. As a noble lady, Lin Daiyu is so sincere in helping others, and it is extremely valuable to pass on her experience to Xiangling, who is a beginner in writing poetry and teach her seriously without reservation. In front of Xiangling, who is in a low position and talented, Lin Daiyu, the daughter of a noble, never puts on airs, which is not easy in itself. Moreover, Lin Daiyu has been carefully teaching Xiangling, selflessly cultivating her and following her. This kind of teacher's moral character of "teaching without class" and "teaching tirelessly" is particularly commendable and admirable.

Although Xue Baochai is outstanding in poetry and often wins the first prize in the poetry meeting in Grand View Garden, she always thinks that writing poetry and fu is not a woman's proper job because of the ideological constraints of feudal ethics. She believes in the feudal dogma that "a woman without talent is virtue" and has always wanted to shape herself into a feudal lady.

For example, in the sixty-fourth time, Jia Baoyu said that he would write poems in their boudoir on a fan, and Xue Baochai said, "Since ancient times, women have always been virtuous but not talented, and women workers are second. The rest of the poems are just boudoir games, with or without them. Girls like us don't want the reputation of these talents. " This has made Xue Baochai's thinking very clear. Although she does have the talent to write poetry, she also writes poetry, but after all, she thinks that poetry and songs are "just a boudoir game" and it doesn't matter whether it can be. In the 42nd episode, Xue Baochai personally enlightened Lin Daiyu and said, "Fortunately, we girls can't read. Men don't understand reading, but they might as well not read, let alone you and me. Even writing poems or something is not your job. ..... you and I should just do some knitting. " Xue Baochai still looks at poetry like this for herself and a noble lady like Lin Daiyu, so Xiangling, who is in a low position and humble position, is even more important. Therefore, although Xue Baochai is as poetic as Lin Daiyu, Xiangling still can't get Xue Baochai's guidance and help. She had to go far and near and ask Lin Daiyu for advice. This description strongly reflects the ruthlessness of Xue Baochai's thought, and it can be seen that Xue Baochai did consciously restrain herself with feudal ethics to improve her personality and strive to become a real feudal lady.

Moreover, Xue Baochai's appearance gives people the outstanding impression of being steady, peaceful, gentle and sincere. She is good at dealing with all kinds of interpersonal relationships, especially the heart of an inferiority complex. But Xue Baochai is still a "cold beauty". Her heart is cold and her bones are arrogant. She doesn't care about ordinary people at all. Xue Baochai brought Xiangling into the Grand View Garden on the grounds of the company, so that Xiangling could not only see the world, broaden her horizons, but also get along with everyone in a warm and peaceful environment. This is already a great thing. In Xue Baochai's view, Xiangling went to learn to write poetry again, which was nothing more than "looking forward to comfort" and pushing her luck. How did Xue Baochai personally teach Xiangling to learn poetry again? Xiangling didn't come to consult Xue Baochai, who was close at hand. It can be seen that Xiangling still dared not approach Xue Baochai and had to stay at a respectful distance. This further shows that Xue Baochai has a formidable dignity, and also reflects that there is still an insurmountable gap between Xue Baochai and Xiangling, which is the strict hierarchy in feudal society. All this strongly reflects Lin Daiyu's approachability, sincerity and friendliness, which breaks the boundary between rank and superiority to a certain extent and makes people feel that Miss Lin is gentle and amiable. Although Xue Baochai is "heartless and moving", she is too indifferent after all, and sometimes she can hardly get close to her.

Besides, Xue Baochai not only can't understand Xiangling's bitter poems, but also often makes fun of her and even taunts her. In order to learn poetry, Xiangling studied poetry books hard, even without thinking about tea and rice, fidgeting. Xue Baochai laughed at her and said, "Why bother? It's your fault. I want to settle accounts with him. You were a fool, plus this, you will become a fool. " It is believed that Xiangling became a real idiot because she studied and read poems. Xiangling thought hard, worked hard and managed miserably. Finally, she wrote her first poem and asked Xue Baochai to read it in order to get her advice. However, instead of encouraging her, Xue Baochai said, "This is not good, it can't be like this. Don't be shy, just show him and see what he says. " I pushed Xiangling around to Lin Daiyu again, but Xiangling had to discuss with Lin Daiyu again. Xiangling was fascinated by writing poems, and Xue Baochai sarcastically said, "This man must be crazy!" "What a poet. It's all children guiding him! " "You this sincerity through the fairy. If you can't learn poetry, you will be in trouble. " Obviously, Xue Baochai did not affirm, support or encourage Xiangling to learn poetry, but kept satirizing, mocking and satirizing. This is in stark contrast to Lin Daiyu's heart-and-soul, patient and meticulous teaching of Xiangling to write poems. We can also see the differences and even oppositions in their thoughts and personalities. Although the author uses the technique of sketching and contains subjective feelings in the objective description, readers can fully see the author's different feelings and attitudes towards Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai.