How can I not be squeezed out by my colleagues?

1, can't reveal whether you are single, have a girlfriend or boyfriend, can't reveal whether you are married or have a husband or wife. Because some people will laugh at you and tease you when they know that you are single, and some people will flirt with you when they know that you are single, even though they may be married. Try not to tell them these things.

2. Don't disclose where your family lives, and don't disclose the specific address. Because someone asks you such specific information, the probability of malice is very high, and it will be very bad for you if malicious people know it.

Don't disclose the school where the children go to school, and don't disclose the children's names, in case someone is really up to no good, it will be in big trouble.

4. Don't disclose your salary. It is inevitable that colleagues will compare. If your salary is relatively high, they will definitely feel unbalanced and may ask the boss for a raise. If your boss knows that you disclosed it, it may affect your image in the boss's mind. If you are older, it may make you unable to stay in the company.

If you are in love with your colleagues, don't tell them before you get married, because if you break up halfway, other colleagues will always laugh at you, making you lose face in the company and making it difficult for you to stand on your feet.

6. Don't disclose your family situation, what do your parents do, what does your wife do, and what is your family's economic condition. If you have money at home, you must keep a low profile. If you are too high-profile, it will arouse the envy of other colleagues, which is very unfavorable to your work.

7. Don't expose your sideline. Do it quietly if you have a sideline, get rich quietly, and don't tell your colleagues. Some companies don't allow employees to have sideline jobs. If you tell your colleagues, they may tell the company about it, which is very bad for you. Besides, you tell them that they may also come to do this sideline, which will intensify competition and affect your income.

8. When you want to quit, when you hesitate to quit, don't tell your colleagues, because they may tell you the reason why you want to quit. When your boss knows, he may guard against you, stop giving you important jobs, or find someone to replace you, so that you have to resign. You haven't decided to resign, but now you have to. Or you thought about quitting for a while, and now the company wants you to leave early.

9. Don't tell other colleagues the gossip, right and wrong of some colleagues, bosses and companies found in the company, lest they tell other colleagues what you said, and you may be held responsible for anything that happens.

10, don't disclose what you want to do, don't disclose your ideals and goals, and don't disclose your career plan, lest others be jealous and give you stumbling blocks everywhere, so that you can't complete your ideals and goals and do what you want to do.

1 1. Don't disclose which company you used to work for, lest some colleagues who were not good to you go to your previous company to inquire about you, find your weaknesses, find your embarrassing things, find the bad things you may have done and find your shortcomings, which is very bad for you.

12. Don't reveal the important tasks and secrets that the boss told you to keep. There are some things that the boss doesn't want all his colleagues to know, and some tasks may only be given to you, so you need to keep these tasks secret. Don't tell any colleagues, especially what the boss told you not to tell others.

13. If you have other relatives and friends in the company, or have other relationships, or the boss is a relative of your family, you can't tell anyone, lest others use you or try to use you after knowing your relationship.

14, don't disclose your education background, school and major, otherwise some people who are not as good as you will work with you, and he will take this opportunity to ridicule you, saying that the school where you graduated is so good, how can you do the same job as him, which will affect your mood.

15. If you have any medical history, poor health, or minor physical problems, don't tell these very private personal information to your colleagues, because after you tell them, some colleagues may stay away from you, afraid that you will influence them, and even try to crowd you out.

16, among colleagues, there are many things that cannot be said casually. Work is work, just do a good job and don't need to talk to each other. After all, colleagues are not friends.