Please don't reveal other people's privacy.

Privacy, as its name implies, is a hidden and undisclosed private thing. Can a person's privacy be known by others? This is largely determined by what privacy and the identity of others.

Strictly speaking, height, weight and age can be regarded as privacy. Some people don't care about other people's knowledge, or they are too easy to get. For example, the personal files of athletes and actors can be found casually online.

Why do you say that the identity of others determines it? Because privacy includes absolute privacy and relative privacy. Absolute personal privacy refers to information that is purely personal and has nothing to do with anyone who is not me, such as the personal data I mentioned above. Relative personal privacy refers to the privacy that they * * * dominate and * * * protect because of some relationship, such as husband-wife relationship and contractual relationship.

* * * with dominance, * * with privacy protection, because * * * with two words is more sensitive. This person who shares your privacy will sometimes disclose your privacy because of conflicts of interest or emotional problems between you. Because he doesn't care about being known, maybe because he has been damaged, so he doesn't care about both sides; Or the only victim of this privacy leak is you.

Another is that because you have the same privacy and the other party is trustworthy, it is easy to know your absolute personal privacy, which is also very common. For example, family members know their bank account passwords; Fingerprint input into both mobile phones can easily unlock each other. How to use intimacy to gain absolute privacy of the other party? It is a kind of trust and convenience to use it in a good place; If used in a bad place, it is a deep wound and a broken face.

I have witnessed this bad side these two days, and I shudder.

It happened at half past nine on Sunday night. Ten messages suddenly appeared in our project team leader group, all of which were sent by the same person. When I opened it, it was a long English email, which sounded like a criticism of dereliction of duty. As I watched it, the content became more and more wrong, revealing some of her personal privacy naked. After the long email, there are some WeChat chat records, a total of more than a dozen, accusing the sender himself. No one in the work chat group can reveal their privacy, and there are bosses in the group. My first reaction was that her mobile phone was stolen and no one in the group spoke. I hope she can handle this matter in the evening.

On Monday morning, I saw her figure flash past me and thought it was time to solve the problem. Unexpectedly, when I arrived at my office, my colleague said that some people in the company had sent a lot of information. I don't know what the situation is. When I saw it, it was broken. The message sent in a small group yesterday was copied and sent to hundreds of people. Everyone has seen it, and the people who eat melons will be online soon. I quickly told our project team not to go to work.

The impact is inevitable. I wonder who sent the message. But many people in the group speculated that they were "incompetent husbands". What does he want to achieve? Let her stay in the company and be killed in the gossip of colleagues? Or do you want everyone to stand on his side and beautify madness with the highest moral point? Some people in the group clamored not to leave this garbage human for the New Year and let him get out of the ranks of "husbands". The behavior of a villain is contemptible.

I can't help but think of the Huomou incident in Weibo a few months ago. It is nothing more than a long-term relationship with no good result. The woman used some chat records and self-righteous remarks in her hand to push the man to the forefront of public opinion. I don't know what she got in the end, but it was definitely not a fair trial. It's a joke to want justice by unfair means!

Being exposed by close people makes everyone feel insecure, and everyone has privacy that they don't want to be known. Once there is disagreement between close people, is it possible to suffer unpredictable snooping and stabbing? As long as there is doubt, the invisible gap will gradually bankrupt trust. Why did you open this Pandora's box in an instant?