Is MBTI Personality Test, praised as a hot search by Gu Ailing, suitable for testing children?

Yang Mi and Li Xueqin, the host of the program, do mbti test together, and the conclusion of Yang Mi test is ENFP, which is also a well-known evaluator's personality. This kind of personality is cheerful, natural, creative and confident. Yang Mi's fan groups are running around saying nothing wrong to each other, in order to promote themselves.

Why did Yang Mi do mbti test? This is a sentence from talented student Gu Ailing. Not long ago, Gu Ailing said in an entertainment program: "My mbti is INTJ." Because of her words, the mbti test rushed to the hot search list, and many big-name stars conducted mbti tests one after another. Sa Beining, the host of CCTV, is no exception. Although he didn't believe mbti at first, he passed the test and found that he was an INFP mediator. After reading the statement, he felt very accurate.

According to mbti's test rating scale, the tester is divided into 16 typical personalities, and each temperament consists of four English letters. In that case, according to the test, four English letters form each other and become your personality and personality type. Many parents blindly follow the trend and let their children take mbti tests. They want to use this test to label children as an orientation to shape them. But how can there be two identical leaves in the world? Labeling children with twelve constellations is parents' laziness and evasion of responsibility. The mbti test seems to have many benefits, but when we read the specific instructions carefully, we can see that this set of tests is not suitable for children.

Children's cultural education is a very typical and complicated problem. In the process of children's growth, we can't tell which thing, which interface, which sentence, which feeling is harmful to them. This is also impossible to track and identify. Complex problems, parents always hope that simple system software can solve them. If children are labeled according to the conclusion of mbti test, and demonstrated by examples, the complicated problems will be simplified and the development of children will be controlled. It is true that penny wise and pound foolish.

Children are not only a single individual, but also in the process of growing up. The change of each period also represents the constant change of his character. In a child's childhood, all his daily life experiences are harmful to his personality. Accurately measuring his character at an early age is like shooting a fluctuating general goal, which is very inaccurate.

Erickson, a famous American psychiatrist, divides the personality of immature people into five links: infancy (0-2 years old), infancy (2-4 years old), preschool (4-7 years old), childhood (7- 12 years old) and adolescence (12- 18 years old). The personality characteristics of each period are different, which means that parents should treat children of different ages in different ways of family education.

For example, children aged 7~ 12 are characterized by hard work-lack of self-confidence. The specific daily task of parents in this link is to arouse the charm of children's autonomous learning. Parents should help their children understand hard work and overcome inferiority with diligence. With the continuous development of the child, his personality is also changing. Parents can't judge their children's personality based on a test, and then forget the regularity of the development trend.

In addition, children will come up with many novel ideas, which will make them confused about the truth and imagination, and they will make inaccurate choices in the test. In other words, the tested personality is not necessarily accurate. In addition, some later training may also change the child's personality. For example, a child who doesn't like to talk will probably change from an introverted temperament to an extroverted personality according to some terminal exercises. Therefore, the reliability of children's personality is not high, and the personality types tested are not very accurate.

Mbti test not only can't fully grasp the child's personality, but also relies too much on the test conclusion, which is also easy to endanger the child's development prospects. When a child is tested for a certain personality type, parents will subconsciously guide the child to this level correctly. When children have other ideas, parents will block their children's development prospects according to the conclusion of the test. If parents are always defining children, then children will gradually become what their parents express and will be shaped into the person defined by their parents, which is virtually obliterating their future.

Parents should never be policemen, especially they don't have to play the role of crow's mouth, which suppresses the development trend of children's thinking and hurts their self-motivation. Sometimes children will sink their hearts because their parents' ideas are damaged prematurely: "If you say that I am so bad, then I can't. I am like this, I don't want to change. " This is a very bad situation.

As parents, we don't need to guess what kind of people our children will become in the future. What we have to do is to inspire him to be himself. Therefore, parents don't have to blindly follow the trend, give their children mbti tests, and define their children's development prospects too early, which is also not desirable. In short, the test conclusion is that it is not easy for children to have horns on their heads and a small tail behind them.

The growth of children is unexpected and should not be viewed with certainty. In the process of cultural education for children, we should prevent "typicality" and "rigidity". Parents should encourage their children to get rid of self-restriction, get out of the comfort zone, not be a child in a greenhouse, and firmly believe in their infinite potential. It is the four major accountants that parents should have. Parents should have a long-term vision, and every child has a bright future with unlimited potential.