What is the definition of a bad girl?

In this day and age, many girls with their own stories are defined as bad girls.

Every young girl aged seventeen or eighteen has experienced things that are beyond her age. I have a friend who goes to disco every day and never misses a day seven days a week. She just likes to play and socialize. My friend puts her own happiness as the most important thing, but others say she is not a good girl, does not study well, and secretly makes up some distorted facts to spread.

But they had never seen her expression when she went to feed the stray animals on the road, or how she would do her best even if she met a liar. She was full of enthusiasm for the world. I yearn for it, but it is accompanied by public opinion. Is it wrong to be a lively, cheerful and sociable person? I don’t think so. Everyone has their own lifestyle. She played her own game and did not hurt anyone. Her kindness was not affected by others. When people see her, she is defined as a bad girl.

I also have a friend who fell in love when she was a sophomore in high school. In the eyes of others, it was puppy love. At the age of sixteen or seventeen, when love first started, a person who treats her well would think it would last a lifetime. She and Her boyfriend had been together for three years and had an ectopic episode and two more miscarriages because of her.

But not once did the boy accompany him. Even when her parents criticized the boy's behavior, she was making excuses for the boy, saying that he was just too young and was afraid of situations like this. I feel sorry for this. Girls, these things have also been spread, and many people have taken it as a joke and ridiculed it. They define this girl as a bad boy, having early love and early pregnancy.

But who knows that she is unwilling to hand over her first time. She is soft-hearted and thinks that if she stays with her for two years, she will be together in the future. She thinks that after meeting her parents, they will stay together forever. How innocent. A little girl, she almost died outside the womb, and was cheated on by a boy twice. She finally chose to break up, but she still didn't blame anyone, and she still looked forward to the future with hope.

I just don’t want to mention the wrong path she took at that time. I asked her if she regretted it. Her answer made me think deeply. She regretted that she was bruised and bruised and had many problems, but she didn’t regret it so deeply. We fell in love, and she was really voluntary at that time. I never thought she was a bad girl, but I thought she was a girl who should be treated well.