My best friend told me behind my back that my boyfriend is love rat. Should I be angry with her?

People or reputations are empty words; People or rejection, half a sentence is more than enough-Liu Yuxi said this sentence, others praised you, said a hundred times is the same as not saying it, others rejected you, half a sentence is enough. The meanness of human nature embodied in it also shows the great influence of reputation on a person.

Xiao Feng, a boy, pursued Xiao Wen. Xiao Wen was a little moved, but once, Xiao Feng and her friends said some bad things about Xiao Feng, which put Xiao Wen in a dilemma. She doesn't think Xiaofeng is the kind of person whose morality is inferior as her friend said, but she doesn't think her friend will be aimless and get into much trouble.

People have ulterior motives. When A speaks ill of B, it is difficult for us to tell the truth from the false. Is there a conflict of interest between A and B, so they speak ill of each other behind their backs? Whether the bad words are true or not, B is a bad person; Is A making a mountain out of a molehill, exaggerating small problems and exaggerating B just to grab people's attention and make them speak better? ...

In the era when free love was not popular before, after the matchmaker introduced the two sides, before both men and women decided to get married, both parents would not listen to the matchmaker's word, but would privately inquire about the reputation of the other family to see if the girl was virtuous and virtuous, if the young man was hardworking and willing to work, and if the other parents were reasonable and understanding. In fact, this is done in order to know fairly well and avoid seeing the wrong person and choosing the wrong marriage.

In fact, in feelings, you really need a pair of eyes and a good brain to distinguish between true and false.

When we hear the bad words of some friends or lovers or the bad reputation behind them, how can we tell the truth from the false?

0 1 It's normal to hear that it's false. Seeing is believing, and bad news travels fast. A person who does a good thing may not be known, but if he does a bad thing and is known by one person, it may soon be known by many people.

There is also a saying that three people make a tiger. After too many people's language processing, one thing may be divorced from reality or even beyond recognition.

The only thing we can believe is what we see and know. A person's personality will permeate his every move, others' words will deceive us, but our own eyes and hearts will not deceive ourselves.

Knowing the horse power for a long time, people's feelings can't last long and they are hasty. It's not just a cavity of affection, feelings often have to stand the test of time.

Love and friendship don't happen overnight. A true friend will accompany you through countless lonely and helpless years. A true lover will share all your joys, sorrows and pains and love what you love.

Feelings are sincere, rational and exist in feelings. We want to be treated sincerely by others, but also pay our own sincerity, exchange true feelings for true feelings, and compare our hearts.

When my heart is warm and there is a fire hidden, but my brain is still working, I love you like a moth, but my eyes are bright and my heart is bright. I keep thinking every moment I jump on you.

To keep learning and improve the ability to distinguish right from wrong, we must keep learning and improve our ability. Emotionally, too. Only when you know yourself and each other well enough can you tell the truth of words from the truth of emotions.

In feelings, you have to learn to love yourself before you can love others. Love is an ability that can be enhanced through learning.

After several thoughts, Xiaowen is unwilling to give up her feelings with Xiaofeng easily, but she also pays more attention to Xiaofeng's daily performance.

After getting along for a period of time, Xiaowen found that what a friend said about Xiaofeng was half true and half false. Some friends say Xiaofeng is a playboy and has many girlfriends. This sentence is false. She asked Xiaofeng about her emotional experience and learned from her other friends that Xiaofeng was shy and introverted and didn't have much emotional experience.

Friends say Xiaofeng is stingy and calculating. It's true. Xiaofeng's family condition is not very good He goes to work by himself, and most of his salary goes to his family. He is careful. In the daily contact with Xiaofeng, Xiaowen has a profound experience.

A friend said Xiaofeng set him up and spoke ill of his boss behind his back. This incident was later confirmed by Xiaowen, which was false. Xiaofeng and his friends are on probation, and the pass rate is 50%. Xiaofeng went in, but his friend was brushed. He always thought Xiaofeng was playing tricks behind his back, but he didn't. Xiaofeng is appreciated by his boss only because he works hard.

Xiaowen and Xiaofeng finally came together. The rumors of friends, seemingly true and false, are also a test of their feelings. After the test, their feelings became stronger and they took a big step towards happiness.

True or false, true or false, the first time I heard it, it was like walking into a puzzle. It takes more time to clear the clouds. Need more time to listen, see, think and think.

The lyrics say that love really needs courage to face gossip. Besides courage, you need a sincere heart and a pair of discerning eyes. I wish you all an eye for the right person.