In the middle of the night, will you scold God or yourself?

? I once chatted with a friend of a company I met in a previous project.

? She said to me in dismay, hey, I work overtime every day, why can't I do my job well? I was criticized by my boss yesterday.

? I joked: is it because you are too beautiful and the leader is jealous of you, so you are always deliberately picking on you?

"poof ~ attract men."

? Although we all know that this is just a joke, the reason is certainly not this, but this is really a comforting word that I, who is not very comforting, can immediately think of.

? I didn't know her for long. After the cooperation project between the two companies ended, she was basically just a friend on WeChat.

? I don't know much about her, but through her circle of friends, I can see that she is a very hard-working and active little girl.

? In the circle of friends, it is often seen that she is still trying to work overtime in the middle of the night, even getting off work in the early hours of the morning. Some articles forwarded are also positive or related to her work.

I thought to myself, it seems difficult. How can a person who works so hard and actively fail to do some uncomplicated work that she is now in charge of? There is no reason. Could this child be mentally retarded?

? We talked for a long time and there was no solution.

? After a fruitless comfort, I can only comfort her again: this situation is only temporary. If you work so hard, you will get better soon.

? She said with a wry smile, "I hope so."

As the old saying goes, there is no door to happiness or misfortune, and only people can help themselves. In fact, many things are like people getting sick. There is a cause for illness, and there is a result. Although I don't know what her "cause" is, I believe it must exist.

A few days ago, two companies cooperated on another project. I took my computer to work in their company in those days, and I was sitting in a position where I could see her work station.

The first morning in the past, it was almost 10, and I still didn't see her. She casually asked her colleague, "Did xx ask for leave today?"

Her colleague said, "Ha, no, xx comes to the company after 10 every day."

I said, "Is her home far from the company?"

She smiled and said, "No, her home is quite close. It's only a few subway stops from here. Well, anyway, the boss is late every day, and sometimes he doesn't even come to the company. Nobody cares. "

It was in those days that I found the reason. She arrives at the company late every day. After arriving at the company, she basically bowed her head and brushed all kinds of entertainment, social software or chatted with friends. Sometimes, she even watches TV series, euphemistically saying, "The boss is not resting."

Except for the intermittent completion, the tasks given by the leaders were put off until the deadline. If they can't finish it, they will work overtime. They still brush their mobile phones when they work overtime. Finally, after perfunctory things, I will come to my circle of friends to work overtime.

I was so scared that when I saw that her circle of friends was full of Diana Dai Yue that night, I immediately gave her a compliment.

It turns out that she just told many people that she signed up for a class, but she didn't go to a class.

Just like she talked to many people about how to do a good job and how to improve her working ability, but she never really remembered anything.

Another friend, Chen, likes to go to major libraries in Shanghai on weekends. Every weekend, I can always see him writing in a circle of friends: "I recharged myself again today." "I'm tired, but I'm full." "Body and soul must always have one on the road, come on!" . . . .

The life he wrote was so full and hard, and the way he showed it to others was so positive.

However, when chatting with him once, I asked him: Look at the book you read in Amway in your circle of friends last time. What's it like? What is it about?

He said, "I forgot ..."

It seems that I work late every day, but my work efficiency is not high during the day. It seems that I went to the library for a day, but I really just stayed for a day. It seems that I get up early to run every day, but I just went to the breakfast shop 200 meters downstairs to have breakfast. It seems that I went to the gym, but I just chatted with handsome guys and beautiful women and set a meal.

Around us, many people write their lives with such twists and turns, efforts and positive energy.

But one day, the soul of things will be sensed in a vast place full of sunshine.

There are still some people who don't look serious at ordinary times, but they can become conspicuous people when they "need". People often define them as smart people. In fact, they just always believe that irrigation will not be in vain, and the deceased will be like a husband.

Their efforts may not be seen, but they really hit home and got promoted. Their souls become sharp, regardless of age, but at different levels.

Maybe sometimes, in the middle of the night, you will denounce the unfairness of the world. Why do you work so hard, but you are still unhappy, and that person seems to have no intention at all, but he has achieved something you didn't expect.

Blame God? No problem. Anyway, God won't know you, and he won't get back at you and scold him.

I just hope you can think about it after scolding: Are you really trying, or are you just living in a dream of "I'm trying, I'm busy"?

Dreams won't make you worry about food and clothing.