How to alleviate the cold war between husband and wife?

Husband and wife should not keep secrets. If they quarrel, don't hold back. Speak out as soon as possible if you have any dissatisfaction, and let them vent their emotions. Remember, you have to vent your dissatisfaction completely. You can get peace, or even if you make up this time, you will quarrel again in the future.

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Don't take sex as a threat.

After the cold war, many couples no longer live like husband and wife, which is wrong. Even if there is a deep hatred between husband and wife, don't use it as a threat. Now that we are husband and wife, we should fulfill our obligations. Especially for the wife, if she deliberately changes rooms in order to retaliate against her husband, it will cause the other party to feel more strongly disgusted.

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Find the cause of the quarrel

After a quarrel between husband and wife, we must reflect on ourselves and see what the quarrel is for. If it is an avoidable reason, then avoid it. As the saying goes, if you are not good at summing up, you will always make up inexplicably after this quarrel, so it is undeniable that there will be a cold war next time.

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Find someone to mediate

If the husband and wife quarrel to the cold war, they can find a third party to mediate, or ask friends around them to help them do ideological work from an objective perspective. Or put forward a solution that both husband and wife are satisfied with, so that both husband and wife can get back together.

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One side takes the lead.

Never be strong in marriage. This will only lead to contradictions. You are also a very strong person in life, but you should know that being strong in love is not good. Even if you are right, reason is on your side, but you don't need to be reasonable when you are alive. If you love your spouse deeply, please be kind to him first.

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Consider the actual situation more

Many people think of divorce as soon as they quarrel, which is wrong. Marriage is indeed free. If you can't go on, you will naturally divorce, but do you know that you are really happy after divorce? Some families with brothers and sisters, even if divorced, can't go back to their parents as before. And if you already have children, you should also consider what your children will do if they get divorced.

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