The blind date girl spent 3000 yuan, but the man refused to pay the bill. The girl said he deserved to be single. what do you think?

I like this sentence very much: "There is no age to get married, only the feeling of getting married." No young readers complain to me. They are often urged to get married by their parents and relatives and friends around them. Some girls couldn't stand the painstaking efforts of their parents, and later chose to compromise and entered the marriage.

As for whether married life is happy or not, I don't know, but I know that Tang Yan, 35, married Luo Jin, Ruby Lin, 40, waited in Wallace Huo, and Shu Qi, 40, finally married his old friend Feng Delun. They all met their true love and got married after the age of 35. Maybe you will say that they are celebrities, different from ordinary people. But what I want to tell you is that there are no celebrities in the marriage country, only men and women.

Blind date is the most common way to make friends around us, and for many older young people, blind date is the most convenient and time-saving way to make friends without wasting too much time on each other. Through the first impression of contact, do the two sides have a good impression on each other? If so, they will continue to get to know each other better. If they feel that they are not suitable for each other, they will forget each other. Today, I want to discuss with you who will pay for the blind date.

When it comes to this problem, most people's first thought is that boys pay the bill. Yes, this is a long-standing default concept, and I personally advocate the behavior of men taking the initiative to pay the bill, because the consumption during blind date is generally not too high, just a few hundred, which is completely affordable for men.

If you meet for the first time, the blind date orders wildly and spends thousands of dollars, will you refuse to pay the bill? If it were me, I would not hesitate to refuse. Reader Zhang Kai also made this choice, but the girl laughed at her "deserved to be single".

Reader Zhang Kai is an Internet engineer with a gentle personality. He was not good at communication since he was a child, especially with girls, and he stuttered every time he talked to them. He has been secretly in love with a girl in his class for four years in college and has done a lot of things for her silently. Until she graduated from college, Zhang Kai didn't get up the courage to express herself and watched her with others.

After taking part in the work, Zhang Kai came into contact with fewer girls because of her work, and her working hours were not fixed. Zhang Kai, 28, doesn't even have a girlfriend, and her parents are too worried to sleep at night.

Later, my parents asked relatives and friends to introduce several girls to Zhang Kai one after another, but they all failed in the end. Blind date after blind date also makes Zhang Kai feel ambivalent. That day, my parents offered him a blind date. Zhang Kai was reluctant, but when he saw his mother's gray temples, Zhang Kai held back.

When his parents gave him the photo of the blind date, Zhang Kai was shocked, because the girl in the photo was somewhat similar to the girl he secretly loved in college, which made Zhang Kai overjoyed. Zhang Kai, who usually doesn't like to dress up, specially dressed up before going to the appointment.

That day, Zhang Kai arrived at the appointed place half an hour early. He looked at himself in front of the glass window. After a while, the blind date girl arrived as scheduled, and after a simple greeting, the two entered the restaurant.

Led by the waiter, when they came to their seats, Zhang Kai was busy. He didn't notice moving the stool for the girl. The girl's expression was a little angry at that time. After the waiter left, the girl said angrily, "why didn't you help me move the stool just now?" Not a gentleman at all, straight man. "

Hearing this, Zhang Kai was a little dumbfounding and had to apologize: "I'm sorry, I was negligent just now." After Zhang Kai handed the menu, the girl wanted to say something, but when she saw Zhang Kai handed the menu, she didn't say anything, and then looked down at the menu.

Two minutes later, the girl called the waiter and began to order names. The girl just ordered two dishes. The waiter apologized: "I'm sorry, madam, you didn't order these two dishes because they are our specialty and there are many guests." Why not look at other cuisines? "

Hearing the waiter's words, the girl suddenly lost her temper: "Why do you want to open a restaurant when there are no dishes?" Then he chattered to the waiter, and the waiter seemed a little angry. At this time, Zhang Kai said, "Calm down, or we can order other dishes. I think it's good."

The girl said impatiently, "What do you know? These dishes in this restaurant are more expensive. I don't usually want to eat them. I finally got a chance today. I must eat them. "

After listening to the girl's words, Zhang Kai also got a little angry, which obviously took himself as a sucker. Finally, the girl said she was tired, and then she chose the most expensive dish in the restaurant and ordered several dishes. Before long, the food came, and the girl began to eat with a stuffy head. Looking at the girl, Zhang Kai was disappointed.

After dinner, the girl asked the waiter to pay the bill. When Zhang Kai saw the bill, it said 3000 yuan, which surprised Zhang Kai, but nothing happened to the girl. Zhang Kai became more and more angry, and then she proposed this girl's AA system. When Zhang Kai refused to pay for herself, the girl quit on the spot.

The girl sneered: "At first, I said you were not a gentleman. I really didn't mistake you. I asked the girl out, thinking that she would pay the bill. What a straight man. You should be single. " Finally, at Zhang Kai's insistence, the girl had to pay the bill honestly. After buying the bill, the girl left angrily. Later, Zhang Kai heard that the girl had returned to her circle of friends and spit herself out. But Zhang Kai doesn't care.

After reading the story shared by Zhang Kai, I don't know what other readers think. Personally, I think Zhang Kai has no problem doing this. Although it is said that the man pays the bill as a gentleman's performance, judging from the various performances of this girl, the purpose of her blind date is not pure. She is killing the man under the guise of a blind date. For such a girl, what can we talk about a gentleman? And I don't think really good girls will take advantage of each other in this respect.

At the end of the article, I want to tell you that when dating, it is mutual affection for the man to take the initiative to pay the bill, and it is his duty not to buy it. Don't always carry out moral kidnapping. The purpose of two people's blind date is to get married, and they don't really care about such things. what do you think?