Why did many couples break up during the epidemic?

Today, my friend told me that I broke up with my boyfriend for many years because of the epidemic. I was stunned for a long time and felt very surprised. In my impression, they have always been model couples among friends, and they often see their love in the circle of friends two years after graduation.

I remembered a joke I saw on the internet the other day: I broke up before the epidemic ended, and I divorced when the epidemic ended.

In fact, I don't know if couples crying for divorce can't leave after the epidemic, but this epidemic has indeed caused many couples to break up, which can't help but make me think deeply. Why do long holidays cause so many couples to break up?

People who used to deliberately avoid emotional problems under the pretext of being busy can no longer pretend to be busy. He is not busy, but he has no time to talk to me? I believe many girls faced the same problems as Xiao Mo during the epidemic. Those boys who usually use busyness as an excuse are obviously not busy during the epidemic, but they still ignore their girlfriends' information and are busy playing games and mobile phones.

At this time, many girls have to wake up from their dreams of self-deception and admit that they are just an excuse, because even if they are not busy now, they will not contact you on their own initiative and will not return your information.

In fact, the truth behind it is that in the past, both men and women used busyness as an excuse to deliberately solve the problems in avoidance relationship, but because of the long vacation, both sides had no reason to avoid it and had to face the truest appearance of this relationship.

Sometimes girls are insecure and boyfriends are impatient. Many girls are very sensitive when they are in love. If you don't meet each other during the long vacation, you will inevitably think about it.

At this time, if the boy thinks that she is unreasonable, lacks the mind and patience to coax, and the two sides can't meet again, it will easily lead to the end of the relationship.

In fact, in the process of love, a large part of the sense of security comes from the other half, and the lack of security is often caused by the feeling of not getting expectations and the inner gap.

Because of the sudden departure of the epidemic, many couples' plans have been broken, and their thoughts have turned into dependence on him, and they will begin to pay attention to details that they usually don't care about.

For example, did he say good morning to me when he got up today? Did he say he loved me before going to bed last night? It is difficult for boys to notice the inner changes of girls. Many times, the other person's heart has experienced countless ideological changes and the boys still don't know it. Through the cold screen, there are fewer and fewer topics.

Because both men and women can't go out during the epidemic, they can only stay at home. The two people live in different environments, and there are fewer and fewer topics, or there is nothing new in chatting.

Sometimes you don't like what the other party says, and the right party disagrees with what you say. Different experiences between the two sides easily lead to ideological differences. After a long time, chatting becomes more and more boring, and sometimes I don't even know what to talk about.

Through the mobile phone screen, both sides forgot their love when they met, a word from WeChat? Love you? Can't eliminate the feeling of emotional weakness.

At this time, one party began to consider whether it is necessary to continue to get along with this relationship, and the other party could do nothing even if it wanted to maintain it. Once you start to think about the necessity of your relationship, breaking up is not far away. After all, love is hard to measure.

I think that no matter what causes couples to break up, in fact, this epidemic is also a moment to test the true feelings of men and women. People who really love you will not let you wait for information for a long time, and two truly loving hearts will not be broken by distance and time.

I suggest that couples who love each other should be more concerned, tolerant, understanding and cherish the people around them during the epidemic. Don't forget, after the epidemic, you are partners who have experienced hardships together and witnessed history together. Ten or twenty years later, when I think back to pneumonia in 2020, how warm it will be to be with TA.