My husband’s family gave me a gift of 100,000 yuan when I got married, but my sister-in-law got married without a single dowry. What do you think?

My husband and I met on a blind date. My husband is from a good family and is the eldest son. He also has a younger sister. When we got married, my husband’s family did not treat me badly and gave me a dowry of 100,000 yuan. My parents are very happy.

After I got married, my mother-in-law was pretty good to me. She would keep everything she bought for me. One year after we got married, my husband and I’s son was also born. My mother-in-law was at home to help me take care of the baby. My husband works outside. I am very grateful to my mother-in-law for this. However, my sister-in-law is not very sensible and sometimes competes with her son for food. My mother-in-law will not stop her if she sees her, just pretending not to see her.

I remember it was my mother’s birthday, so I took my son back to my parents’ house. When I came back, my room was in a mess, and it didn’t look like a room at all. Later I found out what happened After I returned home, my sister-in-law came to sleep in my room for a few nights. I didn't think it was a big deal. She slept in my room. I didn't object, but I couldn't make the room a mess. Not only that, I hung my clothes well in the closet. She took them all off and threw them on the bed. My mother-in-law said that she was going to a party and she came to my room to look through clothes when she couldn't find suitable clothes. I didn't feel comfortable at all at that time.

I told my mother-in-law that I should take care of my sister-in-law. She can sleep in my bed and wear my clothes, but can she be more clean and not make a mess? My mother-in-law said, you are really a sister-in-law. , my sister is not very sensible, you just need to clean it up, don’t talk about it all day long, hearing my mother-in-law’s tone, I was embarrassed to say anything more, as long as I pay attention next time, it will be fine. Later, I So I simply put a key on the door and locked it. Then my mother-in-law said that I was like guarding against thieves and said some unpleasant words, so I stopped locking the door. If my sister-in-law messed up, I would clean it up.

Later, my sister-in-law found a boyfriend and said she was getting married. They got married within a month of dating. On the day of the wedding, my mother-in-law told my sister-in-law in front of me that my mother would not prepare a dowry for you. It took a lot of energy and financial resources from my mother to raise her so well. My sister-in-law got married without saying anything. About two months later, I accidentally found out that my mother-in-law had already given my sister-in-law a new house. And it was very big. At that time, I thought that it was indeed not my biological child. If it were my mother, she would not hide everything from me. I was not angry with my mother-in-law for giving my sister-in-law a suite, I just felt that giving her a suite was in front of me. It's okay to meet face-to-face, so why do you have to buy a house for her secretly? This way, you don’t treat me as a family member!

So I ran to ask my mother-in-law if she had given my sister-in-law an apartment. My mother-in-law said, my own daughter got married, what happened if I gave her an apartment, and I still have to report to you? Then I said, Mom, that’s not what I meant. I just think you should tell us about the room you gave her, otherwise it will make people laugh. Buying a house for your daughter and hiding it from your son and daughter-in-law will be the same. Doesn't it cause disharmony in the relationship? Anyway, I think it’s not good for my mother-in-law to do this. If you have anything to say, just tell her. There is no need to hide. Otherwise, the whole family will appear to be in a mess. Don’t you think so?