A very realistic statement from your heart?

1. You help someone 100%, but one day you are only willing to help 80%, he will empty out all your kindness, and would rather choose to be friends with someone who only helps him 70%. A grain of rice nourishes a benefactor, and a stone of rice nourishes an enemy. The old man is right. Don't give everything you have at every turn, keep some pride and heartache for yourself, remember, nothing can be more cold than the heart of a person. ——Yi Xiaoshu 2. No one will truly sympathize with your pain, and no one will really care about the obstacles and injuries you have encountered along the way, so stop hanging out with others just to seek comfort. Tell your pain, because others only see and care about the results. Growth is an isolated process, and you must learn to be on your own. 3. In fact, there is no such thing as empathy in the world. Unless the needle pricks others, they will not know how painful it is. 4. Only when you are strong enough can you have the qualifications and confidence to live the kind of life you want. 5. Don’t be like a loser and tell everyone about your misfortune. One day you will understand that you have to digest your grievances by yourself. You don’t need to tell your story to everyone. There are not many people who really understand you. Most people will stand in their own position and peek at your jokes. All you can do is hide your secrets and become stronger and stronger step by step. 6. You can see many people clearly, but you can't expose them at will; you hate many people, but you can't turn your back on them easily. Sometimes, life means forcing yourself to be submissive and unfazed by favors and disgrace. 7. Working hard to make money is to prevent your love from being tested by other people's money. This is reality. 8. Be realistic and hypocritical occasionally, because if you don’t, it will be difficult to fool around. 9. You must make money well. There are too many times in this life when people can use money to defend their dignity. 10. Never expect that someone will understand what you are saying, don’t believe in the pain of your skin, and don’t believe in the empathy. You are you, uniquely you, and your emotions, thoughts, and ideas cannot be sensed or understood by others. 11. I work hard to make money not because I love money. But in this life, I don’t want to be inferior to anyone because of money! I don’t want to embarrass anyone because of money! 12. Be your truest and most beautiful self, follow your heart, don’t look back, don’t look around, and don’t care what others say. Those who are not as good as you will only talk about you; those who are better than you will be busy on their way and will not even look at you. 13. Sometimes, we have to shut up, put down our pride, and admit that we were wrong. This is not about admitting defeat, but about growing up. 14. If you are always ignored, why bother yourself; if you are not cherished, why bother to maintain it. 15. When you are not strong enough, you can only learn to get along with people you hate. This is reality. 16. Cry for yourself and laugh for others, this is the so-called life. A collection of inner words written to myself 1. The love that comes up and down gradually dissipates. 2. The most hurtful thing about our relationship is not the breakup, but the unclear consumption. 3. There is a kind of love that knows that there is no way forward, but the heart can no longer take it back. 4. Those things that we once thought we would never forget are forgotten by us in the process of never forgetting them. 5. Later I realized that silence is the deepest despair. 6. When you meet more people, you will understand which people are worth cherishing with your life, while some people are only suitable for detours. 7. With extreme fear, counting the remaining days, feeling confused and desperate. 8. What can really bring you down is not your opponent, but your desperate heart. 9. It’s a pity that love is like multiplication, as long as one side is the result, the result is zero. 10. My heart has always only stayed with your heart. 11. Don’t trust memories so much. The person in them may not miss you the same way. 12. How do you get used to being so happy without me? Tell me, okay? I want to be this free and easy too. 13. You taught me to be strong and ruthless, but later, you said you missed the way I used to be.

14. One day, when you look back suddenly, you will find that you have survived the countless moments that made you collapse. You can actually be very good alone. 15. I suggest you drink instead of love, because in wine, you are either dead or alive, but in love, you can neither die nor live well. 16. A toast to you for being careless, a toast to me for being sentimental. From now on, we are strangers in the world, and we will never see each other again. 17. Everyone will be in a bad mood sometimes. Indescribable loss, incomprehensible sadness, unclear right and wrong. 18. Fate is not about bumping into each other while walking on the street. Fate is about missing each other before going to bed and waking up. 19. Memories of the past are crushed by the rings of history and dispersed in the wind. 20. A relationship that has come to an end is like cutting off permed hair. The comfort from others is just warm nonsense. 21. It’s just a journey together, why make the memories longer than the passage. 22. Don’t take my devotion to you as a reason for you to ignore me, okay? 23. Can you give me back the heart I gave you? 24. In reality, you use your real name to tell lies, and on the Internet, you use fake names to tell the truth. 25. It is better to laugh it off than to be unable to express it; it is better to be at peace and calm than to be unable to let go. 26. Eason Chan only taught me how to sing in ten years but not how to walk in ten years. What I wrote to myself: 1. The most painful thing in love is that when something disappears, it is gone forever and will never be there. Will come back again. But it still leaves a thin and sharp needle stuck in your heart, which cannot be removed. If it wants you to feel pain, you have to feel pain. 2. True purity is not innocence, nor is it ignorance of the dangers around us. But after seeing all kinds of suffering and ugliness, he still retains his original kindness and innocence and sticks to his principles. 3. Those who are happy because of your sadness are not good people; those who are happy because of your happiness are friends; those who are sad because of your sadness are those who should be kept in your heart. 4. True love must be cherished. No one is destined to be together. Life is not long. How lucky you are to meet the one you love. Why not hold his hand. 5. Love at first sight, romance may not last long. It's hard to be in love for a long time, but it's even harder to separate. Love at first sight is always related to appearance, and love over time is always related to habits. The slower you fall in love with someone, the longer you will love them. True love takes time to grow. 6. In the past, you knew that I was afraid of the dark, insects, and injections. But I still don’t know: What I fear most is that I will not marry you in the end. 7. People come into our lives one after another, walking side by side, gradually drifting away, and then, there is determination and forgetfulness. When we understand this, we begin to grow up and learn to live in beer and silence. We hide our thoughts in it, but it turns over and over in our memory, until one day we find that all this is fate and cannot be changed. "The Boy Here" by Jiangnan 8. You may have walked out of my sight, but you have never walked out of my thoughts. 9. Don’t waste your life on hating the people who torment you. You only have one life, and it’s not enough time to live it well. You have people you need to love and care for, and live the life you deserve. 10. If you can, please express the love in your heart. This is the best explanation for yourself. If you hold some words in for a long time, you will lose the courage to express them. The so-called regret is like this growing up day by day. The reason why we miss love is because: we have obviously opened our hearts, but we still keep our lips tightly closed. 11. People actually don’t need too many things. As long as they live healthily and love sincerely, they are also rich. 12. One of the best feelings is knowing that someone will never leave you easily. No matter what kind of setbacks and disputes we go through, we always come back in a circle. True love is just a kind of certainty that two people give each other. Even though those things that leave easily make people feel heartbroken, actually think about it, things that are lost too easily are not things that belong to you. 13. Look at the sky all day long without raising your head, only to raise your eyes when the peach blossoms are blooming. Mr. Rao also has a net that covers the sky, and he will be released even if he is imprisoned.

14. If you decide to give up something, please give it up completely. Those who decide never to meet again really don’t want to meet again. Please don't let me betray myself again. If you want to love others, please love yourself first. 15. Not everyone is sincere, don’t believe it so easily. 16. If love has a reason, then it is no longer love; if love has a purpose, then it is no longer love; if love can be explained, if love is reasonable, then love will cease to exist. Love is not logical, maybe this is the logic of love. 17. Even if no one is watching, you must work hard to grow, because there are many eyes hidden in places that you cannot see. 18. Friendship is so good. You don’t need to guess or ask, you just know that you are in the other person’s heart. Friendship is so good, you don’t have to start deliberately, and it will not end easily. It just goes hand in hand for many years. 19. How sad is a woman without a story? How deplorable is a woman with too many stories? The difficulty of being a woman lies in the scale. Everyone should have some stories when they were young, and everyone should have people and things that are memorable. And when I am no longer young, I have to be able to calmly make up my mind to return home. Be a woman with a story. Also be a woman who can escape and return to reality. A legend for one day and a lifetime of nostalgia. 20. If you are willing, I will love you forever. If you are not willing, I will miss you forever. 21. I am not used to showing the pain in my heart to others, because I am afraid of being comforted by others, and I don’t want to get mercy. Compared to the weak talking and crying, I prefer the strong to be proud and looked up to. There are dark clouds in my heart, but my face remains calm. Even if you are misunderstood, you don't clarify, don't explain, don't care, take these as your current strength. 22. In this world, not only strong wine can be intoxicating, not only passionate love can be profound. Sometimes, a lightness can last a long time; an unintentional feeling can linger in the dream; a simplicity can last a lifetime. 23. Even outstanding people are not confident. Beautiful women get plastic surgery because of this, and smart people become decadent because of it. This is not a question of ability, but a lack of inner strength. Not confident because you care too much about what others say. If you always think about what others think of you, you will certainly not have confidence. Therefore, just be yourself. A confident person must first learn not to care. 24. If you have a casual and accommodating attitude when you get married, then the best way is to maintain a casual and accommodating attitude throughout your life. You can't marry him casually and seriously expect to be loved. 25. Just living is not enough, you also need sunshine, freedom, and a little fragrance of flowers. 26. What lovers fear most is not being emotional, but a complete return to calm. Once everything is silent, it is the end of love. The more we stay together, the more we fall in love. Those men and women who are struggling, don't be annoyed: life is about movement, and love is destined to be a struggle. 27. It is impossible to tell the reason for truly loving someone. You just know that no matter when, where, in good or bad mood, you want this person to be with you. A collection of heartfelt words about sad love in the circle of friends 1. Take care of yourself by yourself, cover yourself with a quilt at night, don’t sit up suddenly when you wake up in the morning, it will cause a headache, don’t eat cold or spicy food, which is bad for your stomach, cross the road Look around when the time comes, eat well, don't wear just a few clothes, take medicine when you have a cold, don't stay up too late, remember to turn down the brightness of your phone when going to bed, otherwise there will be radiation, remember that I am caring about you. 2. In fact, I used to be a very cool person. I never chased anyone, and I never kept anyone who left. But when I met you, I felt terrible. I desperately begged you to talk to me, smile at me, and if you stay away from me, I would feel frightened and anxious, wishing that we were tied together. I could no longer be cool, and only after asking everyone did I know that this is called liking. 3. Do you believe that the person you want to spend your whole life with in the future will actually endure the same loneliness as you at the same time? That person must also be full of expectations and courageous, crossing the vast sea of ????people, and want to meet you. 4. I started to become cautious and didn’t dare to touch my feelings anymore.

5. The best love is a spiritual match. It seems that he is not rushing towards my light, but when he sees me and is struggling to move forward in the mud, he is gentle and calm, regardless of my embarrassment. Reach out. 6. Love has this kind of magic power that makes people revise their principles again and again, but then jump in without hesitation after falling again. 7. My criteria for selecting a mate are that he looks like you and has a personality like you, and it is best to be you. 8. Some things may be better if you hide them in your heart. After a long time, when you look back at them, they will become stories. 9. It turns out that I thought the easiest thing in the world was to forget. Later I finally understood that the hardest thing in the world is to forget. 10. Never humble yourself to please someone, even if that person seems perfect. 11. If you are destined to be mine in a few years, why don’t I exercise my rights sooner. 12. I hope you won’t meet someone like me again, who is sensitive, lacks love, always troubles you, often thinks about things, always bothering you to accompany me, it always makes you very tired, but I hope you will meet someone like this. People, because such people really love you. 13. To be honest, I don’t want to fall in love now. I am very resistant to falling in love now because I don’t want to break up when love is hopeless. I can’t bear it, it hurts like hell, and I don’t like to express my feelings anymore. Being in the hands of others will affect my life. I never feel that someone loves me more or thinks about me for a long time. I believe in love, but I don’t believe that it will happen to me. 14. When love is absent, learn to live your own life. To live your own life is to fall in love with yourself, treat yourself as your own lover, and pamper yourself. 15. Be less pretentious and more self-aware. 16. I blame my unremarkable face for not being able to keep your ambiguous and beating eyes. 17. Hundreds of pages of chat records are not as good as two identical admission notices. My dear, it’s not that I don’t miss you, it’s just that life is too difficult and if you don’t work hard, you will have a long way to go. 18. What I’m most afraid of is you saying, I wish I had met me earlier. 19. Meeting you is the most beautiful accident. 20. The person I envy the most is you, because you have my love and you can still be so ignorant. 21. 22. Love is not complicated in the first place. It only takes three words to come and go, either "I love you", "I hate you" or "Forget it", "How are you" and "I'm sorry". 23. I have been in love with you for three minutes, but I have been in love with you for so long. I remember you so clearly despite being careless. It’s not that you have all the things I like, but I like all the things you have. 24. Even if I am against the whole world, I will stand by your side. Because you are a part of my dream. If it is really fate that brought me misfortune to you, then I will follow you until I return all the happiness that fate has taken away from you to you. 25. When you hear about love, nine times out of ten you will be sad. Why not be clear about both and be A, B, C and D? 26. 27. I love you in my own way, but you say I don’t understand you, but I want to tell you that maybe what I give you is not what you want, but what I give you is what I think is the best. 28. Feelings must be able to be taken up and let go. When you come, I will treat you as if you will not leave. When you leave, I will treat you as if you have never been here. 29. Life is so long. Until you reach the end, you will never know which person will accompany you to the end. Sometimes you meet someone and think it's her, but later looking back, she actually just gave you what you wanted during this part of the journey. 30. You have to understand that I can love you, or I can change you. 31. People who are willing to eat with you love eating both sweet and bitter. People who want to see you have time every hour. People who can chat with you will never find you too talkative. People who pamper you will not laugh at you if you eat too much. You, the people who love you will try their best to make you happy. The people who want to send you home will come from all directions. As long as they like you, you can do whatever they want.

32. If I show affection one day, that person must be the best in the world. He will hold my hand, touch my head lovingly and whisper that he loves me, and then blush till his neck. But I won’t. And because of his melancholy words, I will no longer cry myself to sleep with my phone in my arms late at night. I think that is the love I want. 33. I will flash into your arms, heal you with healing techniques, stun you with my cuteness, kiss you violently, interfere with your breathing and heartbeat, and then run away quietly.