What's the reason if a person doesn't even have friends?

If a person does not have even one friend, it will not affect his life, but his life will be less colorful. When a person is annoyed and cannot talk to his relatives, he can only keep his worries in his heart; when he encounters something happy and wants to share it with everyone, he finds that there is no one to share the joy with. If a person doesn't even have friends, it may be a matter of personal character.

1. Problems with character

Birds of a feather flock together, and people fall into groups. No matter how introverted a person is, he will have a few friends for decades in his life. If you don’t have a single close friend, it’s likely that there’s something wrong with your character.

The most important thing when making friends is to treat each other with sincerity, rather than being self-centered and treating your friends as the saviors of your life and career. In this way, no matter how good your friends are, they will leave you.

2. Personality problems or mental illness

The personality problems mentioned here do not refer to introverted personality. Even the most introverted people can find like-minded friends as long as they take the initiative to communicate with others. Rather, it refers to people with mental illness, such as depression or social phobia. These people don't like to socialize, and even existing friends don't want to maintain relationships. He has a negative attitude toward the entire interpersonal relationship.

3. Poverty limits social circles and inferiority complex

Many people feel that maintaining a friendship requires not only time and effort, but also money. If their financial conditions are not good, , I felt that I couldn’t hold my head high among my friends, and gradually we stopped contacting each other.

In fact, there is no shortage of friends around us. From elementary school, middle school, high school, university, work and various circles, we will always meet one or two friends with whom we can talk and be close to each other. It's just that as everyone's education level and income level have changed, the distance between them has slowly widened. While we are meeting new friends, we are losing old friends. If you still have friends who have been with you since childhood, cherish them. Friends who have not been washed away by time are true friends.