The dowry room didn't write the boyfriend's name, and the prospective mother-in-law got married. Is this marriage still necessary?

Some people say that material and rich material foundation are the guarantee of women's marriage; Others say it is a man's preference. Men love you just to give you the sense of security you want. In fact, in marriage, love is as important as material things. Without a certain material foundation, most women will have opinions about their men. Without love, it is difficult for two people to run a marriage together.

Although love is the same as material things, many women are realistic now. Love without material foundation is not only without the support of parents, but also uncomfortable. In the minds of many women, buying a house and a car is a necessity for men and their obligation. Only when a man can afford an RV and add a woman's name can he feel safe enough.

However, not all families can afford these material conditions and high loans. I don't know when the young people got married and suddenly became the burden of the old people. The money for buying a house and a car requires parents to prepare in advance, and the bride price money also depends on parents. It is impossible to afford the down payment of a house by relying on the money earned by young people in society. Unconsciously, buying a house and a car has become an obligation that the man's parents must do. If they can't do it, they will be rejected.

When you are in love, if you don't get a reciprocal response, you will become uneasy. However, if there is no love, it is acceptable to have something to offset, such as money, a stable life and so on. However, that feeling is sometimes too strong to bear. If you only bear this feeling unilaterally, this relationship is doomed to end.

Whether it is feelings or money, it is necessary to distinguish that two people are equal and no one can have more. So women also know that in this world, nothing is taken for granted, marriage is equal, and no one should take it for granted to pay for each other. Even if a person loves himself again, he should not be asked to give everything for himself.

Emotionally, so is money. It is impossible to have a white wolf with empty gloves. No one is a fool. The first person to compromise in love is mostly because of love, and there is no other reason. Don't be silly. Losing someone you love for money. Never kidnap your in-laws at any time. After marriage, you and your husband are family. Please stand on your own feet. If you can't be an independent parent, don't expect your children to be filial to you.