When you go back to your hometown during the Chinese New Year and are asked how much your salary is, would you say it is higher or lower?

Speak lowly!

I remember in 2005, my income was more than 10,000 yuan a month. When I returned to my hometown in the countryside, when I said my salary was more than 3,000 yuan, others thought I was bragging, thinking that it was at most more than 1,000 yuan a month.

Some relatives heard that the salary was more than 3,000, and they said with envy, how could they spend all their money on such a high salary?

Wages are generally higher now, but urban wages and expenses are far beyond the imagination of rural people.

To avoid trouble, just say one-third of your income!

When I was asked how much my salary was when I went home during the Chinese New Year, I always told the truth and said how much it was. When I first graduated from graduate school, my monthly salary was 1,900 yuan. When relatives asked me how much I earned, I told the truth without feeling embarrassed. Later, when I earned 19,000 yuan, when my relatives asked me how much I earned, I told the truth and didn’t think I was that great!

Because in my opinion, relatives asking about salary is nothing more than the following two kinds of psychology. As long as you can meet their psychological needs, it actually doesn't matter whether your salary is more or less.

In fact, many of us will encounter this situation. For example, after graduating from college, we go to Beijing and choose a good company, which sounds very good. But in fact, only you know the ups and downs.

For those relatives who have stayed in their hometown and are not very close to us, at least they don’t really care about us, they will think that you have stayed in Beijing after graduating from university, but your salary Isn't it not too high? This is in line with their kind of joke mentality. They think that you, a college student, are not as good as those of us who have never gone to college. You, who develop in the capital, are not as good as us who stayed in our hometown.

If they have this mentality, you should satisfy their psychology. As long as you know what you haven't told them: Although your salary is not high, your benefits are high and your year-end bonus is large. The year-end bonus is enough for their two years of salary; If you have a Beijing household registration, your future and the future of your children will be much better than those who stay in your hometown. Although your salary is not high, your quality of life in Beijing is high. You can go to science and technology museums and museums when you have time. You can go to concerts and see art exhibitions. In addition to playing mahjong and playing KK songs on weekends, what spiritual pursuits do the people in your hometown have?

You don’t have to say these words, but if you tell them your real salary, it will not only satisfy their joke mentality, but you can also feel happy in your heart. These frogs in the well are simply not worth letting. I tell my truth

In fact, this situation also exists. Sometimes we think too badly of our relatives. For example, some elders ask you whether your salary is high or low. They just want to know how you are now. Are you doing well?

For example, some immediate family members, such as grandpa, grandma, grandma, grandpa, they don’t have any malicious intention in asking about your salary, they just want to know about your living situation, and they can show off to old friends when they go out to chat. one time.

If this is the case, just tell them directly. There is no need to hide it. After all, immediate family members are generally sincere to us. If they want to care about you, you should care for them. Opportunities, even if I really don’t earn enough now, I will still be young and have opportunities to develop and rise in the future.

In fact, the above two situations are basically covered. Those relatives who are relatively distant from us ask about your salary. If you want to satisfy their psychology of watching jokes, you should satisfy them. At the same time, you actually He was also full of contempt for them in his heart, and no one would lose anything if he reciprocated with courtesy.

For those relatives who want to care about you, you must also tell them sincerely, because only by telling them your true situation can you live up to their concern for you. At the same time, if the situation is not good Well, you should make up your mind to improve your situation. If you do well, your relatives will be happy with you. Why not?

This is not a problem, it is simply a huge pit!

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It’s too much to say, people will think that no matter what you go out to do, you will not get along well. Not only you, but your parents may also be despised;

If what you want to say is similar to the local salary level, people will say, you can come back. If you leave your home and career outside, why don’t you come back if you earn as much as you do at home;

So , when someone asks you about your salary when you go home during the Chinese New Year, the answer here is knowledgeable. As a young man who has been away for three years, I am often asked about salary by others after I return home.

My normal monthly salary is about 8K, plus income from self-media, my monthly income can be almost 13K, but I will not tell others about this part of my income.

When relatives or neighbors ask me this question, I just say directly that my monthly salary is 8k, after deducting five insurances and one housing fund, I get 6k, which includes rent, water and electricity, favors, gifts, and other messy things. Expenses can only be 2K left at most in a month. When they hear this, they think, oh, the more you earn, the more you spend. This is indeed the case outside.

This statement is neither demeaning nor bragging. In fact, if you analyze it carefully, the mystery behind it is very interesting. If you are only thinking about how you should answer, then you will fall into Single question answering mode.

In fact, what you really want to think about is what answer these people who ask you questions want to hear. Even if the answer has little to do with your real situation, if you say it, they will It's enough to feel comfortable. Because in the eyes of others, all they care about is a number, and it has nothing to do with whether you work hard, grow, or improve your abilities. Only when this number is satisfactory, your answer will be considered "correct."

When you go home during the Chinese New Year, should your salary be higher or lower? My point is to be honest.

I am a section-level cadre with 31 years of service. After many years of hard work in the county, I moved from deputy section to full section. I am now a civil servant, and I am considered a relatively dazzling one in the eyes of my hometown people. I am a star, but when it comes to my salary, I become very, very embarrassed.

I know that people in my hometown are relatively conservative. How should I put it? Your income is still relatively low. When they ask about your salary, on the one hand, they want you to have a high salary and express their blessings to you; on the other hand, they want you to have a high salary and be helpful to them. My salary is really embarrassing, and I can only take care of myself. If I want to help them, it would be too much, and if I want them to be proud of my salary, it would be wishful thinking.

Because my salary is only more than 3,900 yuan.

So how did I get here after all these years?

The first is to live frugally,

The second is to climb the grid to earn two royalties.

Therefore, when people at home ask about my salary, I always say honestly that I don’t dare to pretend to be fat.

This question is actually very interesting and I need to answer it properly. Let me tell you my real situation. Regardless of whether I am rich or handsome, I am from a rural area. I was lucky enough to go to college. I am a hardworking person in my 30s this year. This question is really divided into age groups, because I am in different When someone of my age asked me about my salary, my answer would indeed be different.

1. I have just graduated and started working. The question I hear most when I get home is, where to work? What work? How much do you earn in a month? At that time, I had a little bit of vanity, but it was not very strong. However, I was afraid of being looked down upon by my relatives and neighbors, so I would make the job easier and talk more about the salary, but not too exaggerated. My real salary at that time was more than 2,000 (in 2008, it was actually quite a lot, haha), but if I was a bit vain, I would say more than 3,000.